#头条创作挑战赛#
Divorce is common now, and there are single mothers everywhere on Douyin, and every family has their own sadness.
The "Peng Peng Come On" I follow is a single mother who has been divorced twice and lives with four sons. Some people say that it is the greatest self-discipline for women not to have children indiscriminately, and having so many children will only make their lives very bad. Peng Peng takes care of her four sons every day, the youngest of whom is only one year old, and she has no time to go to work, so she has to make videos and set up stalls to make ends meet.
After watching Peng Peng's video, I think she is a great woman, although she gave birth to four sons, she did not give up one, she took them all with her, this is a responsible mother. Peng Peng's two ex-husbands are very handsome, but none of them are reliable, the first one has no sense of responsibility, has three sons, and cheats, and the second ex-husband can't figure it out, and his parents get involved and break up a happy marriage.
"Enlightenment is the support of two daughters" is also a single mother, alone with two daughters in her parents' home. When I first saw the video of Enlightenment, I thought she looked average, with short hair, like a man, and then I watched the video before Enlightenment, only to know that she was a big beauty, and she used to have some beautiful long hair, but she got cancer because she was in a bad mood after divorcing her ex-husband. After she got cancer, the cancer cells developed rapidly and spread throughout her body, and her ex-husband, who shared two daughters, never reached out to help the poor mother. Enlightenment's ex-husband is a doctor, rich and status, he is not afraid that his daughter will not recognize him, he told Enlightenment that he can find someone to regenerate the child, in fact, he has done it. Why don't good people have a good life, Enlightenment still has two young daughters to take care of, but God made her get cancer, while her ex-husband is living a very chic life.
The "first year mother" has two children, a boy and a girl, and the son is called the first child. The "first mother" and her husband did not divorce, but their marriage existed in name only. Although she lives under the same roof with her husband, her husband has not paid her living expenses for more than half a year, and she has hooked up with other women. Some netizens persuaded the "first year mother" to divorce, she said where to go after the divorce, with two children, there is no place to live.
After watching the video of these three female compatriots, I felt that marriage not only cannot be a safe haven for women, but may even bring storms.
No wonder many people now envy Ye Haiyang, envy her for being financially independent, being able to give birth to a baby by herself, take care of a baby by herself, and never rely on a man. If there is no hope for men, there will be no disappointment. Ye Haiyang is the pride of women, and she has achieved true economic independence and personality independence.
Some people don't understand Ye Haiyang's behavior and think that she can find a man to have a baby, instead of going through all the hard work to do IVF. I think so, after seeing the case of Li Fuzhen, the eldest princess of South Korea's Samsung, marrying a security guard, and the case of Zhu Xiaozhen marrying Lin Shengbin, you will know what happens when you find a phoenix man whose conditions are not as good as yourself, and there are very few men who are as good as yourself.
IVF can not only choose an excellent father for the child, but also let the child and the father not interact with each other, there will be no custody disputes, and there will be no father to compete for property in the name of the child, doing IVF can be said to be the first choice for rich single women.
Good men are not absent, but there are very few, most good men are honest people, honest people have the shortcomings of not understanding amorous customs and low emotional intelligence, and they are not popular with women, but they are suitable for starting a family and living a life.
Singer Wang Rong sang in "I Am Not Huang Rong": "I am not Huang Rong, I don't know martial arts, I just need Brother Jing, perfect love...... I hope to find an honest Guo Jing, who is sincere to people and shrewd in things, and he is not as affectionate as Wei Xiaobao and not as cold and indifferent as Yang Guo. ”
I think if you want to get married, someone like Guo Jing is the best choice, he is simple and naïve, sincere to people, focused on things, he is "wise and foolish".
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