No matter how old you are, a relationship without a foundation of trust will not stand the test.
Not to mention the vigorous young man, even the "twilight love" is the same.
Aunt Mu is 60 years old, and she is from Guizhou, and she lives alone in Jinhua, Zhejiang. 8 years ago, she was introduced to Uncle Fu.
Although Uncle Fu was 14 years older than her, Aunt Mu saw the other party's reliable economic conditions, so she was willing to live with the other party.
This stay is 8 years, I thought that after seven years of itching, the relationship between the two would get better and better, but Aunt Mu was very sad, because she found that Uncle Fu had changed his mind.
At first, Uncle Fu was just not at home during the day and came home late at night. At home, he also treated Aunt Mu coldly, and after a long time, Uncle Fu became even more intense.
It turned out that just before the Qingming Festival, Aunt Mu found that Uncle Fu had a good relationship outside, and she immediately confronted the other party, but she didn't expect Uncle Fu to simply admit it.
The two had a big fight about this, and after this time, Uncle Fu directly regarded his home as a free restaurant, not a hotel, because he didn't return all day and night.
Every day at noon, Uncle Fu came home, disgusted with the food made by Aunt Mu, and enjoyed it with peace of mind. After eating, Uncle Fu left in style again to find his friends outside.
Aunt Mu, who was heartbroken, was unwilling to be let down in this way for her 8 years of hard work, so she found an emotional mediator, hoping that through mediation, Uncle Fu would wake up.
After that, Aunt Mu took the mediator to Uncle Fu's house.
When the mediator asked Uncle Fu why he changed his mind, Uncle Fu shouted injustice instead.
He said that the reason why he was looking for a new girlfriend outside was because Aunt Mu had no feelings for him: "She refused to sleep with me anymore, and she didn't even touch me!"
Uncle Fu said that it was Aunt Mu who suddenly proposed to divide the room, and she didn't even touch his hand anymore. Now he still has the strength to do it, since Aunt Mu won't touch him, then he can only look for it again.
The mediator then turned to Aunt Mu and asked her why she didn't touch Uncle Fu.
Aunt Mu said confidently: "As a normal woman, I have been with him for so many years, and he has never satisfied me. I wanted to be satisfied, but I wasn't looking outside!"
Aunt Mu said that the reason why she and her ex-husband divorced was because of the other party's cheating, so she hated cheating.
At this time, the mediator said that since the two have been dating and living together for 8 years, it is safest and safest to get a marriage certificate in order to protect their relationship.
But Aunt Mu said that she thought that she was already at this age, and it was a day by day, so there was no need to get a certificate.
Then she said something else to the horse. She said that even if she and Uncle Fu got the certificate, she would have nothing.
She accused Uncle Fu of not talking much, she said that Uncle Fu said that he would give 40,000 yuan to buy endowment insurance, but when she finished buying, the other party did not admit it, but asked her to borrow money from her good sister.
And Uncle Fu's previous promise of giving her 20,000 yuan was not fulfilled.
But Uncle Fu said that he had proposed to get a marriage certificate a long time ago, but Aunt Mu had been reluctant to do so.
The mediator criticized Aunt Mu: If the two get the certificate, then the property is jointly owned by the husband and wife, but the two are currently only boyfriend and girlfriend, then Uncle Fu can not be responsible for Aunt Mu.
Although the mediator repeatedly emphasized the importance of obtaining a marriage license, Aunt Mu always talked about it left and right.
Then Aunt Mu talked about an incident in July last year, she said that she was sick and hospitalized at that time, and her children were not around, only Uncle Fu could rely on, but Uncle Fu did not go to the hospital to accompany her, but spent all day drinking outside.
Uncle Fu said in a heartfelt manner: If you have no feelings, what are you going to accompany! He said that he didn't go to accompany Aunt Mu, and later he didn't let the other party accompany him when he got sick.
The mediator hit the nail on the head and pointed out Uncle Fu's psychological motive for doing this: when he proposed to get the certificate and Aunt Mu delayed it for various reasons, he already felt an emotional crisis.
Uncle Fu nodded yes, and then talked about an old incident a few years ago.
At that time, Aunt Mu's mother was seriously ill, and Aunt Mu hurried back to her hometown to take care of her mother, and Uncle Fu specially explained that if the other party's mother went, Aunt Mu must tell her so that he could send him on the last journey.
Aunt Mu agreed, but there was no movement. Later, Uncle Fu took the initiative to ask about her mother's recent situation, and Aunt Mu said that her mother had passed away.
Uncle Fu immediately bought a plane ticket after hearing this, but because the plane was delayed, he didn't arrive at Aunt Mu's house until the afternoon.
was sincerely sending his girlfriend's mother on the last ride, but his girlfriend's behavior made him angry, which was also one of the reasons why the two started to disagree.
