Back in 2003, it was not an ordinary year, and two major events happened to me when I was in junior high school.
One of the things is that the SARS epidemic is getting bigger and bigger, and the junior high school in our township is closed. Another thing is that I took the entrance exam, and unfortunately, I didn't get into high school.
After failing the entrance examination, I faced the first important choice in my life, to drop out or continue my studies, under the advice of my parents, I chose to continue my studies, I couldn't go to high school, and I went to Zhengzhou to go to secondary school.
There is a big difference between technical secondary school and high school, technical secondary school has to choose a major in advance, and I chose a computer major, which was still very popular at that time.
After two years of study, I hardly learned any useful knowledge, and I really didn't want to waste time, so the school arranged some internship opportunities, and I resolutely went to work in a computer factory in Wuhan.
A year later, I graduated from secondary school, and my part-time career in a computer factory ended, this year was 2006, and I was born in 1989, and I was still a young boy.
The days passed quickly, and in the blink of an eye it was 2008, which also happened to me in two major events, one was that the Wenchuan earthquake with a magnitude of 8.0 occurred, and I donated a sum of money. The other thing is that I met my first girlfriend, who was also my later marriage.
In 2010, when I was working in a computer company, I came across a new gadget, Weibo. accidentally became the first generation of self-media people.
When Weibo arose, Weibo at that time was not today's Weibo, and Weibo at that time had Tencent, Sina Weibo, Sohu Weibo, and NetEase Weibo.
I am also a small achievement in Tencent Weibo, with a total of 10 million followers on multiple accounts, and this year I completely resigned and worked full-time as a self-media, earning quite a lot.
When I was 22 years old, that is, in 2011, I was in love with my first girlfriend for three years, and both of them felt that they had reached the point of talking about marriage, she didn't ask for a car, nor did she want a house, so a lover finally became a family.
When we reached the legal age of marriage at 23, we got our license and had our first child. In the days that followed, my daughter-in-law took care of the children, I engaged in self-media to earn living expenses, Tencent Weibo and the official account, and my life was very nourishing.
During this period, we have been renting a house, and when I was 25 years old, I had earned a lot of savings from the media, and I felt that it was time to buy a house to give my daughter-in-law and children a stable home.
So we had the first house in our lives, this house is a two-bedroom apartment, lived for five years, during which the second child was opened, and we also considered finding a companion for our son in order to respond to the call, and we gave birth to a daughter.
As my two children grew up, I gradually began to plan for my future life, because I was a son and a daughter, and a two-bedroom house was definitely not enough to live in.
So when I was 30 years old, we bought a big house, and we bought our first car to get our children to and from school.
Although when my daughter-in-law married me, I didn't give her a car or a house, but after seven years of marriage, I also had a car and a house.
At the age of 30, I have a car, a house, a daughter-in-law, and a pair of children.
During this period, in order to have more time to spend with my daughter-in-law and children, I first changed the official account, and sad things followed, and Tencent Weibo was shut down!
My source of income was short, which made me a little panicked, so in 2018, my daughter-in-law went to work, and I also found a job to support my family.
The job is not bad, not only can I have a stable income, but I can also take care of the children, and I will not delay the transportation of the children to and from school, but unfortunately the good times will not last long.
At the end of 2019, the new crown epidemic hit. In 2023, it will be completely liberalized. Because of a problem with my cervical spine, I took a leave of absence that did not completely improve, and I voluntarily resigned from a fairly good job.
Fortunately, after my condition improved, I started creating in Toutiao, and regained the road of self-media.
Now 35 years old, I am ready to retire early, and I live by self-media creation, without looking at the face of my boss or intriguing with my colleagues.
For someone like me who is not very sociable, it is simply not too cool!