It is not too difficult for a young woman to aspire to climb up, and she must aspire to do it early.
This is a wise quote from the novel "Xi Bao".
Indeed, it is important to aim early, especially for young women with determination and perseverance, setting goals early and working towards them will help them get what they want.
Since the age of 13, "making money" has become Jiang Xibao's life goal.
People live and do their best for a few taels of silver.
Don't think too much about reading, and don't talk about how great your work is.
You actually know better than anyone that ordinary people study just to have a good job, to be able to support their families, and to be more relaxed.
If there is a choice, I believe that there are many people who are willing to be Jiang Xibao.
After all, "money is a little more reliable than love." ”
If someone says they don't want to, it's because they haven't understood human nature.
Jiang Xibao's mother is a love brain, and for love, she broke away from the family.
Like most women in love, Xibao's mother had a hard time.
His father is a prodigal son who specializes in eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling.
The merry father abandoned their mother and daughter since Xibao was born.
A mother who has suffered from love, and a daughter who can't educate romantic feelings.
From a very young age, Xibao understood two things, when he was poor, money was more important than dignity, and beauty was a kind of capital, and youth could be sold.
Nothing is more important than money.
Jiang Xibao studied hard, nothing more than to live a life of a superior person.
Jiang Xibao, a mercenary, lives more realistically than anyone else and understands what she wants.
At the age of 13, she learned to use her beauty to her advantage and coax the boys around her to pay for her.
She has never shied away from her desires, "If someone says that he loves me, I will not be a little more happy, unless his love can be discounted." ”
Believe in love, and it will hurt for a lifetime.
This is the feeling that Jiang Xibao learned from his mother.
Do men really have true love?
Don't be stupid, for men, a wife is not as good as a concubine, a concubine is not as good as stealing, and stealing is better than stealing.
Every man has an underlying desire for a group of wives and concubines.
It is in the nature of men to like novelty, and it is their nature to like the new and hate the old.
Aren't the clothes you used to like thrown away now?
Marriage itself is anti-human, the essence of human nature likes the new and hates the old, how can it be possible to love only one person for the rest of your life.
The best explanation for loyalty is:
"I will go against my instincts, against my nature, and love you forever. ”
Instead of longing for love, it is better to crave money.
In fact, Xibao also had an unforgettable first love.
When he was eighteen years old, his mixed-race boyfriend, the boy who once loved Xibao deeply, was finally left in his youth by Xibao.
When we were young, we were naïve and hypocritical, thinking that falling in love with someone was loving his character, his taste, and the feeling of being with him.
But the older a person gets, the more realistic she becomes – unless she's a fairy.
Men are nothing more than stepping stones on the road of Xibao's life
Jiang Xibao is by no means an ordinary vase, relying on her own ability, she was admitted to Cambridge.
She has knowledge and ability, but she has no money.
There's a quote in The Great Gatsby: "The world doesn't care about your self-esteem, people only look at your achievements." Don't put too much emphasis on your self-esteem until you don't achieve it. "Self-esteem without strength is worthless.
In the face of dignity and money, she may have struggled, but she quickly made a decision.
She needed a man who would pay for her tuition.
She said:
"Every woman must have many men as stepping stones in her life, if you think I took advantage of Han Tai, then you are wrong, Han Mou also got everything he needed during the period when he was used. ”
In this emotional game, don't think who's losing.
Everyone just takes what they need, Han Tai spent money, but he also got Jiang Xibao's people.
I thought it would be a long-term meal ticket, but it didn't last long.
Jiang Xibao, who had no money, was forced to leave school and return to Hong Kong.
On the day she returned to Hong Kong, she met the princess Miao, who grew up with a golden spoon in her mouth.
A little white flower that is not stained by the world, simple and kind.
She and Jiang Xibao hit it off at first sight.
Through her smart relationship, she met the man who changed her life, Cunzi, the head of the family, and her smart father.
She became a silk flower, attached to the posture and lived, and her youth was sold for a very good price.
