As the saying goes: Tombstones do not stand three times, which 3 types of people are not suitable for tombstones?
When we walk through the fields and mountains, we often see tombstones of various shapes. They represent those who have passed away, and are a remembrance and remembrance of them. However, there is a saying that "tombstones do not stand three times", so which three types of people are not suitable for tombstones? Today, we will talk about this topic.
1. Minors should not erect monuments
First of all, it is not advisable for minors to erect monuments. It may sound cruel, but when you think about it, it makes sense. Minors are still in the formative stages of life, and their future is full of possibilities. Erecting a monument means commemorating the end of a person's life, and the life of a minor is just beginning. Therefore, it seems premature, even sad, to erect a monument for them. Of course, the minors mentioned here are not only young children, but more importantly, they have not yet reached the stage of psychological and physical maturity. In the family, minors still need the care and guidance of their parents. Erecting a monument to them too early not only does not mean much to them, but also brings unnecessary grief to the family.
"Young people are the future of the motherland and the hope of the nation. This is a well-known saying. Minors are in the best time of their lives, and their dreams and hopes are like shining stars that light the way ahead. At this time, we should cheer for their future instead of dwelling on the memories of the past. Therefore, it is not appropriate for minors to erect monuments, which is not only a respect for them, but also an expectation of their future life.
2. Those who have merit but do not leave a name are suitable for heart burial
There is a good saying: "Since ancient times, no one has died, leaving Dan to take care of his sweat." "In life, whatever we do, we should keep it in mind. But there are always some people in life who give silently and do not ask for anything in return, and even some people have merit but do not leave a name. For these people, we may not be able to erect a monument for them, but we can choose to bury our hearts. Heart burial, as the name suggests, is to bury their spirit in our hearts forever.
These people may be our relatives, friends, or unsung heroes in society. They use their actions to interpret what is kindness and what is bravery. Although they did not leave their names, their spirit lives forever in our hearts. Therefore, for these people, we do not need to erect monuments for them, we just need to pass on their spirit and let more people know about their existence.
3. Those who are unfilial during their lifetime are not suitable for erecting monuments
Finally, we would like to say that those who were unfilial during their lifetime are not suitable for erecting monuments. Filial piety is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and it is also a basic morality that everyone should abide by. If a person is not filial to his parents during his lifetime, then even after his death, we should not erect a monument for him. Because, erecting a monument is an affirmation of a person's behavior before life, and if a person is not filial during his life, then his behavior should not be affirmed.
Of course, the unfilial piety mentioned here does not refer to some trivial things, but to those behaviors that seriously violate filial piety. For example, disrespect, nurturing, and not teaching to parents. These actions not only violate filial piety, but also hurt the feelings of others. Therefore, for these people, we should not erect a monument for them, but should reflect on our own actions and strive to be a filial person.
In short, although the saying "three tombstones do not stand" is a bit cruel, there is some truth to it. We should respect life, cherish the people in front of us, and strive to become a person with morality and character. Only in this way can we be respected and remembered by others after we die.
In life, we will always meet all kinds of people. Some deserve our respect and remembrance, while others need us to reflect and correct. But no matter what, we should cherish the people in front of us and strive to become a better person. In this way, when we leave this world, we can say without regrets: "My life has not been in vain." ”
I hope this article can resonate with everyone, let us cherish life together, respect others, and strive to become a moral and moral person. At the same time, I also hope that everyone can like, forward and comment, so that more people can see this article and jointly inherit the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation.