In this Internet era, cultural collision has become a trend, and there are many stories hidden behind it, just like the love story of German Internet celebrity Ah Fu and Chinese daughter-in-law Julie, which is simply a living example.
At the beginning, Ah Fu simply moved to settle down because he fell in love with Shanghai, and also raised two cats, one called "steamed bun" and the other called "bread". During his days of studying in Shanghai, he met the destined Julie, and the two began a romantic chapter of transnational love, one Chinese and one Western, not to mention how interesting.
But since the two of them embarked on the road of self-media, things have begun to change. Ah Fu became popular with his funny videos, and the number of fans swished up, and the distance between Chinese and Western cultures seemed to have been shortened by him, and everyone said that they were a model of transnational love.
However, over time, things get complicated. Work and private life are mixed, there are many disputes, and marital problems surface. Julie's depression is a big problem, and having a child has become an insurmountable hurdle.
As it is said on the Internet, life is not only about the improvisation in front of you, but also about poetry and distance. The story of Ah Fu and Julie shows this vividly. Their love is not only romantic, but also the collision of cultures, the challenges of life, and the exploration of the soul.
Seriously, the most difficult test of love is not the temptation outside, but the inner struggle and choice. Julie is very good, she dares to leave, not because of other people's eyes, but for herself. Ah Fu is probably also competing with himself.
On April 29, Julie posted a video saying that her two-year marriage with Ah Fu was over. She said that she felt that she was very brave and finally freed from a seemingly stable marriage, she chose to obey her heart, no longer let the label of "wife" be shackled, she didn't want to be overwhelmed by this identity anymore, she didn't want to lose herself because of it, and deny herself. The two of them don't have so many bloody plots, but she is still grateful to Ah Fu for his companionship and understanding in the past twelve years.
She also said, "I still love him, but I have to learn to love myself first, otherwise my love will become an expectation, and I want to reciprocate." In the past two years, I have not been able to give him a complete home because of the problem of having a child, but now I feel that God is helping us to make it easier for us to separate. It's not easy to get out of this relationship, and I'm slowly recovering. ”
Although the ending is not perfect, Ah Fu said: "Life is like chocolate, you can never guess what the next one will taste like." "Every experience is a treasure, and every choice is growth. Hopefully, they can find happiness on their respective paths.