In this era of rapid progress, the surname has also become a problem that hinders the progress of the times, and taking the mother's surname and the father's surname has also become a choice question!
In fact, I think that of course, the child follows the father's surname, and the father is seeded, and the reason why a woman wants to marry the man she loves is that she is willing to have a child for him, and she also wants the child to follow her father's surname, so that the man will be responsible.
Responsible, responsible for this family, if you follow your mother's surname, a man will not be responsible for this family, the father is the mountain, the pillar of the family, otherwise what is the point of marriage!
It is not impossible to take the mother's surname, but it must be born and raised in the woman's family, and the woman's family is responsible for all consumption. Born and raised in the man's family, the living expenses are paid by the man, and the surname follows the woman's surname.
Wu Zetian was the emperor, and he did not surname the child he gave birth to, Wu. In today's society, women take their children with their surnames, which is a manifestation of women's improved social status, but no matter how high the status is, it is not as high as that of Emperor Wu Zetian.
The country has a history, the nation has a prosperous state! The family has a heritage, and this is the case in the vast majority of countries in the world; the so-called motherhood in every family is actually the sex of the woman's father, and it is also a sequelae of the implementation of family planning in those years, and it should not be advocate!
The state is a large organization, there are many small organizations inside, each organization maintains the interests of internal personnel and organizations, ancient China is a family family union, Western modern various chambers of commerce, universities, associations, families and so on.
With the mother's surname, I don't know who the ancestor is after a few generations, if the ancestor has a big person, it will be a matter of glory to the ancestors for future generations, when to mention it, a sense of pride from the bones.
If you take your mother's surname, it's over. Whose descendants do not know. Such as Yue Fei's descendants, Jiang's descendants. Wait a minute. You let their descendants change their surnames, and when they grow up, they will change back and recognize their ancestors and return to their ancestors, such as Wang Daohan and Jiang Daohan.
In addition, following the paternal surname is conducive to the root search of the Y chromosome, and it is felt that the Y chromosome and the genealogical surname are matched, which has social significance and biological species traceability significance.
There will be confusion with motherhood, and since females are made up of two X chromosomes, there will be confusion about biology, genealogy, and surname. Then, the surname has no social value, no biological value.
The surname is for the inheritance of good genes, a woman marries three men with different surnames, and three children have a mother's surname. It doesn't take several generations to find blood brothers and sisters with different surnames.
China does not exclude taking the mother's surname, after all, China has the product of a son-in-law, but since we are not a son-in-law, we can implement it in accordance with the normal regulations.
From ancient times to the present, people need the support of their families, such as Xiang Yu's Jiangdong children, there are many people of the same clan in it. A person surnamed Sun said that you are a descendant of the Liu family. Just like a black man who says he is Chinese, people don't believe it at all.
The vast majority of children in ancient and modern China and abroad must take their father's surname, and the vast majority of the wives of previous US presidents will take their father's surname.
In ancient and modern times, after women went out, the front was the surname of the husband's family, the surname of the grandfather's family was the back, and then the back was (clan), such as: (Zhang Wang's family) is her name, Zhang is the husband's surname, Wang is the surname of the grandfather's family, and the name of the grandfather's family is not used.
My friend's second child is surnamed his wife, and when he usually plays, he can clearly feel that he and his parents are not good to the eldest and usually don't hug the second child, and the boss is buying what he wants.
Suppose that the second child of each couple takes the mother's surname, then when the four generations are in the same house, how many surnames are there in the family?
What does the surname represent the race (caste) of whose family, such as the child of the Zhang family knows that his (her) father and grandfather have the whole surname Zhang, and changing the surname to another is to destroy the ancestor, or it is not the species of the family at all.
For example, the surname of the mother means that the caste of the child's father and grandfather does not exist, that is, the child does not know what the surname of the father and grandfather is, maybe someone else's child was picked up, or maybe it is an illegitimate child.
Even if it is an illegitimate child, it should have a father, with a father's surname. Maybe the child's mother is too messy to remember whose seed it is, and there are people who have no ancestors who don't recognize the existence of this child, and this child is not of this surname.
Surname inheritance and whose surname is the best choice for thousands of years of cultural and social formation, how many years has the modern law been?
If we have to change, we will make progress, and if we don't change, we will be feudal? People in foreign countries and even the whole world will follow their father's surname, and even women will have to change their surnames after marriage! We have to change our faces beyond recognition, and we will change them to make our families jump around.
The development of matrilineal clans to patrilineal clans is a historical necessity, but as long as it is the animal attribute of man that crosses into the social attribute of man.
It is said that he found that the offspring were not well developed in the marriage within the clan, so he advocated marriage between clans. In this way, it is necessary to pay attention to the bloodline slowly.
The selection is mainly paternal, which alludes to the biological evolution of the male Y chromosome in modern genetics to male but not female. Now some people ask their sons to be motherly, either ignorant, too strong, or ill-intentioned.
Following the mother's surname is a typical feudal legacy, most of which is caused by the fact that there is no male in the woman's family. If it is said that the equality of men and women is highlighted, then it has to be followed by the surname of his mother and grandmother.
Therefore, those women who advertise that they want equality between men and women and want their children to take their mother's surname can do it themselves.
Any family that asks for a mother's surname is either a person who lacks knowledge of traditional Chinese culture or a person who is selfish. In addition, he will not ask his grandson and his daughter's surname!
It turned out that I had seen a news. The woman's family earned the first child with the grandfather's surname, but the second child was a boy with the grandfather's surname, and the man made every effort to train the second child to be the successor of the family.
The woman was reluctant and asked the eldest and second to have the same successor status. As a result, he was directly scolded back by the man, his surname is not his own surname, and he is not qualified to be the successor, and the two sides are all chicken feathers.
Two sons with two surnames, children with their father's surname enter the ancestral hall, and sons with their mother's surname can only stare dryly, and many clan affairs cannot be involved, how deep should this blow be. When he grew up, he married his daughter-in-law and had a son.
At that time, it didn't matter to the son which surname the grandson took, he was a rootless person, and his son was also rootless. Just like the classification of species, there needs to be a category to rely on, and the mule cannot rely on either side.
First, many families live in clusters, and following the mother's surname will make the child unable to integrate into the interpersonal relationship of the father's family, and second, the child's father is reluctant to hold the child's parent-teacher conference, for fear of being laughed at by other children's parents.
Third, it will reduce the intimacy between the father and the child, and the relationship between the father and the child is more alienated than that of the mother, and the father's surname is a reminder of his responsibility as a father at any time.
And with the very high cheating rate of men and women in modern society, not following the father's surname will reduce the willingness of the child's father to fight, which is not conducive to the child's future education and development.
Third, not following the father's surname will become a potential threat to the relationship between husband and wife, because the beauty period of women is relatively short, when men can't let go of their own surname obsession, if there is a young sister-in-law who has a child with his father's surname, this man may become someone else's man.
Fourth, your husband's parents may be less helpful to you, have reservations about their grandchildren's love, and if you have private money, you will only think about providing for the elderly and are not willing to give it to you in advance, and fifth, your husband's relatives will be dissatisfied with you if they know, which will affect the relationship between relatives!
Don't just take your child's mother's surname! This is a mess! Because genes are inherited by men! Female examiners should not find out that genes are inherited, and the clan in the past was also inherited by men, and it is not a patriarchal mentality!