It is said that raising children is to prevent old age
But emigration has become very common, and many young people have gone abroad to develop.
Whether raising children can prevent aging has become a hot topic.
Recently, the video of the 85-year-old retired principal living in a nursing home half-paralyzed, but his son immigrating abroad without kneeling was pushed to the hot search.
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Grandma Li is half paralyzed, and she relies on her wife, Grandpa Yang, to take care of her every day
The video shows an 85-year-old grandmother Li with dull eyes and expressionless face, and she also relies on her wife Grandpa Yang to take care of her meals.
Grandpa Yang said: Grandma Li was the president of a high school when she was young.
But unfortunately, many years ago, Grandma Li had a sudden cerebral infarction, and although her life was saved after rescue, she was paralyzed and physically incapacitated.
Grandma Li's daily life can't be taken care of by herself, and daily activities such as going to bed and going to the toilet need to be carried by Grandpa Yang.
Especially at night, Grandma Li needs to urinate at least four or five times.
Grandma Li and Grandpa Yang's children emigrated abroad and could not come back to take care of Grandma Li
Just when netizens were surprised, didn't Grandma Li and Grandpa Yang have children, and why didn't the children come to take care of their mothers.
Grandpa Yang said with a wry smile: He and Grandma Li have children, and the children are very promising, and they are immigrants living abroad.
Grandpa Yang also said: Grandma Li and Grandpa Yang didn't want to delay their children's future, nor did they want to leave their children behind, so they didn't force their children to return to China.
Besides, the child is almost 60 years old now, and there is no point in coming back.
At the same time, Grandpa Yang also said sadly: Our son is in name, but in fact he doesn't care about us.
Grandma Li's students often came to visit the two elderly people
Just when netizens felt sorry for Grandma Li and Yang Ye, and had no one to take care of the two old people.
Grandpa Yang said proudly: Among the students taught by Grandma Li when she was young, there are now professors from Nankai University, as well as elites in various positions, and they will often come to visit Grandma Li and the two of them.
When Grandpa Yang said this, he could tell that he was happy and relieved that Grandma Li's students could come to see them.
Netizen comments
Raising children is to prevent old age, but how to prevent old age when their sons have gone abroad?
Even if this child can give the old man material support, it is not much use to raise this son!
Many Chinese parents are sending their children abroad to be trained, so can't they cultivate talents at home?
When the child is abroad, the parents are extremely proud in front of outsiders, and only they know how sad they are behind their backs.
Should the children be "happy on their knees"?
Or let them "spread their wings"?
Write at the end
It should be that all parents want their children to be able to spread their wings.
That parent will not let the child give up the future for the sake of his future retirement.