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Be a human being, don't be embarrassed.
Often, the more embarrassed you are, the more opportunities slip away.
In fact, there is nothing to be embarrassed about, if you want to get a high salary, then you work hard, and if you want to catch up with your beloved, then you muster up the courage to confess.
It's also embarrassing, that's embarrassing, often in the end it's not your own.
Watching others get high salaries, watching loved ones being taken away by others.
Life is like this, you have to learn to be cheeky, it's no big deal, just be yourself, in fact, others won't care about you at all, so why bother yourself?
In this life, don't be embarrassed anymore, no matter how embarrassed you are, you will be old, what do you want to do?
People, don't be embarrassed, every word touches your heart.
1. Go your own way and let others say go!
I like to cook, I like to cook food, I will take pictures, and I will post them to my circle of friends, but some people will say that they like to show off when they see it.
In fact, if we are in the heart and care at this time, we often lose.
Although it is good to go your own way, in fact, what other people say really doesn't matter.
Can someone else live for you, can someone else work for you, can someone else be happy for you?
Everyone works hard in their own world, running around for the happiness of the family.
Sometimes some people will disdain it, and some people will not be used to it, so let him go.
It's good that we know we're not like that, and of course, if there's complacency, then it's better to correct it.
People live their own lives, and their families are only their own responsibilities and obligations, their own love, and their own icing on the cake.
Everything revolves around you, and you are the center.
Don't live in the eyes of others, be the truest self, that's it.
Nothing to be embarrassed about.
The so-called green vegetables and radishes have their own love, and we don't have to be strong.
Mr. Fan said that people should be humble, and only in this way can they be virtuous and blessed.
Repair your own path, repair your heart, focus on your present moment, be calm for a lifetime, and have a clear conscience, this is the greatest blessing.
Second, "be thick-skinned", and blessings will come.
Confucius was sensitive and studious, and he was not ashamed to ask questions.
Actually, how many people do it?
Especially for sales, if we put ourselves in the position of the seller, just the attitude of the salesman, rather than humbly asking the customer for advice, then it will be difficult to succeed in this single business.
Clothing knowledge is only the basic, in fact, the customer is our teacher.
Because customers know what style they like, what kind of clothes they need to buy, what kind of clothes they need, what kind of clothes suit them?
At this time, it is necessary to be "cheeky" and communicate well with customers.
Often, many times it is because of embarrassment, thin-skinnedness, or lack of skills, and they fail early.
In fact, everyone is like this, if students are "cheeky" and develop the habit of being diligent and inquisitive, then they can often reap fruitful results.
Everyone is the same, don't be afraid of being ridiculed by others, let alone be talked about by others.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang said that there are people in this world who can understand you, and there are people who can't understand you.
What we really care about is actually just the face on the surface.
Not much benefit at all.
Learn more from the sage Confucius and "ask questions without shame", then our life will be transparent and blessings will come to us.
3. Learn to be kind, and you win!
Between husband and wife, learn to be kind.
Is only a gift given to you by the other person a gift? Is only the love that the other person takes the initiative to give is love?
In fact, the other party is eager to be needed, if we ask for some gifts, some love, in fact, we are often more able to enter each other's feelings.
There's nothing to be ashamed of, I fell in love with a beautiful dress, I fell in love with a book, and I can actually talk to each other.
You can also explain to the other party that you hope that the other party can buy it for you, in fact, when the other party receives this signal, his heart is very happy.
Because it sounds like being coquettish, it's actually expressing your love to the other party.
You generously offer your mouth, and the other party generously accommodates your request.
There is a need for mystery in the relationship, but sometimes there is no need to be too mysterious, simple, you don't have to try to guess, the other party cares more about you.
It depends on when the other party takes the initiative to give, and also takes into account the time when the other party cannot take the initiative to give.
If you are sparse, there will eventually be a leak.
You should also be considerate of the other party's negligence, which is actually your own negligence.
There is no such thing as perfect things, and there is no perfect love.
In short, when it's time to be embarrassed, you have to be embarrassed, and often, you win.
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