The May Day holiday is a cheerful holiday for many people, but it brings some pressure and contradictions to me. The voice of marriage urging at home is getting louder and louder, and when I go home, I will be arranged every day, and I will arrange blind dates with all kinds of boys, and the schedule is fuller than work. They wouldn't even tell me in advance and inform me of the man's conditions, but would take someone directly to the house, and even if I told me in advance, if I didn't agree, they would persuade me to agree on reasons such as "you are so old, you should talk about it".
In their opinion, if you don't get married, your life will be in vain, you will be a wasted person, no one will take care of you when you are old, no one will take care of you when you are sick, you can only watch others reunite with their families, but you have no children and no daughters, and you will die alone. I'm curious, why my parents always care about me in the future, but no one cares about me now, worried that I will be lonely and lonely in the future, no one to take care of me, now I am forced by you, work anxiety and marriage anxiety, why no one cares.
They always hope that I can find my other half during this holiday season, start my married life as soon as possible, and start my married life after that, and live like everyone else. During the May Day holiday, I wanted to go home to see my parents and lie down on vacation like a salted fish, but on the other hand, I didn't want to be bothered by this kind of marital anxiety, so I finally chose to stay in the city and pursue my freedom and personal development.
Marriage, for many people, is a responsibility and obligation, a role given by society. But for me, marriage should be the result of a voluntary choice between two people, not imposed by family or society. I don't want to get married in a hurry because of family pressure, I want to be able to find someone who really knows how to cherish and respect me and spend my life with it.
Staying in the city gives me more freedom to choose my own lifestyle without the shackles of marriage. I believe that only on the path of pursuing my dreams can I find happiness that truly belongs to me.