Text: Jiang Qingtong
Editor|Jiang Qingsheng
Preface
"You didn't hit it, why did you hold it"
I don't know how many people's hearts were chilled by this sentence back then, resulting in more and more people now preferring to stand by on the road rather than help the fallen person up.
Although it is chilling, compared with standing by and watching, more people do not want to be slandered after they go up with good intentions, although it is said that many years have passed since the problem of whether to help or not.
But even now, it is still an enduring topic, and there was even a year when the Spring Festival Gala had the name of a sketch, which was a question about whether to help or not.
And this time, another high school girl encountered the same problem, and kindly helped up the old man who fell, but she didn't expect to be bitten by the other party and said that it was hit by the girl.
What's even more unexpected is that there is a follow-up to this incident, when someone took out the surveillance video and wanted to help the girl, the other party confessed instead.
The old man fell and slandered people
The incident happened in Yibin, Sichuan, on April 24, when an aunt unfortunately fell down on the road, perhaps because of her age, she didn't get up for a long time.
Although this is a commercial area, the flow of people is very large, but no one has come to check the situation for a long time, everyone only cares about their own walking.
And at this time, a girl came from behind, and after seeing the old man fall, she went over and wanted to help him up without thinking about it, but she didn't expect the aunt on the ground to directly drag the girl and say that she knocked him down.
And as the aunt's voice became louder and louder, the surrounding people began to gradually watch, and at this time, many people around seemed to be brought to the rhythm by this aunt, and they also began to turn their heads and persuade the girl to be responsible for the end.
Where has this girl seen such a battle, she couldn't argue for a while, no matter how she explained, but the aunt on the ground was determined that she was knocked down by the girl.
In this way, under the dispute, the traffic police soon arrived at the scene, and the scene at this time became a public saying that the public was justified, and the two sides insisted on their own words, and the traffic police could not determine their responsibilities for a while.
So I had to take the two of them back to investigate, but fortunately, there are more shops in the vicinity, so there is surveillance to be able to film the situation here.
A day later, on April 25, it was revealed from the video provider that the girl was a junior in high school and happened to be passing by here, but she didn't expect to get angry.
And the aunt, no matter what others say, is sure that it was the girl who knocked herself down on a bicycle from behind, and then the surrounding shopkeepers couldn't stand it, so they kindly pulled out the surveillance video and sent it to her.
With the supervision and the intervention of the police, I believe that the girl will definitely be able to return her innocence, but in fact, is this matter a big deal? From a legal point of view, it is indeed a trivial matter in life, and there are no injuries on both sides.
But if from a moral point of view, this matter has reached a very angry situation, if it is really not the girl who hit it, and then was falsely accused by the aunt, then it should be returned to the family a clean slate.
It didn't take long for an insider to reveal that in fact, the traffic police had already delineated the responsibilities, and both parties had signed, so everyone just waited for the police report.
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Many people are very curious about why such things have endured in society for a long time, and the cost of making mistakes by liars is so low, and some people even want to turn the page on the matter with the sentence I remember wrong.
But for those who originally wanted to do good deeds, but were wronged, what a big blow to their hearts, after all, rumors have a mouth, and they break their legs.
"You didn't hit it, why do you want to help" Even now, I didn't expect this sentence to still appear in our lives.
Now everyone wants to do a good deed, they have to look at the cost, after all, no one wants to help others but be maliciously slandered by others.
Don't think that such a thing is a small probability, just like this time, this girl herself may not know that such a thing will happen.
There have been several such cases before, where an old man fell and fainted while riding a bicycle, but several passers-by walked by without even looking.
It didn't take long for an enthusiastic guy to come, first checked the old man's condition, and then called the emergency call to send the old man to the hospital, which was originally a good thing and saved the old man's life, but he didn't expect the old man to wake up and say that it was the guy who knocked him down.
The most important thing is that if there is no monitoring, then no one will believe you if you say the sky, once you can't prove it, then wait to compensate for all kinds of medical losses.
In fact, all this shows a problem, that is, you may not get any benefits for doing good deeds now, and even break the bank, if this situation develops, then who will dare to act easily in the future.
And the cost of touching porcelain is too low, almost zero cost, after all, they don't have any losses, and they can get a sum of money.
When it was the most rampant, there was even a porcelain bumper on the road, that is, the kind of old man walking on the side of the road, after seeing the car, he naturally leaned on the car, and when the owner braked, the old man began to lie on the ground.
Car owners will think that they have hit someone without knowing it, and most of them will think about it privately.
It is not difficult to see from the one-sided replies of netizens that everyone prefers to choose to stand by and watch such things, and more is better than less.
And from another point of view, there is almost no way to convict such people in the end, unless there is clear evidence to prove that he is slandering people for the sake of slandering people.
Therefore, many adults now almost dare not help the elderly, but those students who have not done anything will choose to take action after seeing such a situation.
In fact, for many people, if it weren't for the fact that there are more and more negative teaching materials in society, everyone would still be more willing to lend a hand.
Of course, we can't generalize, the reason why some old people hold on to it, in addition to being a slander, there is another factor, that is, even he may not know whether he helped the person up and hit him.
It's just that the first reaction is that since he helped me up, it must be him, so even if the old man doesn't know what the truth is, he will make a decision.
So some people will ask, what should we do at this time, is it really impossible to be a person who stands by and watches.
I think it's okay to divide the situation, but we shouldn't be an indifferent person, to take the simplest example, we can help the elderly who are in trouble, but first of all, we must ensure ourselves.
For example, if it is in a monitored environment, we can boldly lend a hand, and if there is no surveillance, we should also take a video from beginning to end to preserve the evidence.
If you are not sure whether the elderly have broken a bone, try not to act rashly to avoid secondary injury, just call and wait for the ambulance to arrive.
Maybe it's not that the old man has gone bad. It's that some bad people are getting old, and for most people, there are still more good people in this society.
Regarding this time, it shouldn't actually be the focus, but it rushed to the hot search again because of the question of whether to help or not, if it was really the old man who slandered the girl.
Then she should be asked to stand up and admit her mistake to the girl's face, not without any expression after doing something wrong, otherwise it will end up chilling many people's hearts.
I hope that the bad guys will be severely punished, and I hope that the good guys will not be wronged, if such a thing still happens in the future, then maybe no one will really shoot again in the future.
Of course, if you really can't do it and encounter such a situation, don't worry, just wait for the police to come and deal with it, and we should also believe that the law will give us justice.
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