After the age of 50, no matter how beautiful you are, these three kinds of people, don't contact them anymore, it's really unnecessary
People who have passed the age of 50 know that this journey is really not easy, and among the many people you meet, there are always some people who you regard as treasures, but he regards you as a mustard, or even as a small grass. There are always things that, despite your best efforts, still don't get the best results.
Crossing the threshold of 50 years old, experiencing countless ditches and experiencing the warmth and coldness of human affection, I gradually understood that life needs to do addition and subtraction, and I also learned to streamline my circle, cherish the people I should cherish, do what I should do, and do my best for the rest!
After the age of 50, no matter how good the mix is, the following three types of people should not be contacted again, not because they are ruthless and unrighteous, but because they are unnecessary.
One, people who always like to compare themselves with others.
People who always like to compare themselves with others have an obsession in their hearts. That is to look at those who are high and those who are inferior to themselves to be extremely low.
If you are better than him in your relationship with this kind of person, he will compare you to other people and say that you are not as good as this or that. If you don't mix well with him, he will despise you and think that you are a bad mix, or even inferior.
In short, those who compare themselves with others at every turn do not have the word low-key in their hearts, some are just: jealousy and inferiority complex if they lose, and a sense of superiority over others will arise in their hearts when they win.
In some things that were originally insignificant, it is also possible to blame yourself for sulking because of the other party's contagion, thinking that you are not as good as others, and you may even compare your family with others, making the family quarrel and quarrel, and the old and young are not at peace.
Second, people with bad habits
There is such a sentence in Fu Xuan's "Fu Quail Collection: Prince Young Fu Zhen" in the Jin Dynasty: "Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black", which always warns us that getting close to good people will make people better, and getting close to bad people will not learn good, and it is even possible to get infected with bad habits and become people like them because of other people's bad habits.
Therefore, after the age of 50, spend more time with sunny people, try to stay away from people who are untrustworthy, insincere, dishonest, for petty profits, for a few taels of broken silver, and can sell their conscience and friends at will!
Such a person can't make friends, let alone deep friendships, and it's best to stay as far away as possible, so as not to be infected by his bad habits, so as not to be deceived by his conscience and soul that he can sell his conscience and soul for a few taels of silver, so as not to be led into the abyss of pain by their gambling drugs.
The ancients said: "People have evil habits and cannot have fellowship." "Staying away from people who consume you, people who have bad habits, is the right way in life.
Three, insatiable relatives
Our parents often told us that relatives would only kiss if they left, and if they didn't leave, they would become unfamiliar.
The reality tells us that some relatives, you treat him as a relative, but he treats you as something he endlessly asks.
As someone said: In today's materialistic and profit-hungry red dust, there are always some people who do unknown things under the guise of fame and fortune of their relatives, and are even insatiable and ungrateful. What's more, once there is no profit to be made and there is no benefit, they will withdraw faster than the rabbit, for fear that you will borrow money from them. When you turn over, they come to offer their courtesy, to recognize their relatives.
It is not that such relatives have a bad memory, but that they do not know what it means, "hello and I am good"; still less do they understand the truth that relatives help each other when they have something and help each other when they are in difficulty. In their eyes, there is only one thing, and that is that I can get more benefits from you, take advantage of you, and you don't want to get anything from me.
Such relatives, no matter how close they are, must learn to stay away, so as not to be ruined by their insatiable greed.
People who have passed 50, gone through the wind and rain, understood some truths, and stayed away from people who compare at every turn, not because they are ruthless, but because they make their lives smoother.
Stay away from people with bad habits, not because you don't like to make friends, but because you don't need to be in the company of these people.
Staying away from insatiable relatives is not a disapproval of one's own relatives, but a kind of self-protection so as not to lose a lot.
That is to say, after the age of 50, no matter how good you are, don't deal with these three kinds of people, and even contact is not necessary, take care of each other, and be okay with each other!