#头条创作挑战赛#
Life is like a colorful picture, there are not only the open and flat Yangguan Avenue, but also the winding sheep intestine path, the waterway is graceful and twisting like nine twists and turns, and the mountain road is steep and spiraling like eighteen stacked mountains.
Destiny is like a journey of ups and downs, and the road ahead is always full of unknowns and changes.
We can't predict tomorrow's changes, but we can plan ahead and deal with them calmly with the wisdom and insight to prepare for a rainy day before the world even appears.
If you are in the middle of a debt-ridden situation and a low point in your life, and you feel that you have more than enough energy to give up, at this time, please calm down and examine yourself to see if there are four subtle signs of change.
These signs, like the unique hints that God gives you on the eve of transit, are a sign that a new turn is coming.
No, Tailai: If you fall to the bottom, there will be a turnaround
In the Book of Changes, there is a hexagram named "No".
This hexagram indicates that the world has reached a very bad state, and every line points to the extreme bad, as if falling into an abyss, without a trace of hope.
However, it was followed by the "Thai hexagram" of Shangshang.
The six lines of the Thai hexagram all represent good fortune and good fortune. And this smoothness comes from the change of each hexagram.
In other words, if there is no precipitation of "no", there will be no sublimation of "Thai".
In ethology, there is a concept that is quite similar to "no" and "thai", and that is "bottoming out".
Imagine a bouncing ball falling from a high altitude, and the deeper it is in the bottomless abyss, the stronger its rebound will be.
In the same way, life is like this bouncing ball, experiencing a painful fall, but gaining a strong rebound at the lowest point.
If you are experiencing unforgettable pain at this moment, then I will tell you that this is God's "no" test for you.
Just grit your teeth, persevere, and get through the darkness before dawn, and the bright dawn awaits you.
Therefore, I want to congratulate you on the most important transformation and sublimation in your life.
Breaking the cauldron and sinking the boat: There is a decisive heart to cut off the past
Someone asked Zhuangzi for advice on how to save himself when he was sitting on a wrecked boat that could sink at any time.
Zhuangzi replied that the boat could be split into planks with an axe, so that it could float.
This example teaches us that when we encounter difficulties in life, we need to have the determination to make a radical change in order to have a chance to be born again.
A lot of times, we feel like we've been going downhill because we're stuck with "sunk costs."
The so-called "sunk cost" refers to clinging to past investments in order to escape the negative emotions brought about by losses, like the ship that drags us on and keeps sinking. Only by abandoning it can we see the hope of life.
When life is at a low point, especially when we encounter failure, we need to have the courage to raise the axe and cut the shackles of the past.
While letting go and giving up can be painful, long-term attrition only makes us more miserable.
As the saying goes, "long pain is better than short pain", we need to have the courage to swing the axe at ourselves and the past, so that we can usher in a turn of fate.
The difference of one thought: the hope of turning the tables against the wind
In times of predicament, we often sigh: "This is all fate." But what is "fate"?
Many masters of Chinese culture have profoundly explained that the so-called "life" actually contains a profound way of cause and effect. It is not an ethereal existence, but a quiet sowing between your every heartfelt thought.
People are familiar with the natural law of "sowing melons and getting melons, and planting beans and reaping beans", but few people realize that the mind itself is the seed carrier of the cycle of cause and effect.
When you sow more positive seeds in your heart, the path of life will become brighter and brighter, and conversely, if negative seeds take over, the situation in life may become darker and darker.
Therefore, in this world, there are no unprovoked encounters, and there are no sudden accidents. Everything has a trace, and the core of all these laws is shaped by the good and evil thoughts in your heart.
Therefore, when you have the determination to challenge adversity and turn the tide in a moment, please understand that this is a revelation and opportunity given to you by God.
Don't underestimate these few seconds of mental fluctuations, it contains the most powerful source of power in the universe. Once you adjust to a positive frequency, you will be able to reshape the trajectory of your destiny and achieve a magnificent counterattack in life.
Observe yourself: Be introspective and deeply analyze yourself
Zeng Guofan, in the middle of his life, jumped from an obscure ordinary person to a prominent member of the imperial court, and the secret behind it is that he realized the great power of "self-reflection".
Introspection is an opportunity given to us by God to change our destiny.
By looking deep into our hearts, we are able to discover our own shortcomings and understand the root causes of our failures and dilemmas.
Such reflection can help us avoid detours and even mistakes on the road ahead.
It's not terrible to take the wrong path in the journey of life, but what is really terrible is that after hitting the south wall and falling into a predicament, you still don't understand why this is happening, and you don't correct it even after knowing the reason, which leads to the same problem repeatedly.
Flowers can reopen, but life can't be repeated.
The joy in life is that we have the opportunity to right our mistakes, but sadly, some people don't realize it until it's too late.
Therefore, if you want to avoid detours, an effective way is to keep yourself reflective and alert in your daily life.
We should not make mistakes because they are small, and we should not be reluctant to do them because of the small ones we do.
Only by taking every step of life seriously can we make sure that we can go through the long journey of life steadily.