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In the beautiful time of September in the golden autumn of 1987, a beam of shining sunshine also quietly descended on the campus of Beijing Broadcasting Institute, warmly touching the hearts of the two young people, making their encounter so beautiful.
Li Yong, a man from beautiful Xinjiang, and Ha Wen, a girl from Ningxia who has a temperament like a daisy in the morning light, their life trajectories are skillfully intertwined by fate.
Li Yong grew up in the vast land of Xinjiang since he was a child, and it was not until the moment he stepped onto the university campus that he left that place full of passion and vitality for the first time.
Due to his naturally introverted and slightly shy personality, he seems a little weak in interpersonal communication, however, Li Yong finds that singing can effectively help him overcome his stuttering trouble, so he always goes to the quiet grove alone and sings loudly.
Compared with Li Yong, Haven is like a delicate flower carefully cultivated in a greenhouse, thriving under the love and care of his family. She was born into a family of cadres, and her father, Ha Jinjie, served as deputy secretary general of the General Office of the Ningxia Autonomous Region.
Influenced by a good education since childhood, she exudes a fragrant atmosphere like a rose, subtle but elegant, gentle and generous.
Perhaps it was the arrangement of fate that Li Yong and Ha Wen were admitted to Beijing Broadcasting Institute at the same time. One afternoon sun shines through the gaps in the leaves on the wide playground track, and a figure leans quietly against the shade of the trees, intently observing everything around him.
Li Yong saw Ha Wen sitting there from a distance, and the moment when the sun gently embraced her body and put on a golden coat for her, it seemed to be the moment when weeds quietly bloomed in early spring.
From that moment on, Li Yong's heart was deeply attracted to Harvin, and he began to pay attention to Harvin silently, and even used a pen to depict her silhouette. Although the personalities of the two are completely different, it is this difference that makes the relationship between them deeper and more wonderful.
Li Yong was moved by Harvin's gentle and generous temperament, and Harvin was gradually attracted by Li Yong's innocence and persistence.
Once in class, Harvin accidentally caught a glimpse of Li Yong's side face listening attentively to the lecture, and an indescribable warm current suddenly emerged in his heart. From then on, whenever she saw Li Yong, her face would always involuntarily overflow with a smile of joy.
In order to attract Harvin's attention, Li Yong resolutely changed his shy and introverted personality in the past. He resolutely and courageously responded to the questions raised by the teacher in class, and took the initiative to participate in various activities organized by major clubs.
At the world-renowned school joint party, Li Yong did not hesitate to invite Ha Wen to dance together. The two on the dance floor danced as if everything in the world had come to a standstill.
After this passionate dance performance, the relationship between the two grew deeper and the topic increased. Since then, Li Yong has often found opportunities to chat with Harvin, and as time passes, Harvin's feelings for him have gradually sublimated.
In the end, Li Yong mustered up the courage and confessed his innermost emotions to Harvin. Looking at the once introverted and shy young man in front of him, who has now become so brave and determined because of himself, Haven's heart swells with endless warmth.
She accepted Li Yong's affectionate confession with joy, and the love between the two was like a blazing flame burning throughout the campus. Teachers and students have sent their most sincere blessings to them, in every corner of the campus, as long as there is a figure of Ha Wen, there will be Li Yong by the side, their loving and sweet appearance is enviable.
However, life is always so beautiful and unpredictable, when happiness comes, we are ecstatic, and when suffering comes, we are helpless. In 2017, a report titled "After Earning Huge Wealth in China and Moving Overseas, CCTV Can't Save the Couple" caused an uproar on the Internet, with people leaving comments below the article and even malicious attacks on Li Yong's Weibo.
However, they didn't know that the CCTV couple chose to move overseas for an even more serious challenge – the battle against cancer.
Indeed, who would have expected that the once popular and famous host Li Yong would not escape the ruthless tricks of fate? His unique shrug movements, magnetic voice, and unique hosting style have all fascinated countless audiences.
