The consequences of taking the mother's surname!
The first generation follows the mother's surname, the second generation follows the daughter-in-law's surname, and the third generation follows the granddaughter-in-law's surname.
The consequence of taking the mother's surname is that after a few generations, the family will have a hundred flowers, maybe the family will still get married, and then the close relatives will marry and give birth to many children with health problems, and the marriage of close relatives of the European royal family is a true portrayal.
After a few generations with his mother's surname, do the children know who his ancestors are, for example, after the young couple get married. Surname: Woman's surname. And after giving birth. After they got married. The child born is also surnamed the woman's surname.
And so on. In a few years, your family will really have a hundred family names. It's okay to be rich and capricious. Directly recruit a son-in-law, buy a suite for his son-in-law, and give hundreds of thousands of dowries. There's nothing wrong with that. Don't be at that time, the bride price and the house money will not be paid?
What is the purpose of people having children? It is not to rely on the elderly, but also to pass on the descendants, and it is better for someone to inherit the money they earn than to have no offspring. Although it is hard to have children, there is hope, hope and a future, which is the case in reality.
If there is no such concept, if you think about it, there is a man who is willing to get married and have children, even if he gets married and has children, will he still work hard? Can a woman take on this family? Having a man's surname is the greatest help to a woman.
Hong Kong women all marry with their husbands' surnames, and this is the case in Europe and the United States, how can you explain this? After three generations with your mother's surname, you will not be able to find the root cause! In the future, your children will find more trouble! The result of 5,000 years of historical verification!
I don't believe that I can try, why do women have a bride price when they get married, why do women have menstruation, why women don't do heavy work, there is a difference between men and women, what God gives, you have to do it the other way around, and the family will not be happy!
Taking one's father's surname is science, an active choice for human development, and a sign of progress. As long as the father's Y gene is passed on, no matter how many generations it is passed on, it can be traced, and the X gene will be chaotic after a few generations.
Some people say that many children now have a father's surname and a mother's surname. What's wrong with that?
How can you become a family member who is not a person with the same surname? The family of a thousand years is not just talking, of course, many people in modern times are reluctant to think about the future, because many people live in the present whether they want to or not.
One with his father's surname, the other with his mother's surname, this was in the past, it was a slap in the face of a man, and now it is also because of family planning, too many families are forced to close their households, but many people still look forward to continuing their families and passing them on, so they have to do it as a last resort.
The child's father's surname is the need for family inheritance, historical evolution, national development and national reproduction. If you follow your mother, the second generation can still be orderly, and if there are more algebras, it will be a mess and cannot be examined. Therefore, it is appropriate for the child to take his father's surname.
In our ancient country with more than 5,000 years of civilization, since ancient times, grandfathers, grandmothers and grandmothers, grandfathers are grandchildren's relatives, grandchildren (daughters) and grandchildren (daughters) are inheritors, and there is no distinction between relatives and aliens.
70% of human genetic inheritance follows the father, and one of the self-discipline measures that has made the greatest progress in human civilization is to distinguish human genes by dominant surnames, so as to prevent intermarriage of the same gene type and facilitate the breeding of high-quality human offspring.
Human beings have developed to 7 billion people today, and surnames have played a decisive role in preventing the collapse of human genes in human social communication and civilization. Following the father and motherhood is by no means just an ethical issue, it is a big question of the high-quality evolution of human organisms!
Animals know that they can't mess up their blood relationship! Not to mention how much human beings have been hurt to know that close relatives can't get married, and finally use the identity of the surname to identify them!
And how to enter the family tree with the mother's nature, whose family tree to enter, and can the mother's family let him enter the family tree?
The child follows the mother's nature, it sounds very easy, not just a word problem. Actually, the problem is not small, my friend told me: I have two children, the eldest is self-willing, and the younger is mother-like.
We have been fighting for half a lifetime, in the eyes of the child he is not a member of the family, always think that we are partial, when we are fed in the mother's house, the third grade of primary school is called back to the city, the mother always gives the child pocket money alone, the education is very unsmooth, the relationship between father and son is always a little unsmooth.
became my hard injury, and I couldn't pass it on to my mother's family after that, so I didn't call our parents.
There are no rules, no circles. A customary society is a moral society. The law does not solve moral problems, but only exacerbates the anxiety of society. The scientific heritability of men proves the root of customization.
With the mother's surname is equivalent to the deed to the mother's family to continue, these ancestors said that it is not good for three generations, it will be very miserable in the future, many masters also said this when they were in the factory, even my 101-year-old grandmother and grandfather said so, I have seen such an example, I don't believe it, just look at it with long eyes!
If the child follows the mother's nature, the main thing to follow the motherhood is to get a psychological comfort, and the others are empty talk, because the rules left by the ancestors cannot be changed.
Assuming that the mother's surname must be followed, and the mother's remarriage will follow the mother's surname, and the same surname will not come from after a few generations, so the mother has the right to give birth, and the father has the right to naming, which is understandable. It doesn't matter whose surname it is. But a mother can give birth to children of different fathers, how to distinguish fathers.
I don't know where it came from for several generations with my mother's surname, and it makes sense to follow my father's surname. Especially for boys, the Y chromosome comes from the father, and it can be passed down from generation to generation, and it can be genetically confirmed to be a family.
My colleague told me: I am a woman, two sons, I think it doesn't matter if my child has my surname or his father's surname, although we didn't ask for a bride price RV for my in-laws when we got married, and now the society is basically with my father's surname.
If the child takes the mother's surname, then the husband will definitely be unhappy, the brothers and friends around him and the children all follow the father's surname, and the children follow the mother's surname, and the man will feel that he has no face and no dignity, which will affect the feelings of the husband and wife and affect the harmony of marriage and family, so if I choose, my child will still follow the father's surname.
Unless you return to a matrilineal clan society, there are many problems with children taking their mother's surname.
In ancient and modern times on the mainland, children took their father's surname and their husband's surname after marriage, and women in Western countries also took their husband's surname after marriage. This is the excellent family surname culture for all mankind. Negating the excellent traditional culture and advocating that children follow their mother's surname, although it is in line with the provisions of the mainland's marriage law, it reflects the inferiority of women and the suspicion that the offspring are not prosperous!
In ancient times, the reason for the unification of the father's surname was indeed because it was a patrilineal society, and in modern society, it is because how do you prove that the child is the father? The child must be born to the mother, but not necessarily the father.
Families with two surnames are easy to form close relatives and marry is not good for offspring, if it is a bit chaotic with motherhood, such as the mother's surname Wang, daughter-in-law's surname Li, grandson's daughter-in-law, and all the descendants have changed their surnames, but in fact, the father's gene has not changed, and the mother's gene is difficult to find, and it is difficult to find cause and effect if there is a disease.