Hello dear readers and friends~
At our age, watching our children grow up is an important part of life. However, excessive pampering can sometimes have irreparable consequences. Today I want to talk about Liu Lu's story, a family tragedy caused by doting.
Liu Lu and her husband Zhang Ming are successful white-collar workers with good living conditions in third-tier cities. After years of infertility treatment, Liu Lu finally conceived their baby daughter at an advanced age. This child is hard-won for them, therefore, from an early age, they are treated as a pearl in the palm of their hands, and they will try their best to satisfy whatever they want.
However, this kind of doting did not make her daughter learn to be grateful and respectful, but made her become willful and reckless, feeling that the world should revolve around her. During college, her life was even more lawless, and her love life was also casual, changing her boyfriend was like changing clothes, which made Liu Lu very worried.
Liu Lu's worst fear finally happened, her daughter couldn't integrate into society after graduation, and she became what everyone called an "old girl". In order for their daughter to have a good home, Liu Lu and Zhang Ming decided to help their daughter find a partner through a marriage agency. After some hard work, the daughter finally went on a blind date with a man, and the two families got along well.
However, the good times did not last long, and on the wedding night after the wedding, the son-in-law discovered his daughter's past and angrily questioned Liu Lu, only to understand that no matter how high the bride price was, it could not cover up the flaws in her daughter's character and past behavior. The daughter was returned home, which made Liu Lu's family a laughing stock among relatives and friends.
The lesson of this story is profound. As parents, our love should not be doting. True love should be for children to learn to be independent, to respect others, and to be responsible. We should not only give our children the best material conditions, but also give them the right values and outlook on life.
Do you have any examples of spoiling children going down the wrong path? Let's discuss how we can find a healthy balance between love and indulgence. We all want our children to be responsible, caring, and respectful people, and this is the best love we can give them.
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