It was a prostitute and prostitute deal.
Faced with the abyss of her fall, she pretended to be relaxed and said: "This is a good opportunity for me to fall, not every woman has such an opportunity." "I don't mind selling my youth, I will live if I don't sell my youth. ”
A woman who dares to face her desires will not live too badly.
In reality, how many women are both materialistic and want to pretend to be high.
But have you ever thought that when you only want to talk about love, not material, you have to be mentally prepared.
You get the torii instead of the benefits.
Because pure love God of War wants decency and dedication.
But you have to understand that if you don't want to be a fishing girl, naturally someone is willing to be a fishing girl.
You are high, you can't look down on the money of the rich second generation, there are always girls who are willing to chat with him late at night until dawn.
You can't just look at others for material benefits and just be jealous and scold others for their vanity.
I dare to say that 80% of those who hate Jiang Xibao are estimated to be girls.
Money is the real sense of security.
With the money from Cunzi, she went to buy a diamond ring worth more than 12 carats and more than a million yuan.
Those fortresses, banknotes that she couldn't earn in her lifetime.
Although it's just a deal, not a relationship.
Miao Cunzi's love for Jiang Xibao is good, but it is unrealistic.
He planned for her future, and even calculated how she would live after his death.
He knew her past suffering, and he knew that she was insecure.
He didn't want Xibao to experience such a bitter day again, so all he could do was to give her an endless inheritance after he died.
For five years, she and he just maintained a pure relationship.
But he didn't want nothing from her.
Miao Cunzi has a strong desire to control Xibao.
He was not only fascinated by the fresh life force that emanated from her, but also longed to keep her completely under his control.
He enjoyed the freshness and vitality that Xibao brought him, but at the same time, he couldn't bear any escape or betrayal from her.
When Xibao begins to yearn for beautiful love and tries to escape from him, Miao Cunzi's desire for control reaches its peak.
He couldn't tolerate the presence of other men in Xibao's heart, and he couldn't accept that she wanted to leave him.
So, he chose the extreme method of killing Hans in front of Xibao to demonstrate his authority and control.
Behind the seemingly depravity, Xibao actually shows the sober side of the world
In Yishu's writing, Jiang Xibao is a controversial but highly attractive character.
Her life is a drama of ups and downs, full of choices, compromises and struggles.
And among them, the most striking thing is her courage to face up to her desires.
Xibao is not the perfect woman in the traditional sense.
She has her own desires and pursuits, which are often at odds with society's expectations and moral standards.
However, Xibao did not feel ashamed or run away from it. Instead, she chooses to be brave enough to face her desires and work hard to achieve them.
This courage to face up to desire is not an easy task.
In real life, we are often limited by various social norms and moral constraints, and dare not face up to our true desires.
We are afraid of being judged, ridiculed, or ostracized by others, so we choose to suppress and escape.
However, Xibao dares to challenge these constraints, believing that everyone has the right to pursue their own life, regardless of whether this happiness meets the expectations of others.
Xibao also experienced many struggles and pains in pursuing her desires.
After struggling, I made a choice.
She came together with Miao Cunzi for money and status, and lost her freedom and dignity.
That's her price, and she knows better than anyone else.
When her mother objected to her use of men as stepping stones, she could justifiably tell her, "This is the way to survive." ”
She disdained to get a 9-to-5 job in Central, Hong Kong, and snap into a typewriter for the rest of her life.
So she chose to sell her youth.
Whether it is Han Tai or Miao Cunzi, they are all seeds planted by Jiang Xibao when she was young, and she will pay for her choice.
The bullet that was fired when he was young hit the center of his eyebrows many years later.
Cunzi died, and Xibao received a huge inheritance from him, and at this time, although she was no longer young, she also lost the courage and strength to love.
But she became a rich man, and she could live as she wanted, no longer bound and restricted by poverty.
This freedom, although it carries loneliness and loneliness, is also a way for her to pursue self-realization.
Therefore, although the ending of Xibao's life is not perfect, she may not regret her choice.