The idea is beautiful, the reality is skinny, and many things, many things, are different from what you think.
When you are in the middle of the excitement and feel that this kind of life is not what you want, purity is. You can't understand the enthusiasm of others, how can it be so exaggerated?
In the eyes of some people, you are the center, the object of pursuit, and you are happy. But you don't feel like you're living in happiness, you don't feel like you're centered, you just feel like people are more enthusiastic about you, that's all. You imagine that over time, these passions will naturally fade and you will be able to do more and more meaningful things.
After a while, the purity you want comes. It's not that you can avoid it, it's a stage thing. Maybe everyone is feeling a little tired, or maybe everyone has their own things to do. In short, you went from one extreme to the other.
No one asks you to eat or drink, no one asks you out for a walk, and you don't want to ask anyone out. Everyone seems to be busy and doesn't know what they're busy with. But that's how the days passed.
You've calmed down, and your wish has come true. But you find that everything is not as good as you thought it would be. You think you can feel life better and have more time to think independently. But I found that everything has not changed much, I can't realize it or I can't realize it, and there is not much more time.
When you want to see something beautiful, but you don't see it, you think it must be very beautiful. But when you get closer, you will find that the truth is not so good, and when you get closer, you will find that everything is so normal, and finally it comes to an end.
Anything that you find particularly wonderful is not as wonderful as you think. For example, if you see a selfie of a beautiful woman in your circle of friends one day, you will sigh how beautiful it is. One day, she comes into your life and you find out that it's not as good as that selfie, but it's not bad.
You think it's a problem with taking pictures, maybe this person is more on camera. One day you took a few pictures of her, and the comparison felt too far apart. When you are often together, slowly, that initial beauty becomes a sparse and ordinary interaction.
At some point, when you open the album, you see the photos you took. Conveniently, it was deleted.
What you can't get is always the best. Before that, no matter what others say, you can't listen to it, and whatever shortcomings you see, you can ignore it. One day you live this life, or have something you dream of, and you will face up to the aspects that you have overlooked.
You'll always be at a different crossroads. Why would you hesitate? Because you want flowers all the way, but there are puddles on every road. One can only walk on one path, but you have other paths in mind. When the flowers are blooming, you will be happy, and when there are bumps, you will think of other roads. The road you haven't traveled is the road you yearn for.
It's a norm to be different from what you think, and it's not just you. So when you encounter a problem, don't panic and try to break through. When you want to understand a good thing, don't be afraid of disappointment, only after experiencing it, you will know whether everything is worth it or not.
