Text/Flying Fish
Most of them are actually thinking about raising children to prevent old age, and when they are old and have children to raise, it is a time to enjoy blessings.
But in fact, life is very stressful, and children are sometimes powerless, and they can't even take care of their own lives, so for parents, when they are old, they still have to come out to find some work to do, save money to support themselves, and don't cause trouble to their children.
In fact, when the parents are old, in good health, and able to do it, then it is best to rely on themselves after all.
Everyone wants to live a little more confidently, then we should also understand that between parents and children, in fact, is a practice, not just ask each other, not always ask for each other, but help each other, mutual respect process.
Most parents would rather work hard for themselves than cause trouble to their children, which is the pity of parents all over the world.
Parents who have only one child, in order to reduce the burden on their children, after the age of sixty, prepare these three things for themselves in advance, is the guarantee.
1. Arrange a good place to live.
Having a place to stay in old age is a blessing for people in their old age.
Some old people have several children, and when they are old and incapable, each child pushes back and pushes, shirks responsibility, and does not want to take himself over, such a night scene is very sad.
Some old people have a child after a child, give their life money to their children to buy a house, think about living with their children in the future, and then take grandchildren at home, but they don't think that after marriage, the children can't accommodate themselves here, and they don't have a home for themselves when they are old, which is also very sad.
I think that Uncle Yan and his wife in "An Home" are like this, they have saved a lifetime of money, thinking that when their son gets married, they will buy a new house, and then the old couple will also retire and help take care of the children at home, but the old couple did not leave a way out for themselves, the house has the son's name written on it, and it is still paid in full, and the son does not have to pay a penny, but he does not let his parents live in it after marriage, and Uncle Yan and his wife will eventually go to rent a house to live, so it is very heartbreaking to watch.
Parents who only have one child, you don't have to pay all for your child, you should also think about yourself, leave yourself a way out, even if you help your child, you have to leave some money for yourself, and be sure to give yourself a place to live.
2. Save pension money for old age security.
When people are old, whether it is their own food and clothing, or the cost of medical treatment, and they have money, then they will not ask for their children, and they can also reduce the burden of providing for their children.
It's okay for the child to be filial to you, if the child is not filial to you, he doesn't come back once a year, and the relationship with you is not good, then he has no one to take care of himself in his later years, and he has no money, it will be very difficult.
Therefore, people must learn to prepare for their old age and save a good amount of pension money, that is, if the child is not around, even if the child does not take care of himself, then he can spend money to hire someone to take care of himself, and he does not need to rely on the child or count on the child, which is the confidence of the old age.
Birth, old age, sickness and death are the normal state of life, and when people get old, illness may also be a common thing, or save more money for yourself, which is the most practical.
3. Support children to find happiness and a place to belong.
Parents who only have one child, in fact, hope that their children can also find a partner who truly loves each other, can enter into marriage, and complete life events.
Parents with only one child, in fact, can understand best that they rarely come to husband and wife to accompany them. When you are old, you can see that you have your wife around you and support each other with your wife, which is actually a very happy thing.
And I only have one child and no brothers and sisters, so I hope that the child will also have someone by his side, give birth together, and form a family together, so that he can also enjoy the joy of family.
When parents are old, they actually know that they can't help many children anymore, and they can't even accompany their children to the end, so they will hope that their children will get married as soon as possible, don't keep delaying, and only when they see their children start a family in their lifetime, they will feel that it is the most blessed thing in life.
For parents who only have one child, after the age of 60, people are getting old, and they don't want their children to be alone in this world, and they feel that this is the happiest thing in life if they get married early, have a partner, and have children.
Therefore, after people reach the age of 60, whether it is their own residence, pension money, or the destination of their children, they must take into account that this is a vision.
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