There is a popular saying on the Internet: "Men are responsible for making money to support their families, and women are responsible for being beautiful like flowers." "There is a clear difference between men and women in the division of labor in the family.
It is a man's duty to work hard and earn money desperately, he bears the expenses of the family, and provides a superior living guarantee for his wife and children. Women's focus is on laundry, cooking, taking care of children, and taking care of the family's daily life, husband and wife perform their own duties, and the division of labor is clear, so that the family can become more and more warm, and the marriage can become happier and happier.
Some men do not make much money and have limited abilities, so they cannot provide a good living guarantee for women, but he asks women to take care of him wholeheartedly and make him feel the courtesy of an emperor, which is not only a demanding requirement for his wife, but also an overconfidence in himself. It is difficult for such a man to have a happy family, and family relations will be very stiff.
The 65-year-old uncle has a pension of 3,000 yuan, looking for a young and beautiful wife, asking the other party to serve him with tea and water, and asking her to take care of him wholeheartedly and provide him with high-quality services. This practice is very excessive, so he has been on a blind date more than 20 times and has never found a satisfactory wife, and he has been talked about by others, and the result is quite pitiful.
Uncle Zhao had a happy marriage, and his ex-wife was from the countryside, honest, hardworking, and willing to work. She didn't dislike Uncle Zhao's poor family, nor did she dislike Uncle Zhao's lack of ability, she willingly married Uncle Zhao and supported the whole family in obscurity.
Uncle Zhao not only cherishes this rare marriage, but finds fault everywhere, finds fault with his ex-wife who has no interest in life, does not know how to be romantic, and does not communicate with him. Uncle Zhao is dissatisfied, but whenever he has the opportunity, he quarrels with his ex-wife, and sometimes separates in a cold war, they have been married for more than 20 years, and the relationship between husband and wife has not been good.
Uncle Zhao is an idealist, and his greatest wish is to find a young and beautiful, gentle and considerate woman who loves to talk and laugh, and has a cheerful personality. The two of them are like glue, sweet and sweet, and enjoy a good life hand in hand. Uncle Zhao thinks that such a woman is perfect, and such a marriage can be considered happy.
Uncle Zhao's pension is more than 3,000 yuan, the housing area is 31 square meters, he lives alone in a narrow and closed room, has no hobbies, and does not like sports, Uncle Zhao likes to write and read, most of his time is spent on writing poetry and creation, and he is a literary old man.
Uncle Zhao doesn't have time to go shopping, nor does he have time to cook and eat, his biggest wish is to publish a few books in his lifetime, become a well-known writer, and be envied and sought after. In order to realize this wish, Uncle Zhao has been working hard.
Uncle Zhao's other wish is to find a young and beautiful, good-looking, figure-building wife, to become the envy of others, and at the same time, he can also feel the freshness and excitement, and experience the happiness and joy of life.
Uncle Zhao has been on a blind date more than 20 times, and his requirements for the other half are very high, and he doesn't consider women who are not good enough, have a good figure, and have unreliable character. Uncle Zhao feels good about himself, and thinks that handsome, chic and talented are his greatest assets, and he will never marry a woman who does not meet the requirements. Because of this, he took the initiative to reject those women, and the blind dates ended in failure.
Uncle Zhao and Aunt Li were introduced on a blind date. Aunt Li is 56 years old, with a pension of 1,700 yuan and a 70-square-meter house. Aunt Li is diligent and thrifty, likes to sing and dance, and also likes to shoot videos for live broadcasts.
Aunt Li doesn't worry about eating or drinking, and her life is leisurely, but she has a heart disease. Aunt Li has been divorced for many years, there is no man to rely on, and there is no way to experience the happiness of marriage, she often can't sleep in the dead of night, and the feeling of loneliness and loneliness is really unbearable.
Under the persuasion of friends, Aunt Li began to go on a blind date, she did not have high requirements for the other half, he should be healthy, have no bad habits, know how to be considerate and care about people, take Aunt Li to heart, and the two of them went shopping together, exercised together, and enjoyed a good old age together. Aunt Li thinks that such a man is more reliable, and she can have a happy life by marrying such a man.
After meeting, Uncle Zhao was excited, he praised Aunt Li for her good maintenance and beauty, and also praised Aunt Li for her kind face, she was a blessed person at a glance, and Uncle Zhao fell in love with Aunt Li at a glance. Aunt Li's attitude is also good, she thinks that Uncle Zhao is elegant and has a good conversation, and at first glance he is a cultured person, and their first impression is good.
Uncle Zhao has been on a blind date many times, and he has very high requirements for appearance, and he is very satisfied when he sees Aunt Li, thinking that Aunt Li is the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. Uncle Zhao didn't want to miss this good opportunity, so he launched a love offensive, hoping to win Aunt Li's favor and return to the beauty.
Uncle Zhao showed his advantages without reservation. Uncle Zhao's pension is more than 3,000 yuan, and he is willing to take the initiative to hand over his salary, and he is also willing to support Aunt Li to meet all of Aunt Li's needs for material and money. More importantly, Uncle Zhao is talented, and recited a few of his proud songs to Aunt Li on the spot, hoping to win Aunt Li's heart.
Uncle Zhao's idea is very good, but Aunt Li is not a girl in her 20s, and she will not be so easily conquered by men's sweet words, Aunt Li pays more attention to practical things. Aunt Li thinks that Uncle Zhao is healthy, talented, and interesting, which is his advantage, but his economic conditions are limited and the housing area is too small. And Uncle Zhao doesn't go out to make money, he just wants to stay at home and write, just imagine how such a man can provide her with good living conditions?
There is another problem Aunt Li cares about very much, Uncle Zhao doesn't know how to do laundry and cooking, and he doesn't want to do housework, he threw all these things to Aunt Li, and asked Aunt Li to take care of him in every detail.
Aunt Li thinks that Uncle Zhao uses her as a free nanny and lets her be a personal girl, Aunt Li has not received any substantial benefits, and she will never do this kind of loss-making business. Out of such considerations, Aunt Li refused, and the blind date failed again.
This incident has attracted widespread attention from netizens. Many people agree with Uncle Zhao's opinion, thinking that the elderly must find a wife, and physically they take care of each other and care for each other. Spiritually, they comfort each other and trust each other, and when they are fine, the two of them exercise together and enjoy a good old age together, so that life can be considered complete.
More people accused Uncle Zhao of being unrealistic. His income is not high, his own conditions are not good, and he still has unrealistic fantasies, planning to become a well-known writer, and on his terms, he can marry an ordinary woman, start a family, and live a normal life. However, Uncle Zhao is determined to find a young and beautiful woman, he is not capable of providing protection for women, but asks women to serve him like a master, which is very unreliable.
Some people also ridiculed: "Some men look very ordinary, but he is very confident, he is pretentious, he thinks that he is superior, he must find a woman with good looks, good image, virtuous and virtuous virtue, so as to live a happy life, this is just his wishful thinking!"
If you are Aunt Li, are you willing to marry Uncle Zhao? Do you think Uncle Zhao can find a satisfactory wife? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.