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Liang Sisi was born in a poor rural family, and her parents were silent workers in a small local coal mine. In addition to her, there is a young brother and a younger sister who is not yet an adult.
Since childhood, she has taken on the responsibility of caring for her younger siblings, witnessing her parents toiling in the mines every day, but the family's financial situation has never improved, and life is difficult, even with basic clothing and food.
Such a poor living environment made Liang Sisi deeply feel the bitterness and pain brought about by poverty. She recalls a time when her brother was seriously ill and her parents had used up almost all their savings to save for him, and she and her sister had to barely survive on rancid water and dry buns during those difficult years.
Since then, Liang Sisi has been steadfast in her convictions, vowing to work hard to change the status quo and never let her descendants suffer so much poverty again.
After graduating from high school, Liang Sisi resolutely decided to leave his hometown and go to the bustling city of Changsha to seek opportunities to study and work. When she first arrived in an unfamiliar city, she experienced a completely different city life from the countryside, with a variety of advanced facilities, a wide variety of products and fashion trends, which opened her eyes.
For the first time, she experienced the privileged and comfortable lifestyle of a city dweller, and was full of envy for the lifestyle of wealthy families.
In the process of living in the city, Liang Sisi gradually realized the huge gap between poverty and wealth. She saw the luxury cars and luxury homes everywhere in the metropolis, and saw the high-end mobile phones in the hands of young people squandering at will, and a strong desire emerged in her heart - to get rid of poverty and change her destiny.
She looks forward to the day when she will be able to live a carefree and prosperous life.
At this time, a demolition household from the city, Zhou Bing, broke into Liang Sisi's life. Through a friend's referral, they met and fell in love. Zhou Bing was deeply attracted by Liang Sisi's kindness and simplicity, and Liang Sisi was also impressed by Zhou Bing's thoughtfulness.
In the process of digging deeper, Liang Sisi learned that Zhou Bing's family not only had a household registration in the city, but also obtained two brand new properties in the demolition in 2006. This is undoubtedly a godsend, if she can marry this family member with a house and a car, then the good life she dreams of will be realized.
When they first met, Zhou Bing was deeply attracted by Liang Sisi's innocent and kind atmosphere. As a professional who has been in the rivers and lakes for a long time, he has already appreciated the city government and sleek of urban people, however, Liang Sisi's innate rural rustic temperament is like a fresh and incomparably sweet spring, poured into the depths of Zhou Bing's soul.
Zhou Bing cares about Liang Sisi and always takes into account every detail. There was even a time when Liang Sisi was injured and sprained her wrist, and Zhou Bing sincerely carried her to and from work and took care of her daily affairs wholeheartedly.
Although Liang Sisi once complained about her mother-in-law's indifferent attitude, Zhou Bing's careful care made her rekindle her desire and expectation for a better married life.
Liang Sisi was also touched by Zhou Bing's diligence and kindness. She found that although Zhou Bing's family conditions were superior, he never showed a smug posture and always maintained an attitude of hard work.
This made Liang Sisi very emotional, marrying such a hard-working man, life will definitely be full of happiness and satisfaction.
As they got to know each other better, Liang Sisi became more aware of the rich wealth background of Zhou Bing's family. The Zhou family acquired two brand-new properties in a large-scale demolition in 2006, which of course provided a solid guarantee for their livelihood.
For Liang Sisi, this is undoubtedly a godsend.
With such a strong family background as support, Liang Sisi is convinced that as long as she marries into this family, her past poor life will be gone forever. She will be able to live a comfortable and comfortable life without worrying about her livelihood anymore.
So, during the period of love, Liang Sisi bravely asked Zhou Bing to get married, and the two quickly entered the palace of marriage.
On the occasion of the newlywed Yan'er, they ushered in the crystallization of love - a lively and lovely little girl. The family of three was happy, and Liang Sisi finally realized his dream and tasted the sweet taste of a happy life.
For this woman from a poor background, this is undoubtedly the greatest joy in her life.
Liang Sisi originally thought that after marrying into the Zhou family, he would be able to live a comfortable and comfortable life, but the happy honeymoon period did not last long. Soon after marriage, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began to appear.
As a leading daughter-in-law in the rural field, Liang Sisi naturally bears a heavy burden of housework in her in-law's family. From firewood, rice, oil and salt in the morning, to laundry and bathing at night, to the daily tedious mopping and cooking, Liang Sisi has never slackened off his full dedication to it.
She had hoped that this effort would be rewarded with her mother-in-law's appreciative eyes, but God did not fulfill people's wishes, and her mother-in-law was still indifferent and critical of her.
On several occasions, Liang Sisi's mother-in-law could always find one or two unsatisfactory dishes to criticize, and never took the initiative to praise her hard work.
What's more serious is that her mother-in-law often ignores Liang Sisi's existence intentionally or unintentionally, as if she is an "invisible person", which makes Liang Sisi feel deeply neglected and hurt.
In strong contrast, the mother-in-law's love for her eldest son can be described as meticulous. Whatever the son does at home, the mother-in-law will be understanding, tolerant and spoiled.
This made Liang Sisi feel extremely aggrieved, and she repeatedly questioned herself in the depths of her heart whether she had really made a mistake, but she never understood where she offended her mother-in-law.
