In the long river of love, each of us is a walker. Some people walk fast, some walk slowly, and some people are at a certain corner, saying goodbye to the people they once loved. After a breakup, how those who once loved deeply settle in our hearts becomes a topic of growth and tolerance.
Love is not always sweet, sometimes it is tingling, sometimes it is full of remorse, sometimes it is full of helplessness. We learn, grow, and sometimes hurt in the process of loving. Every love is a part of our lives, and no matter how it ends, the feelings it once brought us are real.
He may not be a perfect person, and his shortcomings may be unbearable for you at one point, but after all, there was a time when you loved him with all your heart. This love, this love, is real, it has left traces in your life and shaped you are today. No matter how many ups and downs you have experienced in this relationship, there will always be moments worth cherishing, which are valuable assets on your path to growth.
When love comes to an end, when the former lover becomes the past, how we deal with this past and how we look at the person we once loved is an art and a wisdom. Treating a person you once loved as an old friend, or even a passerby, may sound a little indifferent, but it is actually a kind of detachment, a relief.
You can choose to remember him well and forget the memories that bring you pain. Give him a new position in the bottom of his heart - an old friend, a former confidant. In this way, you keep the good memories of the past and let go of those unpleasantness. This attitude is not only a tolerance for him, but also an explanation of his past.
It is not easy to be tolerant of someone who has hurt you in the past. But tolerance is not for the sake of the other party, but for the sake of being able to move forward better. Resentment consumes our hearts and hinders our steps. Learn to be tolerant, let go of the past, and you will find that your path will be easier.
Tolerance is a manifestation of maturity that comes from a deep understanding of life and an insistence on self-worth. To be tolerant of a person does not mean to forget everything, but to grasp one's emotions and not let the shadow of the past block the light ahead.
Seeing a former lover as a passerby is actually a redefinition of a relationship. This definition is based on a deeper understanding of both the self and the other. You know his strengths, you know his shortcomings, and your past, joys and sorrows, is history.
Redefining the relationship means that you can look at the person calmly without any more emotional entanglements. If you meet someone on the street, you can smile and nod your head, and if you need help, you can reach out as appropriate. You have achieved respect for yourself and respect for the past.
Let go of the past and tolerate the old love, and you will gain a wider mental space to meet the new love that may come in the future. Every experience is a treasure in life, and every setback is a ladder to maturity. When you learn to deal with the past in a healthy way, you will find yourself standing taller and seeing farther.
Those who can leave just don't care, and any broken relationship is not worth repairing. In fact, there is no so-called misunderstanding in the world. I really love someone, but I love, I cling, and I firmly believe in ······
In a love story, not every relationship has a perfect ending, but every experience is worth cherishing and reflecting on. The transformation from a lover to a passerby is not a depreciation of feelings, but a sublimation of life. This transformation teaches us how to gain in loss and start in the end. The road ahead, because of this detachment and tolerance, will be brighter and more open.
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