Text: Marriage counselor Liu Jie
In the process of interacting between men and women, women are often more subtle, they will not express their hearts directly, and they will not easily say the word "love".
Especially, when love is just budding, most women will not easily confide in their hearts.
However, when a woman talks to you, she begins to shy away from certain topics and even take the initiative to mention them. Then, it is often a sign that she is quietly in love with you.
Today, we are going to talk about the topics that these three women do not shy away from and see how they hint at their love through these topics.
01
Don't shy away from talking about your family and life
Home is the most private and important place for each of us.
Be a woman who is willing to open up to you and share the bits and pieces of her family, even some seemingly trivial things.
This is enough to show that she has treated you as someone you can trust and rely on.
She hopes that you can get to know her better, understand her growth environment, and understand her living habits. And all because she has a special affection for you.
As the writer Zhang Ailing said: "Because I understand, I am compassionate." ”
When a woman is willing to let you go deep into her life and understand her joys and sorrows, this is not only a kind of trust, but also an emotional sustenance.
She wants you to be a part of her life and share the joys and pains of life with her.
02
He is not shy about talking about his past and future
Everyone has their own past, and some experiences may be beautiful, while others may be painful and unwilling to be mentioned.
When a woman is willing to reveal her past to you, whether it is a moment of joy or a moment of unbearable recollection.
It can be seen that she has regarded you as a person to talk to with confidence. You are an important presence in her heart, and she is willing to tell you the "secret" in her heart.
Of course, she wants you to understand her past and accept all of her, both good and bad.
If, in addition to talking about the past, she is also willing to talk to you about the future, then this is a strong signal.
She has probably included you in her future life, and hopes that you can work with her to achieve it together.
Having expectations and plans for the future is precisely an indispensable part of love.
Leo Tolstoy once said: "The value of life is not measured by time, but by depth." ”
When a woman is willing to let you know her more deeply, including the past and the future, this is undoubtedly a manifestation of her attraction to you.
She hopes that you can walk hand in hand with her, and there will be sweet memories all the way.
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Don't shy away from talking about your feelings and expectations
In love, the most direct and unspeakable thing is often the feelings and expectations of the other half.
When a woman begins to express her affection for you, her appreciation for you, and even her expectations for you, then there is no doubt that this is the most straightforward signal that she is in love with you.
She will compliment you on your appearance, praise your talents, or express concern for you, or a faint concern. These are her true feelings.
When a woman does not shy away from expressing her feelings for you, this is certainly not a frivolity, but an expression of her sincere feelings.
She wants you to feel her love, and she wants you to respond to her feelings.
A woman's mind, although elusive, is not shy to talk to you about her family, her past and future, and her feelings and expectations for you.
She is actually already opening up to you and secretly falling in love with you.
As a man, what you have to do at this time is not to doubt and hesitate, but to respond to her love bravely, and to go to the sweetness and happiness of love with her.
In this world, there are not many people who really love you, and when you meet it, you must grasp it well and don't let happiness slip away from your hands.