The self-report of the cheating man: I know everything about the mistress's methods, but I will turn a blind eye!
After many original partners were derailed, the most unbearable thing was not the provocation from the junior.
It's the attitude of the cheating man after the wives told the cheating man about it.
If it's a little better, you may go to Xiao San and say it to Xiao San and let Xiao San stop a little.
The worse is perfunctory, but he won't take action to do anything for the original match.
What's worse is that he directly helped Xiao San suppress the original partner, making the original partner more painful.
Su Yue wants to remind the original partners that after a man cheats, you should not expect anything from the cheating man.
I feel that cheating men are all confused by the mistress, and he can't help himself or something.
He doesn't want to cheat, it's impossible for the junior to force him to cheat,
It's that he wants to cheat, and he knows what the junior is like, but he just turns a blind eye.
For example, a cheating man that Su Yue contacted before is an example.
This cheating man and his original partner have been married for eleven years, and there are seven years of long-distance love before they get married.
has known each other for nearly 20 years, what kind of person the original partner is, and the cheating man actually knows it very well.
But after the man cheated, he pretended to listen to the words of the mistress, believing that the mistress belittled the original partner.
I feel that the original match is not good everywhere, the original match is not good for him, and he is still calculated and so on.
When he quarreled with his original partner, the original partner accused him of cheating, and he blamed the original partner.
After the accusation is finished, you have to tell the original partner, these are all said by the junior.
Then the original partner will find trouble with the mistress, and the pressure on the cheating man will be reduced a lot.
Many people may think that men are straight men and don't know the twists and turns between women.
But this cheating man said the opposite, he knew it well, and he was using it for his own benefit.
Just like this cheating man said, he knows very well that Xiao San is playing tricks.
Xiao San's various accusations of the original partner are not good, and he knows that it is not true.
The original partner has a good personality, although he is a little quick-tempered, but the cheating man is a true feeling,
After a quarrel, he will not apologize and admit his mistakes, but he will also give the cheating man a step.
So there is no such thing as the original pair of cheating men is not good, calculating cheating men and the like.
The junior is just stepping on the original partner and wants to separate the relationship between the husband and wife.
The cheating man knew the mistress's methods, but he still pretended to be fooled.
is because it is beneficial to the cheating man, and the cheating is said to be a problem of the original partner.
The problem of cheating men is smaller, and cheating men are not exactly the side of being blamed.
In the end, the cheating man had to tell the original partner that it was the junior who said it,
directly shifted the attention of the original partner to the mistress, and the original partner was busy tearing up the mistress, so the cheating man didn't need to face too many conflicts.
Therefore, many juniors may not think that their methods to cheat men are clear.
How can wives tell the difference, does the cheating man know how the mistress calculates?
When there is a conflict between the original partner and the mistress, you can listen to what the mistress has to say.
Then go and talk about the situation when the cheating man comes home and the original partner says.
If Xiao San looks like he knows how the original partner looks, the cheating man just didn't tell Xiao San.
How will he tell the original partner, he will use the junior again, and he knows the junior very well.
In fact, the junior and the cheating man, some of the information between them,
It can be seen that the cheating man is not using the calculation of the mistress, and he is also calculating the mistress.
In addition, how can the original partner tell if the cheating man is also calculating you?
You can come back every time a cheating man comes back and say how the mistress is, blame the wife and so on.
You record it a little bit, and after a few times, you make a comparison.
If the cheating man says the same thing every time, it's what the mistress said,
If the cheating man says something differently every time, it is the cheating man's on-the-spot editing.
The cheating man blames the original partner in the name of the mistress,
is to arouse the resentment of the original pair of juniors, so that the original partners will go to the mistress if they have any dissatisfaction.
A cheating man can avoid being held accountable by the original partner, which is the calculation of a cheating man.
In addition, if the junior quarrels with the original partner every time, he can talk about the sore spot of the original partner.
Even many points exist objectively in the relationship between husband and wife, how did the junior understand,
It is more likely that the cheating man told the mistress, and the cheating man is supporting the mistress and the original partner to tear each other.
Let the original partner's energy be spent on Xiao San, and there will be no way to find out what is going on with the cheating man.
Many people encounter betrayal, but what they can't get over is the hurdle in their hearts.
"Which point is the junior better than me?"
"Does cheating mean I'm not good enough?"
and so on, which will cause the wife to fall into self-doubt,
Treat a man's infidelity as his own failure.
I hope all women can clearly realize one point:
How your partner treats you doesn't mean you're good, it's just that he's not!
It's not that the cheating man doesn't know what kind of virtue the junior is, it's just that if the junior doesn't hurt him, he can stay out of it.
This kind of man is selfish, only cares about himself, has no empathy, and does not see the pain of his wife.
So it's not that you're not good enough, it's the fault of the cheating man and the mistress!
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