However, at the peak of his career, a ruthless illness quietly came, like a heavy hammer, slamming heavily on the body of this loving couple.
In the face of this sudden bad news, Li Yong and Ha Wen both fell into extreme helplessness and hesitation. However, in order not to put too much psychological burden on the kind in-laws, they decided to hide the true illness.
As a beloved wife, Haven guards Li Yong's side wholeheartedly and gets through every difficulty together. At the same time, she also needs to devote her precious time and energy to convey a message of peace to her in-laws in China, so that they can believe that everything is going in a good direction.
During those years of stubborn struggle against the disease, Harvin always stayed by Li Yong's side and took care of his daily life carefully and thoughtfully.
The care of the family is undoubtedly the biggest motivation, and the company of Ha Wen is undoubtedly Li Yong's most solid backing. However, fate often plays tricks on people, and just when everyone was looking forward to the gradual improvement of the condition, the disease cruelly took Li Yong's life.
In 2018, Haven posted a short and poignant message on Weibo: "In the United States, after 17 months of anti-cancer treatment, I have lost someone I love deeply. ”
The news sparked a huge response across the country. Countless former fans felt deep regret for Li Yong's death, and some even began to reflect and regret their misunderstandings and accusations against him in the past.
However, the saddest and most painful were undoubtedly Haven and their daughter. The once warm and harmonious family suddenly lost its pillars, as if even the sun had become dim at that moment.
The bad news destroyed this otherwise happy family like a bolt from the blue. When they learned the news of their son's death, Li Yong's parents seemed to have been cut off from breathing, and their grief was so grief-stricken that they could hardly bear it.
Haven looked at the two old men who were once refreshed and now so haggard, and his heart seemed to be pierced by a sharp blade, and he was in pain.
Whenever the mother-in-law fell into deep memories and was in pain, Harvin would not hesitate to give her the strongest and warmest hug, and whispered in a tone alternating between distress and kindness: "Mother, please feel extremely proud and relieved to have such an excellent son."
So, with unwavering determination, Harvin waited by the bedside day after day, with the help of warm words and fiery hugs, to alleviate the pain in the hearts of the two old people bit by bit, until his father-in-law and mother-in-law finally recovered their health and were successfully discharged from the hospital, Harvin breathed a sigh of relief.
However, on the day he was discharged from the hospital, Haven resolutely made a solemn promise to his parents-in-law: "Mom and Dad, I will always stick to the Li family and do my best to be your daughter-in-law."
Since then, Harvin has taken on the responsibility of sending monthly living expenses to her parents-in-law, and although she is far away in the United States, she has always been fully committed to playing the role of a perfect daughter-in-law, and doing her best to make the two elderly people enjoy a carefree old age.
Haven often encourages her young daughter to communicate with her grandparents by phone or video, and returns to Xinjiang with her children every holiday so that her parents-in-law can see their beloved granddaughter often.
Perseverance and unyielding is the greatest demeanor, Harvin interprets the profound meaning of this sentence with practical actions, in the face of the ruthless tricks of fate, she did not cry and wail, let alone shirk her responsibility to escape from reality, but chose to snuggle tightly in this once happy family, and use her own strength to support and warm everyone.
Like a warm ray of sunshine, Haven dispels the gloom in his family's hearts in a unique way and brings new hope. The road of life is always tortuous and bumpy, but as long as we move forward bravely, we will eventually find our own sunny road.
Having lost her loved ones, Harvin is destined to go alone for a while in the journey of her life, however, she does not stop because of this, but pours more energy into her only daughter, and with the wisdom and patience of her mother, she tirelessly guides this young life to thrive.
In order to better care for his children, Haven decided to settle in the United States for a long time. She often misses the good times she spent with her husband, Li Yong, who had agreed to become a "Dink family" and devote themselves to their careers and enjoy the world of the two.
Wandering through the years, Harvin has remembered her dearest and dearest person in her own way. She dedicated her deep blessings to this beautiful time, and at the same time injected new vitality into herself, to bravely meet the challenges of the future and embrace the hopeful tomorrow.