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In this noisy and impetuous society, we are often overwhelmed by all kinds of news and stories, but some stories are like a hammer that hits our hearts. The death of Song, a 38-year-old associate professor at Nanjing Forestry University, is not only the loss of a life, but also a profound topic about responsibility, pressure and social expectations.
Mr. Song, a scholar with a good starting point in the academic world, encountered a low point in his career after entering Nanjing Forestry University. It was learned that the number of his articles decreased, and there was even a situation of relying on his wife to publish papers. This begs the question, when a person faces a career setback, how should his responsibilities and choices be balanced?
"There is no sense of responsibility to have children who are still dead." This sentence pierced the hearts of many people like a thorn. But I would like to ask, when a person feels that he can't even bear his own life, how should his responsibility be defined? Is this irresponsible for life, or is it a helpless escape from reality?
We Chinese pay attention to "face", especially in academic circles, and "face" is greater than the sky. Teacher Song's situation, in our words, is "unable to hang up face". But is face really more important than life? This is worth pondering.
What happened to Mr. Song is undoubtedly a "tragedy". His choice makes us have to face a "controversy": in modern society, does a person's value depend solely on his professional achievements?
Let's talk about Mr. Song's story. His experience is like a mirror that reflects the fears and insecurities in each of us. His choice, although extreme, also reflects an indisputable fact that in a high-pressure and high-expectation social environment, an individual's mental health and well-being are often overlooked.
Regarding the question of whether Mr. Song has depression, there are different opinions on the Internet. But whatever the truth, it's a reminder that mental health issues can't be ignored. We need more attention and understanding than simple accusations and judgments.
Some netizens said:
(1) This person did not subjectively cause harm to others before he died, but now he can't resist the pressure and commits suicide, and he still blames him, is it appropriate? Be more tolerant of a dead person, and don't get into the argument that it's the other people who hurt the most when he dies.
(2) His wife is Nanlin's B.D., at most one or two years of post-Ph.D. experience overseas, and then in the deputy high school of Jiangsu University, when she jumped back to Nanlin, her tutor was already the president of Nanlin, that is to say, his wife's book is the president's team.
(3) I think his wife is really powerful and hard, sending so many papers without delaying buying a house and having a baby, and he will definitely not be fired if he has a wife, but he will not be fired when he commits suicide, which is too shocking!
(4) Therefore, people must not easily judge themselves, even if they can make decisions in their own lives, but before some things are clarified, they can no longer justify themselves in the face of all kinds of slander, how aggrieved it must be. And do you think others will really sympathize with it? Others will only take the opportunity to slander the fallen stones, and anyway, there is no proof of it, and there is no way to pursue it, which is really unfair to themselves. Of course, did the respondent realize this unfairness, no, just to get over his mouth, after all, the dead are easier to bully.
There are also netizens who have a very high evaluation of Teacher Song, and they all appreciate and respect Teacher Song very much
During his tenure, Mr. Song received a doctorate in entrepreneurship and entrepreneurship in Jiangsu Province, which is a small hat in the province, and presided over 4 longitudinal projects in the province at the same time. The corresponding author has published 9 SCI papers, many of which are top journals such as Green Chemistry. In addition, judging from the information on the Internet, Mr. Song also actively participates in public affairs, has been rated as an advanced worker many times, and has a very good reputation among students, takes classes seriously, and is responsible for students. With Mr. Song's performance, it has become useless here for the answer? In terms of Mr. Song's performance, I dare to say that he is better than most of Nanlin's incumbent associate professors, isn't he worthy of Nanlin's title of an associate professor?
Teacher Song's departure is a wake-up call. It reminds us that everyone's life is precious and that everyone's choices deserve respect. While pursuing achievements, we should pay more attention to everyone's mental health and give them the support and understanding they deserve.
Let's work together to build a more inclusive and understanding society.
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