The elderly in their 90s, her eldest child may also be 70, and it is possible that she is also too busy to take care of herself, but there is no one to take care of and no one to support, and it is difficult to say whose responsibility it is. In the village, a person who is not filial and does not support his parents, if you look up, you will find that his parents were not filial and did not support his grandparents...... This has been the case for generations......
The old man in the past said: A mother can raise 10 children, but 10 children can't raise a mother, the children don't care much, it depends on whether they have a heart!
If one or two do not give treatment, it may be that the children are bad, but if all five are like this....... who can say for sure? It is difficult to say whether the five children are the kind of four sisters and one brother!
A single child who does not take care of her may indeed be selfish and unfilial. But there are so many children who don't like her, maybe you really have to think about whether it's your own problem [tears] can't just look at the results, and their education methods have a lot to do with the concept, I think raising one is better than raising five, two bowls of water are not even, let alone five bowls [Yun Bei]
It's really hard to evaluate, sometimes honoring the old man really tests a person's conscience, and it's probably not that he has to be the wronged leader, but no one cares about it, and then it's really difficult for the conscience to be at ease and can't bear to manage, but often this is the most worrying one in the end is the least good one, I feel that the most unpopular is either the most filial or the most unfilial!
It's all like this, are you still in a hurry to be the big wrongdoer? Either express your dissatisfaction to your face, or don't accompany you next time. Laughing to death, if I hear this sentence, I will leave on the spot, throw a sentence: Then let your baby son take care of you [smile]
If there are more children, filial piety may not be taken care of, our original neighbor aunt, two children are abroad, one is in Shanghai, and the other is in the local area but has his own family, there is an urgent matter really can't be taken care of, it is better to help the neighbors!
I deeply sympathize, my mother has always taken care of my grandfather, my grandfather doesn't appreciate it and thinks that my mother treats her badly and wants to hurt him, but every day he talks about not being able to see him a few times, and crying to my mother aggrieved [tears], so I don't know the whole picture and don't comment!
Don't the older generation say that they have more children and more blessings? How ironic [not simple] is really not suffering from widowhood and unevenness, brothers and sisters come without discussion, and they will all complain in the future!
If I told my child that I wanted to eat together and she ate it all, it would be a problem with my education, and if I didn't say that she finished eating first, then cook it yourself and buy it again! This is really funny, you suspect that the child is not filial, and you don't suspect that you are cooking less!
In fact, the more children there are, the more complaints each child will have. There are only two parents, so many children, and it is impossible to serve a bowl of water. The children who are usually not favored think, why don't they usually love me, and they want me to do their best when there is something, so that your favorite children can take care of you. The usually favored children think, why do so many children only need to contribute by themselves, and I can't help if others don't come out. Everyone blames each other, so everyone doesn't care...
Seeing such righteous indignation when I was young, now... How to say it, it can be regarded as a growth in another sense [Yunbei] When I was young, I had limited experience, and my understanding of human nature was not enough, and after I had a certain amount of experience, I deeply realized the practical significance of the sentence "Poor people must have their hateful"!