#头条创作挑战赛#每年的五一期间, it is the time of the year when the scenery and climate are particularly comfortable, at this time, many couples will choose to set a good day during the May Day period, so that it is convenient to invite relatives and friends to participate, and the warm and comfortable weather can also wear a beautiful wedding dress.
Now participating in the wedding is also a time for everyone to show their cultivation and conduct, because they can be invited to the wedding, they are all relatives and friends of the couple, and there are many guests, many people are usually very familiar with it.
The highlight of participating in the wedding, in addition to watching the ceremony, everyone pays more attention to drinking wedding wine, after all, everyone participates in the wedding with their share of money, drinking wedding wine and eating a big banquet, which is also the reason why everyone is attracted to participate in the wedding.
Go to drink wine on May Day, the 4 most priceless behaviors at the banquet, people over 30 years old must know.
1. Don't pour wine when there are only three dishes on the table
Nowadays, the wedding menu in most places is basically 16 or 18 dishes, because the wedding banquet dish is about pairs.
The order of serving wedding banquet dishes is also exquisite, that is, at the beginning it is cold dishes and cold dishes, then large dishes and small stir-fries, and finally it must be a whole fish to press the table, which means that there is more than wealth.
At this time, everyone needs to watch the ceremony, and the waiter will be busy serving, and when the three dishes are served, they can't wait to pour wine and drink, which is a taboo for drinking wine, because the variety of dishes will be very rich on this day, and the folk have always had the saying that "the dishes are not three", and "you can't eat four dishes in a lifetime" It is also a very poisonous sentence, so when drinking wedding wine, remember not to pour wine and drink wine when there are only three dishes on the table, so that it will be laughed at by the people at the table, especially those who are over 30 years old should know some traditional culture and customs.
2. The maiden guest will leave the table if he does not leave
The most respected person when drinking wedding wine is the guest of the maiden family, so in the traditional folk custom, you must wait until the guest leaves the table before leaving.
The maiden guests who attend the wedding and drink the wedding wine are also very sensible, and they usually leave the table early when they are almost eating, because it is not appropriate for the girl to be present at the wedding ceremony.
In order to show respect for the mother's guest, the man's guests should wait for the mother's guest to leave the table, otherwise it will be a formality to drink the wedding wine, and the sincerity and heart are not enough, and it will also make the mother's guest think that he is not sensible, and young people can ignore these, but those who are over thirty years old and have reached the age of starting a family, this etiquette still needs to be understood.
3. Take the loose smoke on the table
As the saying goes, "tobacco and alcohol are not separated", there will be four dishes of dried fruits, cigarettes, candy and fruits on the wine table, which is to entertain guests and use them for casual chatting when the wine and food are not served.
Cigarettes at wedding banquets are usually placed on a plate after the cigarette case is opened, and those who can smoke at this time can smoke with the permission of the people at the table, but it is stingy and cheap to put the loose cigarettes on the table in their pockets.
Cigarettes at wedding banquets are generally used for another purpose, that is, the bride and groom will toast the guests, which is expected to be laughed at for a long time afterwards if they are taken away in full view.
4. Continue to drink after the soup is served
There is an unwritten rule at the wedding banquet that as soon as a dish is served, everyone understands that it is all the dishes, and they are ready to pack up and leave, and this dish is usually a soup dish.
Now the standard of living has improved, drinking wine is basically chosen in the hotel, after everyone sends blessings, there are few endless eats, basically this soup is on the table, everyone also understands that you can no longer delay the host's affairs, at this time you love to drink and hold back, because this "egg soup" is on the table, and then pour wine and drink is a little ignorant.
During the May Day period, it is the time for weddings to get together, in addition to dressing up when going to drink wedding wine, the etiquette on the wine table should also pay attention to it, and these 4 kinds of price reduction behaviors, as mature, people over 30 years old must understand.