In a person's life, there are many factors that affect his fate and happiness.
However, there is one thing that cannot be determined by origin, money or hard work, but can play a vital role in the path of life, and that is one's own cultivation.
Self-cultivation refers to the quality and demeanor of a person's morality, attitude, behavior, etc. in social life.
It is not a one-time effort, but an accumulation and honing in daily life.
My own cultivation has a profound impact on a person's life, and here are some of my thoughts on this.
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First of all, one's own cultivation determines the relationship between people.
In social interactions, people tend to be more willing to associate with well-cultivated and sincere people.
A kind, tolerant and cultured person is often able to win the respect and trust of others, thus building a good network.
People who lack self-cultivation are often prone to arouse the disgust and disgust of others, leading to tension and breakdown of interpersonal relationships.
Therefore, one's self-cultivation largely determines one's status and reputation in society.
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Secondly, one's own self-cultivation affects one's attitude towards difficulties and setbacks.
Life is full of various challenges and trials, and in the face of these difficulties, well-cultivated people are often able to maintain an optimistic and tenacious attitude, and bravely face and overcome them.
They are able to learn from their failures and keep growing and improving.
On the contrary, people who lack cultivation are often knocked down by difficulties, lose confidence, and even choose to escape and give up.
Therefore, one's self-cultivation directly affects one's performance and results in the face of challenges.
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Thirdly, one's own cultivation determines one's attitude and behavior towards others.
A cultivated person is often able to be considerate of others, respect their rights and feelings, and treat those around them well.
They are helpful, willing to share with others, and willing to work for the benefit of others, thus building good relationships and social reputations.
However, people who lack selfishness are often selfish, only care about their own interests, and do not care about the feelings of others, and are prone to conflicts and contradictions with others, leading to tension and rupture of interpersonal relationships.
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Finally, one's own cultivation determines one's inner world and spiritual realm.
Well-cultivated people tend to have a peaceful mind and a peaceful heart, and can look at the gains and losses of life with a detached attitude, and face successes and failures.
They are able to maintain inner balance and peace and will not be swayed by the temptations and troubles of the outside world.
People who lack self-cultivation are often impetuous, anxious, and easily affected by external factors and fall into mood swings and confusion.
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To sum up, one's self-cultivation not only affects a person's status and reputation in society, but also directly affects his attitude towards life, behavior, interpersonal relationships and inner realm.
Therefore, we should always pay attention to and improve our self-cultivation, cultivate good character and attitude, and face the challenges and changes of life with a more positive, healthy and happy attitude.
Only with good cultivation can we truly enjoy a lifetime of happiness and tranquility.