Aunt Mu explained that the reason why she didn't tell her boyfriend was because before she returned to her hometown, the other party didn't give her a penny.
This reason directly made the mediator laugh angrily, and he admitted frankly that the reason why Aunt Mu was looking for Uncle Fu, who was 14 years older than herself, was not just because she was so old and reliable.
The mediator pointed out that Aunt Mu was not ready to provide for Uncle Fu's pension at all, but he could see that Uncle Fu was sincere to her.
And Uncle Fu also said Aunt Mu's last relationship: Aunt Mu has been dating each other for more than ten years, and she also didn't get a certificate, so he suspected that his girlfriend didn't plan to take him seriously at all.
Aunt Mu explained that the reason why she didn't get the license was because she was afraid of repeating the mistakes of the past, and her ex-husband's cheating brought her serious harm, causing her to choke on food.
As expected, her ex-boyfriend and Uncle Fu ended up cheating.
In this regard, the mediator said that the reason for the breakdown of the relationship was only because Aunt Mu was afraid of wolves and tigers, and her refusal to obtain the certificate made her relationship and other aspects insecure.
And her suspicious behavior made her live a difficult life.
As for Uncle Fu, the mediator also played fifty boards each: Since you are looking for Aunt Mu to support the elderly, the two of you have lived together for so long, no matter how she is, it is not a reason for you to cheat.
Uncle Fu was very unconvinced, saying that he was beaten by his girlfriend just last year, and the bruises on his waist took a month to get better.
Aunt Mu admitted that she did beat Uncle Fu, but it was Uncle Fu who beat her first.
That mutual assault brought the relationship between the two to a freezing point. Since then, Uncle Fu has begun to look for other women outside.
Aunt Mu was very indignant, she said that if Uncle Fu didn't think about it, then he should also explain to her that the two of them should get together and disperse, instead of fooling around outside without saying a word.
Uncle Fu once again turned the topic to Aunt Mu not touching him.
He said, "I have a temper too!" She said once that she wouldn't let me touch it, so I slept in a separate bed with her. Uncle Fu said that he sincerely wanted to get along with Aunt Mu as his wife, but the other party treated him like this, which really made him chill.
After that, Aunt Mu didn't give him the steps down, let alone take the initiative to make peace.
Aunt Mu only thought it was funny: I'm a woman, you let me beg you!
Hearing this sentence made Uncle Fu angry, and it also strengthened his determination to give up this relationship.
In fact, Aunt Mu still hopes to live with Uncle Fu in her heart, but she has always insisted on not getting the certificate.
But Uncle Fu said that his heart had been broken by Aunt Mu, and his girlfriend outside was a hundred times better than Aunt Mu, so he didn't want to hold on any longer.
Listening to his thoughts, the mediator advised him to be cautious, Uncle Fu and Aunt Mu have been living together for 8 years, and their living habits have been almost run-in, and Uncle Fu is 74 years old, and it is indeed difficult to start a new relationship.
During Uncle Fu's consideration, the mediator visited Uncle Fu's neighbors to inquire about the relationship between Uncle Fu and Aunt Mu from the side.
Who knows, the surrounding neighbors are not optimistic about this relationship, they said that even if Aunt Mu and Uncle Fu get the certificate, she will definitely not stay for a long time, and she must leave, because they all feel that Aunt Mu is not a woman who lives sincerely.
In the end, Uncle Fu still insisted on the idea of breaking up.
After hearing this, Aunt Mu's eyes were full of grievances and unwillingness: "Since this is the case, then forget it." But I want to make amends!"
The mediator asked, how much do you want?
Aunt Mu said that she would not ask for more, and according to the compensation of 10,000 yuan a year, Uncle Fu should give herself 80,000 yuan in compensation.
She said that the 80,000 yuan was compensation for her hard work and resentment to Uncle Fu's laundry and cooking, even after the two quarreled, she still did housework for him as usual, shouldn't she have compensation?
But Uncle Fu said that in the 8 years that the two have lived together, all the money earned by his girlfriend is saved by herself, and the common living expenses of the two are all paid by him.
And he not only bought a gold necklace for his girlfriend, but also borrowed 20,000 yuan to his girlfriend's younger brother a few years ago. Now in order to break off this relationship as soon as possible, he can not want the 20,000 yuan.
Uncle Fu said that it was impossible for his girlfriend to want additional compensation.
At this time, the mediator also advised Aunt Mu to get together and disperse, after all, the two did not get a certificate, and there was no problem of joint property.
These words made Aunt Mu cry on the spot, and she said that she would move out in a few days and leave this sad place.
Aunt Mu and Uncle Fu have lived together for 8 years, which is comparable to the time that a normal couple has survived the seven-year itch.
didn't expect that the two of them should have supported each other in their old age, and finally had no choice but to part ways, and they really couldn't explain the various reasons.