In 2013, I worked in a technology company in Guangzhou, at that time I was carefree, living a life of 9 to 5, two o'clock and one line, to be honest, I originally planned to marry later, but after meeting a divorced man, I couldn't extricate myself from his love, he had nothing, for love, I married him without hesitation.
I met him at an annual meeting of the company, although we are in the same company, but in different departments, on the day of the annual meeting, due to the tight position, he sat next to me, drinking without saying a word, and my colleagues who knew him told me that his name was Zhang Jun, 32 years old, and he had just divorced his wife.
Zhang Jun looks talented, looks very handsome in a professional suit, and his melancholy eyes reveal the charm of a middle-aged man, which makes my originally calm heart make waves after meeting him again.
At the wine table, Zhang Jun drank more than a dozen bottles of beer, and he kept talking to himself in a drunken and hazy state, and the most important thing he said was: "Is money really that important?" When I looked at her after being drunk, I had an indescribable feeling in my heart, which was distress and heartbeat.
After the party, everyone left one after another, only Zhang Jun was lying on the table alone, my colleague and I saw this and planned to send him back, but my colleague told me not to meddle in my affairs, but I wanted to help him more and more strongly, but my colleague and I worked together to send him back to the company dormitory.
Later, we were together without accident, and my colleagues were very surprised and asked me what I liked about him? Yes! Zhang Jun was just a small clerk in the company, and he had no car, no house, and no deposit, so what did I want him to do? Actually, I can't say, sometimes people are like this, and after falling in love at first sight, they will not hesitate.
A year later, I married Zhang Jun, because I was the first marriage, Zhang Jun not only gave my family 180,000 dowry, but also held a grand wedding in his hometown, his parents also liked me very much, and also took out more than 100,000 yuan to give us a down payment in the city for a house, colleagues from the beginning did not understand, to later slowly envy me.
In 2015, I gave birth to a son for him, and in order to take care of the child, I quit my job, concentrated on my husband and children at home, became a housewife, doing housework, taking care of the children, and cooking for Zhang Jun became my daily routine.
Since we work and live in a small city, Zhang Jun's salary is only 8,000 yuan a month, excluding the monthly mortgage of more than 3,000 yuan, more than 1,000 food, children's milk powder and diapers about 1,000 per month, plus other daily expenses, Zhang Jun's salary of 8,000 yuan a month is barely enough for living expenses.
Maybe it's because of the pressure of work and family, Zhang Jun's temperament has changed greatly, he no longer sits with me like before and chats well, every night is after the early hours of the morning to come back, his explanation is always busy with work, let me take care of the children at home, don't care so much, at first I thought he was too stressed, so I understood him very much.
Later, my son was sent to kindergarten after he was three years old, and I also found a childcare class for my son, and then I went out to find a job, intending to help Zhang Jun reduce some of the burden, until 2019, I suddenly discovered Zhang Jun's secret, which made me instantly feel that my efforts were very cheap, no matter what I did, Zhang Jun felt that it was not enough.
Zhang Jun quit his job and began to like to drink, every time he came back drunk, he lost his temper, his son didn't care about his studies, he only knew how to be chic and happy outside, I gradually found that he disliked our family more and more, disliked me, but no matter what, for the sake of the child, I endured all the pain.
Until one day, I saw him and a woman hugging in the car downstairs in the community, I was already broken, but I still held back my anger, did not make a noise and went home, and when Zhang Jun came back, I calmly told him about it, but I didn't expect his answer to make me feel like ashes.
Zhang Jun told me frankly that he and that woman have been together for three years, I can't believe it at all, we have only been married for five years, and he has been secretly with others for three years, and he has been hiding too deeply in the past three years.
I asked him why he did this to me, and he said that the woman had money, he didn't want to live a poor life anymore, he didn't want to work hard and not save money, he said that the woman ran this small company in the city, and if he wanted to, the company could give it to him, so he didn't hesitate to betray our feelings in order to be with that woman.
Now that the words have been spoken, Zhang Jun has nothing to hide, so he directly filed for divorce with me, and said that the woman promised him that if he was willing to divorce, in order to compensate me, he was willing to give me 200,000 yuan, which was considered to have bought out my marriage, and the children and the house belonged to me.
I was so sad that I didn't keep him, and I didn't expect our marriage to be so cheap in his eyes, a marriage that could be bought out for 200,000 yuan, what else could I keep, so I agreed to the divorce, and Zhang Jun went out of the house.
Now that the child has grown up, for the healthy growth of the child, I have not chosen to remarry, I took my parents to live at home, by the way to help me take care of my son, and let me go out to work, although life is very hard, but I have never given up the pursuit of a better life, I plan to wait for the child to go to middle school, and then consider finding a man with three views to live with.
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