Oil magnate Rockefeller once said:
"If communication were a commodity, I would be willing to pay more than anything else for that ability. ”
Indeed, strong communication skills can effectively reduce costs, which means that problems can be dealt with quickly and transactions can be strengthened.
You will find that in real life, not everyone has good communication skills.
It can even be said that those who can't speak, or who speak at a low level, or even have little emotional intelligence, will definitely let their lives fall into all kinds of passivity.
In the final analysis, because I don't know how to communicate and don't know what kind of judgments and choices to make, I finally invisibly erected a high wall in my life.
On the other hand, those who are very good at talking, in fact, in life, tend to live more smoothly, and even life can become like a fish in water.
Because they can speak to other people's hearts, and they can speak the truth, and they can live their own beautiful life by relying on their own communication.
Know how to respect each other
For thousands of years, the first essence of communication has been to learn to respect others.
A person who does not know how to respect others must ultimately belong to the kind of person who cannot win the respect of others for himself.
Actor Ge You has always been very famous, but anyone who has come into contact with him knows that this person is very low-key and quite modest.
Because Ge You not only has high emotional intelligence, but also has a smiling face when he speaks, and even you can always feel an energy of being taken care of and treated sincerely.
Therefore, because Ge You has no value, he can give people a sense of superiority, and then he will inevitably feel that this kind of person is particularly reliable in his heart.
Indeed, in reality, there are too many people in the so-called social entertainment, once they talk about it, they are not ashamed, all kinds of boasting, all kinds of bottomless touting.
But in fact, these people feel that they are very beautiful on the surface, but in the eyes of others, they are actually shallow and short-sighted.
Only those who are really sincere enough to never interrupt the other party's conversation rashly in the process of communicating with others, but always know how to respect each other, know how to respect each other, and know how to understand each other.
Only such a person can know how to listen and know respectful communication methods through themselves, so that everyone can get along well in the process of communication and getting along.
In the end, I can also win more and more people's favor and respect for me, so that everyone can live happily and better.
Judge others less
In fact, those who like to judge others and like to talk about others are quite stupid.
Because such a person not only does not get the favor and liking of others, but at the same time, he is actually wasting his time and energy.
Many people are always idle and have nothing to do, but in fact, they are not without things to do, but simply feel that it is easier to satisfy themselves by evaluating others, or to be satisfied faster.
So, I always can't help but like to evaluate this, and I can't help but deny that.
In short, whether it is pleasing to the eye or not, you have to evaluate it.
Such a person thinks that he is very powerful, and always feels that he has seen through everything and the essence of everything.
But in reality, people are just too lazy to talk to you, or even treat you as a joke.
Therefore, a person who lives transparently will never easily let himself in real life evaluate that and blame that at every turn.
It's about living in your own world, living a little sober in your own world, and living a little more confused in someone else's world.
In this way, you can really see through without saying anything, see through without saying anything, consider the other party's feelings more, and always leave enough room for others.
In the end, I can let myself really feel the warmth and kindness of each other in the process of communicating with others.
Learn to be inclusive
Inclusion is not only a kind of wisdom, but also a pattern.
A truly powerful person is always tolerant of others and himself on the other.
In fact, I also know that every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, no one is born with smooth sailing, and no one has a life that fulfills their wishes.
Many times, the changes in life, as well as the impermanence of life, will always make you feel that you are bruised all over your body, and you have been hit on the head and bleeding.
But no matter what, life always needs to go on, and life is full of possibilities.
Human life is only once, so we must learn to be kind to ourselves, tolerate others, and respect others.
When we truly have a compassionate heart and a normal heart, we will find that we know how to communicate with others in harmony, and we also know that when we speak, we should face it with an open attitude and an inclusive attitude.
In this way, we can reduce the tension between each other, and finally, we can live a more peaceful life, live more calmly, and walk more steadily and calmly.