Chen Kaige said: All belief starts from naivety. A true actor is naïve. Hard-hearted people don't believe in anything.
Women are naïve in their relationships, they believe in love, and they are often soft-hearted because the man they like is easy to give up some of their principles and obey each other.
But men are more rational than women after all, whether they are in love or married, men always think a lot more than women. So when in love, no matter how much a woman likes a man, she can't just plunge into it.
But you're already an adult, you have to know how to be responsible for yourself. You must know that not all men who take the initiative to approach you and confess to you really like you, some men just want to flirt with you and don't want to be responsible for you at all.
If you don't want to get hurt, you have to learn to distinguish between a man's sincerity and his falsehood. Men are just "playing" with you, and they will use these 4 ways to treat you, women, don't be too naïve!
01
Still claiming to be single
In life, many men who obviously have girlfriends will still declare that they are single in front of the opposite sex. Of course, he usually carries his girlfriend behind his back and doesn't dare to be blatant.
When a man has such a move, it means that he does not regard the woman around him as his girlfriend, but has been looking for another woman who can attract him.
No matter how the man explains it to his girlfriend, all the explanations are just a cover-up. He doesn't love her, so he doesn't want to admit that he has a girlfriend in front of anyone.
Some men will say, "The company does not allow love", "My boss is still single, how can I fall in love?" and other reasons, men will say so much that they almost believe it. But a man can't deceive himself, if he doesn't love, he doesn't love.
02
Playing ambiguously with other women
If a man "kidnaps" you in the name of love, he will still unscrupulously play with other women behind your back at any time and anywhere. In short, don't miss a single opportunity.
If a man is full of only thinking about how to get more women, and keeps you by his side like a spare tire, and doesn't care about your sadness and pain, it means that he doesn't love you at all.
Even if you find out that he is having an affair with another woman, he doesn't care, and even if you make a fuss and want to break up, he won't keep it at all. Because in his heart, he feels that you can't really leave him, and when he needs you, he can coax you back to him by saying a few sweet words to you. So, whether you are sad or sad does not matter to him.
03
Never mention marriage and the future
Two people are in love deeply, and it is natural to step into the marriage hall, even if it is not too fast, they will have imagination for the future and a plan for living together in the future.
But a man never mentions marriage to you, never talks to you about the future, which means that he is not ready to marry you.
Or to put it more bluntly, he doesn't want to marry you at all, he doesn't want to have a future with you, otherwise he would have planned everything properly.
A man, if he only cares about the present when he gets along with you, and has no plans for the future, in fact, he just doesn't love you and just plays with you, and sooner or later he will be separated, so he feels that there is no need to think about these things.
04
I like to make promises to you, but I don't have the attitude of giving
In love, commitment is like a bright star, lighting up our expectations for the future.
But you know what? True love is not just a matter of words. If a person only talks about it but never acts on it, then these promises may be like bubbles that can burst at the first poke.
Think about it, if a man says to you all day long, "I'll take you to see the world" and "I'll give you the best life", but in fact can't even accompany you to a meal or a movie, how much credibility do you think these promises have?
Therefore, when you find that the other person's commitment is always as far away as a castle in the air, it is time to think about whether the relationship is worth continuing. After all, true love needs to be proved with practical actions.
05
Emotional message
Love is originally like a person drinking water, whether it is cold or warm, only you can understand whether he is sincere or false to you, I believe it can be detected from daily interactions.
For a person who doesn't love you, I advise you to withdraw as soon as possible, don't make senseless contributions for an unworthy person, no matter how much you do, you can't touch his heartstrings, and you will even think that you are easy to deceive.
In a relationship, you must not only know how to stick to your own principles, but also learn to love yourself and don't waste your feelings casually, only in this way can you meet someone who truly loves you.
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