In reality, some people have a little good thing, so they can't help but tell the people around them, or post it to the circle of friends to show off.
But in fact, these good things are left to yourself. There's no need to shout, the whole world knows it.
Doing this for a long time can easily lead to risks.
In reality, many people are jealous.
A small number of people, even with bad intentions, will do what they do to do things for you.
When the time comes, the good hole cards in your hand will be destroyed. When the time comes, you can't regret it, and it's too late.
When people are over 50 years old, they should keep their hole cards in their lives secret.
If there is no fixed number in your heart, then many blessings cannot be kept.
01 Your child's academic performance
In reality, one of the themes of middle-aged people's social interaction is always talking about children.
But in fact, it is not necessarily a good thing to over-inform others about your child's achievements.
It's true.
For example, the children of some families are very prosperous and go to prestigious universities.
Do you really think that his neighbors, relatives and friends will envy and praise him?
Not necessarily.
There will be a fair number of people who hope that their family is unlucky. It's jealousy.
There are even people who, in order to balance their minds, say a lot of bad things.
So you say, what's the point of posting these things to the circle of friends?
If you are over 50, if your children are good at school, that's a good thing. But don't let too many people know.
Not necessarily.
Because the occasion when you show off is the moment when some people are unhappy with you.
There may be hidden dangers buried, and it may not be said.
Income in '02
In reality, there is another thing to keep a low profile about children: income.
If people earn about the same amount, it won't be eye-catching, and it won't inspire malice in others.
But if you are good, especially if you are good, it may inspire malice.
If there is a villain who is targeting, it is a very bad thing for your children.
For example, if you are in a circle, everyone's children are ordinary people, and your children are good.
Then you should keep a low profile and don't take the initiative to provoke.
Otherwise, it will be easy to usher in more turmoil.
In reality, either, change the circle to a more matching circle.
If you're in the same circle, you're going to keep a low profile as much as possible.
Don't talk about your children's interests every day, it's easy to cause turmoil.
03 Own property situation
In reality, if a person has a fixed number and can protect the amount of his property, then he can enjoy blessings.
Once this person starts to be high-profile, it is easy to bring trouble.
Your so-called friends and relatives may come to intervene and beat your mind.
In this world, there are people who will take the initiative to calculate the property of others. It's true.
For example, some people have very solid family assets and are a bit high-profile.
In the end, he was calculated by the so-called friends, and suffered heavy losses, even tens of millions.
Isn't this a painful lesson?
When people live, don't really wait for the painful lesson to come, and then regret it. Because then, it's often too late.
When people are over fifty, they must put their mouths on their mouths and put the door on them.
Don't show off your hole cards to others in order to pass the boredom or show off.
Otherwise, you will lose your blessing and regret it.