Bai Juyi in "Palace Ci", a sentence "The red face is not old and the grace is broken first, and the smoke cage is reclined and sits until Ming." It shows the truth of the life of the beauties of the ancient court.
In the prosperous court, although the palace ladies enjoyed a superior material life, their hearts were under great pressure and pain.
Where does their loneliness and sadness come from?
Is it because of the indifference of the king? I think these are not the best answers, the best answer is that there are many women in the depths of the court, just because the beauty is not in the skin!
Beauty is a verb, not an adjective, and beauty is an ability, not a capital.
Everyone has a love for beauty.
Who doesn't like beautiful things in this world? Who doesn't want to be a pretty girl?
But the pursuit of beauty is not easy, beauty is a kind of ability, and beauty has a threefold realm.
Bai Juyi's resentment of the palace maid made me understand that the true beauty of a woman lies in her highest state——— the beauty of wisdom, and in the independent beauty that she can not be attached to a man!
The beauty of appearance may not be pleasing to the eye
Goethe once said: "Outer beauty can only please for a while, but inner beauty can endure"
Physical beauty is important.
But the face is fleeting, and Shaohua is easy to age.
When your beauty can't control your ambitions, beauty becomes a source of disaster for you.
If you want to achieve long-term happiness in the long river of life, beauty alone is not enough.
A good-looking person is by no means a person with beautiful facial features, but a unique appearance in the vast crowd after being stripped of his appearance.
I have to say that judging people by their appearance is actually very fair, the expression hides the mood, the eyebrows can know the past, the clothes reflect the aesthetics, and the temperament can know the personality.
No one wants to know the real you through your sloppy appearance, so you need to pay attention to image management. Of course, image management is not just about appearance.
The beauty of temperament is eye-catching
Appearance and beauty may be innate, but form and temperament are the gifts that years give to women who know how to live.
A woman doesn't have to be beautiful, but she has to have a temperament.
For a woman, beauty is mostly superficial, and it cannot resist the imprint of time.
Only temperament, it will not fade with age, but will become thicker and heavier with the passage of time.
Like an aged wine, it will always have a charming aroma.
First of all, the beauty of temperament lies in the posture. A healthy and upright posture is the first element to highlight temperament.
Do you dare to get rid of that body of fat like Jia Ling, do you have the perseverance to control your body, if you can't even control your weight, what can you talk about controlling your life.
We need to learn to develop our own fitness habits, whether it's dancing, aerobics, or running. But the important thing is to persevere, not three days of fishing and two days of drying nets.
Secondly, the temperament is elegant, the soul is interesting, and it has a bookish aroma.
As Bi Shumin said:
"I like women who love to read.
Books are not rouge, but they will make a woman's face permanent, and books are not sticks, but they will make women sonorous and powerful.
Books are not feathers, but they make women fly, and books are not omnipotent, but they make women change. ”
Again, the beauty of temperament lies in the state of mind, and the state of mind is peaceful.
If a woman wants to live a noble life, the key is not the luxury of her appearance, but the transparency and strength of her heart.
Learn to self-groom, empty your mind, sort out your anxious emotions, and simply be your truest self, so that you can travel lightly and go further.
A truly temperamental woman, even if she is very simple and pure, can have a strong attraction and make people feel her power from the inside out.
The beauty of wisdom is more into the eyes and hearts of the people
If it is explained that the eyes and teeth are beautiful in appearance and the tall body is the beauty of temperament, then the real top beauty lies in the beauty of wisdom with a lofty pattern.
True beauties are wise women. They exude a charm from the inside out, confident, elegant, and independent in spirit, and they not only have beautiful appearances, but also interesting souls.
This kind of beauty will not fade with time, but will slowly precipitate, exuding more and more unique charm.
The highest level of beauty needs to constantly enrich its own connotation, increase different insights, slowly carve from the heart, and then wash through time in order to have the beauty of inexhaustible wisdom.
The real beauty is like a hardcover book, not only with a beautiful cover, but also with rich and elegant, eternal ink content, classic chant spread,
A real beauty is beauty beauty, beautiful and calm!
May every woman who loves beauty become a veritable true beauty who is not defeated by the years!
May women in the world, no matter where they are, no matter what age, be able to say from the bottom of their hearts: "I am only busy with beauty, and I have no time to grow old;