Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
Life is like a game of chess.
What kind of mentality and what kind of character you enter the game will doom the outcome of the chess game.
A person's personality traits and behavioral habits will reveal his future development direction and the trade-offs on the road of life.
After a man's career has developed and his economic level has been significantly improved, the key to whether he begins to swell and become fluttery, or whether he is cautious in his words and deeds, lives a low-key life, and keeps everything he has, lies in his behavior and habits.
Men with the following habits, after they have money, will give up their wives, women should be vigilant.
02, a man with a low sense of responsibility and a heart in his bones
Colleague Cheng Zhe was very passive when he got married with his wife, he was not ready to step into marriage, and wanted to play for a few more years, but his wife was pregnant.
Under pressure from both parents, he could only choose to marry his son.
After getting married, he lived a well-behaved life for a while, and as his career rose, his socialization increased, and his heart gradually began to be restless again.
After his wife gave birth to a child, her figure was deformed, her temper was not good, and she didn't have the heart to clean up and dress herself.
Cheng Zhe was even more impatient with his wife and was reluctant to get close to her.
After his wife found out that he was recruiting bees and butterflies outside of marriage and having an affair with different women, he didn't want to explain to his wife, and he didn't want to continue to live this kind of life without freedom, so he simply filed for divorce.
He felt that when he was rich, he should enjoy a more wanton and free life, rather than giving up an entire forest for a tree.
Men with a very low sense of responsibility, after they have money, have more capital to make trouble, and they will ignore their adherence to marriage.
The heart of his bones will be undisguised, and he wants to satisfy his inner vanity with fresh feelings.
If a man has a low sense of responsibility, he will not stick to his fidelity to his marriage and will not always keep his vows to his wife in mind.
As long as he has the opportunity, he will strive to break free from the shackles of marriage and linger among the flowers.
03. With girls, there is no sense of boundary
A man who does not have a sense of boundaries can easily do things that cross the line.
He doesn't cherish his relationship with his wife, nor does he care about his wife's feelings, and he will constantly wander on the boundary of marriage.
With girls, he will express his affection and show his charm to tease girls' hearts.
For example: making some ambiguous jokes, calling girls by their nicknames, taking the initiative to lend their clothes to girls to keep out the cold, etc.
If his wife minds his behavior, he will in turn accuse his wife of making a fuss and being suspicious, saying that he and the girl are frank and innocent.
If he has money, he will use it to be bold and do things that he didn't dare to do before.
He will give up his wife, give up their feelings for each other, and choose a woman who is more compatible with him to stand by his side.
Men without a sense of boundaries, in order to satisfy their pursuit of novelty and excitement, will easily cross the line and repeatedly challenge the bottom line of marriage.
04. Very conceited, easy to lose yourself when you hear praise
Xu Huanshan in "Thirty Only" seems to be a good husband.
He obeyed his wife Gu Jiayan, but he was actually a very high-spirited man.
Gu Jia is more capable and skilled than him, and runs the company very prosperously. On the one hand, he needs to rely on Gu Jia to help him solve various problems in the company, and on the other hand, he has a strong rejection of Gu Jia.
After meeting Lin Youyou, under Lin Youyou's praise, he complained more and more about Gu Jia. Even, after Gu Jia was frustrated, he hit her mercilessly and ridiculed her.
He has been waiting for Gu Jia to fail completely, so that he doesn't have to live in the shadow of Gu Jia all the time.
The conceit in his heart had gradually taken over his sanity.
If Xu Huanshan became rich, he would not hesitate to get rid of Gu Jia, get rid of what he thought Gu Jia controlled him, and pursue the freedom he wanted.
A conceited man can only see himself at all times, always self-centered, and ignores his wife's dedication.
It is easy for him to lose himself in the praise and admiration of others, to indulge his desires and vanity.
It is difficult for a conceited man to admit the excellence and value of his wife.
Especially after he became rich, he would give up his wife in a victorious manner. He selfishly thinks he deserves better.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
Women, at any time, do not pin their hopes on men.
The road of life is full of many variables, and it is better to rely on no one than on yourself.
If you want to live a quality life, you have to work hard and work hard. If you want to feel safe, stay independent and learn to love yourself.
If you don't pin your hopes on a man, even if he chooses to leave, he will be able to support his life alone and continue to follow his own path.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.