In the seemingly peaceful married life, I, as a wife who believes deeply in my husband, will one day wonder if my husband has betrayed me.
The man who used to speak sweetly to me and vowed to protect me for the rest of my life has been feeling stranger and stranger to me in recent times. Until one day, I decided to test him with a trumpet, but it turned out that I decided to divorce instantly.
01
My husband and I have been married for five years, and we used to be a model couple in the eyes of others. However, since June last year, I have noticed that my husband's behavior has become more and more abnormal.
He often worked late into the night, and his phone was always ringing. Whenever I tried to ask him who he was chatting with, he always acted a little impatient and even avoided talking about it. These subtle changes made me begin to wonder if he was already having an affair.
In order to test my suspicions, I decided to test my husband with a trumpet. I pretended to be a young girl and offered to chat with him.
At first, he was cautious, but gradually, he began to reveal some ambiguous words. He said that his married life was very depressed and he was eager to find a new love. These words pierced my heart like a sharp knife.
However, what made me most desperate was that when I tentatively asked him if he would like to meet me, he did not hesitate to say yes, and said that he would book the hotel in advance.
At that moment, I was completely devastated. I can't imagine that the man who had vowed to protect me for the rest of my life would betray our marriage so easily.
02
Later, I secretly looked at his phone while he was asleep at night. This look simply shattered my three views, he actually had dealings with several strange women on the Internet, and two of them had met and opened a room with him.
The next morning, I decided to confront my husband directly and put his betrayal on the table. When I asked him if he was having an affair, he was shocked and then weak.
"We just chatted online and didn't do anything. ”
"Do ordinary friends say I miss you or something?" I asked him coldly.
"Okay, I've just been mentally betrayed in the past few months, I'm sorry, I'll definitely change. ”
"Do you need to go to a hotel to open a room for spiritual betrayal?" I shouted angrily.
"I've only had sex with her once, and I swear there's no other woman but her. ”
In this way, under his toothpaste-like confession, he finally admitted that he had betrayed me, both mentally and physically.
In the face of conclusive evidence, he stopped trying to quibble, he said that he was just confused for a moment, and he didn't really want to betray me. However, these explanations no longer sound to me to be meaningful. His betrayal has become a fact, and I can't trust him anymore.
At that moment, I decided to divorce him, and I couldn't allow myself to live in deception and betrayal all the time.
03
After the divorce, I went through pain and struggle for a long time. But I slowly understood that leaving someone who betrayed me was actually a relief.
Now, I have come out of the shadow of divorce and regained my peace and tranquility.
Now, I've started my life all over again. I work hard, make new friends, and enjoy the little things in life. I believe that as long as I maintain a positive attitude and pursue my dreams and happiness bravely, I will be able to live the life I want.
Message from the setting moon:
I am glad that this netizen was able to come out of a wrong marriage in time.
There is a quote from Victor Hugo's "Notre Dame de Paris":
"The human heart can only tolerate a certain degree of despair, and the sponge has sucked enough water to add another drop of water to it, even if the sea flows over it. ”
Therefore, if there is no trust in a marriage, there is no room for redemption in this marriage.