Soon after marriage, Liang Sisi deeply experienced the complexity and pain of the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. She had dreamed of changing her destiny by marrying the wealthy family who owned the property and car, but the reality was far harsher than she expected.
In the face of her mother-in-law's unprovoked cold words, Liang Sisi also exposed her own shortcomings.
She has an irritable temperament and is prone to losing control of her emotions. Sometimes he will be angry just because of small things, not only against her husband, but also on her newborn baby. When the mother-in-law saw all this, she naturally became more and more disgusted with this daughter-in-law who was not in the climate.
Repeated family disputes made Liang Sisi completely abandon the concept of "her mother-in-law's house is her own home", and she clearly realized that this was not the good life she was looking forward to, and she must take action to change the status quo.
When Liang Sisi proposed to her husband Zhou Bing to "split the family", her original intention was extremely simple. She only hopes to live independently with her husband, get rid of the shackles and cynicism of her mother-in-law, and enjoy a few years of quiet and happy time as a couple.
However, she didn't expect that these words were like lighting a fuse, instantly igniting her mother-in-law's fierce anger like thunder. The mother-in-law strongly condemned Liang Sisi's idea of "splitting the family", believing that it was her own selfish desire to swell, and her greed for family wealth was too great, and it was absolutely intolerable.
"You have only been married for a few years, and you can't wait to think about dividing the family and property? How can there be a daughter-in-law like you who is eager for quick success? Could it be that you covet my family's real estate and dislike us two old people for being too poor?" The mother-in-law is old, but her fiery temper is like a volcano erupting, mercilessly accusing Liang Sisi of selfishness and small belly.
In the face of her in-laws' severe criticism, Liang Sisi tearfully defended that she did not harbor such a small family, but she couldn't stand her mother-in-law's cynicism about her, and longed to have a few years of free life. However, her in-laws ignored her explanation and took a firm and tough attitude.
In this way, a seemingly ordinary family dispute quickly escalated into a fierce conflict, and the relationship between Liang Sisi and her in-laws broke down in an instant. As the conflict intensified, Zhou Bing began to frequently use violence against Liang Sisi.
Sometimes, just because of Liang Sisi's rebuttal, he would not hesitate to wave his fist and give her a hard lesson, while his mother-in-law stood by and watched without any hindrance.
Liang Sisi vowed that she could no longer bear the painful life of being manipulated by her mother-in-law and being abused by her husband. Therefore, after suffering domestic violence for the last time, she resolutely decided to run away from home with her young daughter, and even took all the family's personal belongings, clothes, tableware, etc.
Her departure was like a never-ending decision, which made her in-laws and husband jaw-dropping. They never imagined that Liang Sisi would be so determined, in fact, this undoubtedly worsened the original contradiction.
Soon after, Liang joined a media organization seeking help from family conflict mediation and tried to profit from it.
When the program team arrived at the scene, Liang Sisi took the lead in complaining about the various grievances and difficulties he had suffered in his in-law's house for many years. She claimed that her mother-in-law was indifferent to her, turned a blind eye to her efforts, and was picky about her words and deeds.
To make matters worse, she was also repeatedly subjected to domestic violence by her husband, who often punched and kicked her.
After hearing these accusations, the mother-in-law immediately refuted them harshly. She resolutely said that the real source of the conflict between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law lies in Liang Sisi's extreme selfishness and unreasonableness. Liang Sisi always deliberately tried to divide the family property, intending to monopolize all the family property.
Liang Sisi, who is in the countryside, should fulfill the responsibility of taking on the burden of housework and taking care of her in-laws wholeheartedly. However, she has turned a deaf ear to these important obligations, and only has financial interests in her eyes.
The father-in-law mercilessly accused Liang Sisi of marrying his son entirely because of their covetousness. He told him frankly that if Liang Sisi continued to insist on separating the family, he would not hesitate to stand by his son's side and support their divorce.
In order to reveal the true face of the incident, the program team specially invited Liang Sisi's husband Zhou Bing to attend. As a party concerned, Zhou Bing naturally has his own opinions in his heart. He confessed that he did not plan to divorce at first, but his wife ran away from home many times for no reason, and even took all her personal belongings with her, which seriously hurt his dignity, so he decided to end the marriage.
Regarding the accusations of domestic violence, Zhou Bing did not respond positively, only saying that those were "unintentional mistakes". As for Liang Sisi's request for living alone and his in-laws' monthly subsidy of 3,000 yuan for living expenses, he thinks this is simply whimsical and vexatious.
After all, with their current economic situation, they really can't afford such a high cost of living.
In order to alleviate the conflict, the program team tried to let the two parties have face-to-face communication, hoping to make them understand each other's needs and demands. However, just when the atmosphere eased slightly, Liang Sisi suddenly made a request without warning: she longed for custody of her daughter and hoped to raise the child independently.
This is undoubtedly a sensitive issue of vital interest. The mother-in-law and father-in-law were adamantly opposed, believing that they were the ones best qualified to raise their granddaughters.
All of a sudden, the positions of the two sides were once again antagonistic and divergent, and the mediation work fell into an unprecedented predicament.