Here's the thing, I'm 95 years old, I haven't been in love, a few years ago, my colleague introduced me to a sister 96 years old, she was a financial manager in the company, I think I chatted with her quite a lot, and I made an appointment to meet twice after the year, and then I chatted every day, because I have to go to work, I don't see many times, I feel that my sister has a good impression of me, chatting is back and forth, and very enthusiastic. It feels like I've met a real girl, but today I suddenly said that she was in some financial difficulties and asked me to borrow money, and I'm now very entangled in whether to borrow or not, give me some advice, whether to borrow money.
I really like her and I don't want to lose her. This is the chat record when we first met, she is really gentle, not the blind date girl I imagined, not like the common girls in the bar are very cold. I think we have a common language.
After hesitating for a long time, I decided that since I finally met a good girl, I still had to trust her, but I seemed to be borrowing it too late, and she didn't want it. Is it because her favorability of me has decreased, and how can I prove that I really care about her? Regret dying.
How can I redeem it, I think this seems to be too insincere, in fact, I haven't spent any money on her before, eating together, playing and so on. I seem to be too stingy to look at it this way, what should I do, do you want to make an appointment, and say it to my face?