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"There are thousands of sufferings in life, and the pain of losing a child is the first. ”
On April 26, Dongdong, a "part-time anti-cancer Internet celebrity", came to the end of his life at home, and he was only 43 years old this year, and his untimely death made countless netizens cry.
But the most painful thing is his parents, there are many hardships in life, but the white-haired person sending the black-haired person is the greatest sorrow that everyone dare not experience.
Ten thousand arrows pierce the heart, bruise the bones and stab the pain...... No single word is enough to describe what the parents are going through right now.
The mourning hall in Dongdong was full of wreaths, and his mother kept wiping away tears, and her eyes were so red and swollen that she couldn't hide them even with sunglasses.
Despite the constant visits from relatives and friends, she did not take her eyes off her son for a moment, perhaps knowing that this would be the last time they would see each other.
So Dongdong's mother held her son's coffin, and her eyes didn't dare to blink at her son's last figure, after all, as a mother, her wish was very simple, that is, if she could look at her son more, she would take a second look.
In front of the coffin is Dongdong's posthumous photo, and his parents specially chose the most handsome one before he suffered from cancer, but looking at the handsome face on the posthumous photo, people can't help but feel sorry.
Next to the posthumous photo is Dongdong's favorite fruits, which are difficult to eat after he has cancer, this time Dongdong's parents are full, hoping that their troubled son can have fewer regrets in the end.
may know that netizens care about Dongdong, despite experiencing the most bitter things in the world, Dongdong's parents still packed up their mood as soon as possible and updated the latest news with Dongdong's account.
"A son comes for a ride, and a mother misses it for a lifetime...... When you came, your mother lost blood to lead the way, and when you left, your mother's heart was dripping blood......"
At this moment, the pain seems to be concretized, and as long as anyone who sees this passage, everyone is sad for this mother.
After all, the once happy home has now become full of holes, and no one can accept such a blow.
Even Dongdong's ex-wife, who has always been controversial, came out to mourn for Dongdong.
Because his wife has not appeared in Dongdong's videos before, netizens have always thought that his wife abandoned him because he had cancer.
But now looking at his wife's memorial text, things seem to be very different from what netizens guessed.
The source of this article comes from the authoritative report [Internet celebrity "anti-cancer Dongdong" short video account] (the detailed source is attached at the end of the article). In order to improve the readability of the article, there may be polishing of the details, please read sensibly, for reference only!
The affectionate and righteous ex-wife, Dongdong and the child met for the last time
"You used to give me flowers, but now let me send you a bouquet. ”
Not only are his parents saddened by Dongdong's death, but his ex-wife's inner grief is not far behind.
After Dongdong's death, his ex-wife, who had never shown up, also rarely spoke out, posted a bloody eulogy on her social platform, and also posted an intimate photo of the two.
The words in this contain deep regret and longing for Dongdong, as well as the grief for the sudden death of the person who used to be next to the pillow.
Not only that, but the ex-wife also explained the process of meeting and falling in love between the two in the eulogy, proving that she was not the vicious woman who was unrighteous in the mouth of netizens and immediately abandoned him when she knew that Dongdong had cancer.
The two of them met in 2010, when they were in their youth, and they were both highly educated people, and they had a lot of common topics with each other, so the two soon entered into marriage.
A doctor and a lawyer, both of whom are recognized as excellent people in society, thought that the combination of the two would easily become a happy home.
But they didn't expect that after marriage, the two would live a mess of life! Especially after the birth of their two children.
As a doctor, Dongdong often works overtime, has a very irregular schedule, and has very little time at home, let alone taking care of his family.
But at this time, with a virtuous wife behind her back, perhaps this family is still an enviable existence.
But the difficulty is that Dongdong's ex-wife is a lawyer, and her work is no less busy than Dongdong, although the two are married, they don't have much time to get along with each other.
After the birth of the child, the conflict between the two became even greater, so in 2019, the two went through divorce procedures.
Unlike other couples who break up unhappily and never see each other when they divorce, Dongdong and his ex-wife also maintain a friend relationship after the divorce.
Because the child is taken care of by his ex-wife, he will visit the child as long as he is free, and even when he was suffering from cancer, he informed his ex-wife as soon as possible.
It was one day in August 2020, and my ex-wife suddenly received the news of Dongdong's diagnosis, and she couldn't believe it was true at the time, and she couldn't help crying for a while.
After that, the ex-wife took Dongdong to the hospital for examination and treatment, which is the top in China and even ranked among the best in the world.
Even though she is divorced, her ex-wife has been running around for everything, and even her ex-wife said, "Although I was not by your side all the time during the fight against cancer, I was never absent." ”
Even at the last moment of his life, Dongdong was able to see his children for the last time, thanks to his ex-wife.
That day, his ex-wife suddenly dreamed that Dongdong died, although she felt that such a dream was very unlucky, but she was really uneasy in her heart, and finally decided to take a look at Dongdong before the child went to school, but she didn't expect this to be their last face!
Dongdong's mother said that in fact, Dongdong hadn't closed his eyes all night, maybe he was waiting for his ex-wife to come to see him with their children before leaving with peace of mind.
How can such an ex-wife not be called affectionate and righteous, even Dongdong's friends have come out to prove that the ex-wife is not the kind of person who abandons her husband because of illness.
But some netizens still put the reason for Dongdong's death on his ex-wife's head, and even said that "Dongdong's cancer is all because of divorce", which is outrageous.
They think that cancer is caused by emotions, and this view itself is not wrong, and bad mood is indeed one of the causes of cancer.
But like these netizens, it is incomprehensible to blame Dongdong's ex-wife for cancer and even death.
Although Dongdong's experience is indeed heart-wrenching, it must not hurt an innocent person because of this, and now his ex-wife is taking care of two children alone, and it is very difficult to be a single mother.
And Dongdong definitely doesn't want to see such a scene, after all, he has been living very happily before he has cancer, so it has also created his gentle and kind character.
once lost 65 pounds, and he was once the happiest person
As a doctor, Dongdong has seen many patients of all kinds, but he never thought that he would become one of them, and since then he has been accompanied by illness.
In the days of fighting cancer, Dongdong's parents have always been by his side, personally feeding, wiping, and walking around, although in Dongdong's video, his mother is more figure.
But every time the father appeared, he could feel his deep love for his son in silence, and whenever it was time for his son to get up and move, he always rushed to the front and held his son's bony shoulders.
During the four-year anti-cancer career, cancer cells metastasized from the stomach to the bones, lungs, liver, and peritoneum.
Again and again hopes were dashed, and after being hit by illness again and again, Dongdong once lost 65 pounds, and his parents watched him suffer and suffer like this, how could they not be heartbroken?
The short essay sent by his mother after Dongdong's death was simply sad and tearful when he saw it, which also shows his mother's profound literary literacy.
His father is a forensic doctor, his mother is also a highly educated person, Dongdong himself is a doctor, and he has two lovely children, although he has some regrets about divorcing his ex-wife.
But it is undeniable that before cancer, Dongdong's life was complete.
epilogue
I'm afraid that even if Dongdong suffers from cancer, he opened a social account and became an Internet celebrity not for money, but "to make some more contributions to society." ”
How can such a kind person not make people feel sorry, now the painful three-year anti-cancer career has long passed, I hope that heaven will be free of pain and rest in peace as soon as possible.
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The content information in this article comes from: Internet celebrity "Anti-Cancer Dongdong" short video account