An 85-year-old retired principal suddenly appeared in our sight, and it turned out that he had been interviewed. The old man told his story about his life in a nursing home, and he admitted that the only thing he found consolation was that many students were thinking about them.
As for his own son, the old man also emphasized that he did have a son in name, but in fact he couldn't control anything. It's not that the son is not filial, but the old man's son lives abroad, separated by thousands of mountains and rivers, and he has no heart or power, even if he wants to be with the old man every day, there is always a distance problem to solve.
From the ancient times people said that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, you can see that the relationship between people has a certain relationship with distance, maybe people are very filial, but after all, they are too far apart, can not always serve on the side, although the old man is reasonable, but from his expression, it can also be seen that it is a little emotional.
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Parents are always willing to wronged themselves for their children, and the elderly are willing not to delay their children, out of parental love, but for such parents, they also deserve our respect. Some netizens even sympathized with the old man because of this, but in fact, the 85-year-old retired principal, he doesn't need your sympathy.
There are many reasons, the most important point is that he starts from himself, he does not feel that this is a sacrifice, and his parents are willing to let their children run towards a better future for the sake of their children, so what is wrong? And when the old man talks about his son, he also talks about the specific age of the child, and what kind of work can a person around 60 years old have when he comes back?
For the sake of the child's development, the old man is willing, so others don't have to say more. What's more, even if the old man is not accompanied by his son, they have many students, and the student union comes to visit the teacher from time to time, and the visit of young people is always a comfort to the old man.
Moreover, the old man's former occupation also gave them the security of their pension, and the old man did not need his children to pay too much money, so instead of tying the children to their side to do their filial piety, it was better to let them fly freely and go where they wanted.
As a former principal, the old man is far-sighted and open-minded, and they don't think that it is a bad thing to put their children abroad, and we bystanders do not need to have a headache about this, after all, the specific situation of each family is different.
If the protagonist of this story is not a retired principal, but an ordinary person without retirement security, then the child goes abroad, the life of the elderly may encounter problems, and the child should come back to accompany him, but the principal's retirement life is really much easier than that of ordinary people, although the principal himself is half paralyzed, but the old man is taken care of by his wife.
This love is also a guarantee for their own emotions, not to mention, after young people become families, they already have their own small families to take care of, and it is impossible to let children live under the wings of their parents all the time, and that kind of protection will also make children feel unhappy.
Growing up is a story that goes farther and farther away, but the eyes of parents are always looking forward to this side, maybe the two old people are still looking forward to being able to reunite as a family, after all, old people, who doesn't care more about time?
It's just that compared to the fulfillment of their wishes, the old people are still willing to consider their children and not disturb their children's lives, this kind of love, every parent is actually the same, and their identity has nothing to do with their former positions, because this kind of love is natural, from the basic care of human nature.