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In the afternoon in Paris, Liu Siqi is busy at her workbench in her fashion studio. She is preparing for the fashion show that will open tomorrow, which is an important task that she will have to take care of as the organizer of this event.
She carefully examines every tiny detail of each garment to ensure that the result is as flawless as a diamond.
Happiness and a sense of accomplishment converged into a blazing spark that burned in Siqi's heart. At this moment, these exquisite fashion masterpieces in front of her are undoubtedly the best reward for her hard work over the years.
Who would have thought that this designer, who is now shining in the international fashion industry, would be a "giant baby" girl who was extremely pampered by her parents 16 years ago? At that time, she lived in a luxurious villa in Panjin, Liaoning Province, and even the most basic daily life needed to be taken care of by others, and she had no concept of the value of money.
When she was 16 years old, a turning point in her fate crept in. She had the privilege of participating in the reality TV show "Metamorphosis" and traveled to a poor mountainous area in Guizhou for life experience.
Those hard and innocent years gave her an unprecedented insight into life. She began to understand that only by learning to be self-reliant and self-reliant could she set and achieve ambitious goals in life.
Today, Siqi has become a leader in the field of fashion, and the overly pampered "giant baby" girl has been transformed into a gorgeous butterfly, showing her charm in the romantic capital of Paris.
Looking back, she deeply hopes that her experience can bring inspiration to others: material "enrichment" is important, but we should pay more attention to the enrichment of the spiritual world, so that children can truly have the ability to live independently.
It was 2017, and 16-year-old Liu Siqi was living in a dazzling villa in Panjin City, Liaoning Province. Coming from a business family, she was pampered by her parents since she was a child.
Every month, she spends tens of thousands of yuan on luxury goods, which in the eyes of her parents are nothing more than insignificant pocket money. Her personal bodyguard and driver, the second uncle, is always on standby, and as soon as she gives the order, the second uncle will drive an extended version of the Bentley and take her to wherever she longs.
Once, Liu Siqi had a whim and decided to try business experience. So, she bought dozens of cheap phone cases from the market and sold them at night at street stalls. Despite some hard work, it ended up losing hundreds of dollars.
However, looking at the only remaining income of more than 80 yuan, she did not hesitate to take out 500 yuan to invite her second uncle to enjoy a sumptuous barbecue meal. She doesn't seem to know anything about the gains and losses of profits.
In the face of her daughter acting so willfully, completely ignoring the rules and responsibilities, Liu Siqi's mother was completely tolerant and even laissez-faire. Not only does she need her mother to feed her, but she also relies on her aunt to perform basic actions in her daily life, such as putting on socks, washing her face, and cutting her nails.
Whenever Liu Siqi and his younger brother had disagreements or even conflicts, her mother had no other effective way to intervene except to watch from the sidelines. No matter how the younger brother was wronged in the dispute, the mother was helpless.
The mother always compromises her daughter's unreasonable demands without thinking, completely ignoring the possible adverse consequences.
Until one point, a hairstylist who came from afar failed to meet Liu Siqi's expectations, so she resolutely drove hundreds of kilometers to Dalian City to seek a new hairstyle.
In the face of her daughter's willful behavior, the mother was speechless, and could only send her to the station with tears in her eyes.
Seeing her daughter disappear from sight, she hugged herself tightly in pain, tears streaming down like a spring.
Watching their daughter's increasingly willful and indulgent behavior, Liu Siqi's parents were deeply worried. In order to completely change her attitude towards life, they decided to let Siqi participate in a high-profile reality show "Metamorphosis" and go to an impoverished mountain village in Guizhou to experience grassroots life.
At first, Siqi still had a trace of expectation for this "transformation journey". She imagined that once she stepped into that strange village, she would be warmly welcomed by the village chief, and thus start a new journey that was completely different from city life.
However, the vision did not last long. When she actually arrived in the mountain village, those arrogant imaginations were shattered in an instant.
As is customary, all guests are required to surrender personal items such as cash, electronic devices and cosmetics.
To make matters worse, the impoverished mountain village in front of her was far from as comfortable and pleasant as she had imagined. There is a shortage of water and electricity here, and even the most basic washing water has to be carried by villagers down the mountain.
Unable to adapt to such a backward living environment, Siqi fell into deep trouble, shook his head again and again at these rough foods in the mountains, and even chose hunger strike as a means of protest.
In the end, unable to resist the hunger caused by the peristalsis, Siqi had to let go of her reserve, succumb to the temptation of food, and began to try to adapt to the rhythm of life here.
It is gratifying to see that her two companions and the local farmers have taken great care of her. Whenever there is a shortage of food, they will not hesitate to cook their own delicious chicken and share it with Siqi.
As time passed, when Siqi witnessed the daily hard work of this simple rural family, she couldn't help but be deeply touched in her heart. In order to be able to express her gratitude to them sincerely, Siqi resolutely decided to put down her body, rolled up her sleeves and devoted herself to the work of repairing the mountain roads, and even tried her best to help find the lost sheep.
When she saw her rural father put on the leather shoes she had carefully selected, she felt an unprecedented sense of satisfaction and happiness in her heart.
After this baptism of "Metamorphosis", Liu Siqi's understanding of life has undergone earth-shaking changes. In that rustic mountain village in Guizhou, she deeply experienced for the first time that if you want to get every bite of food, you must put in your own efforts and tenacity, instead of being cared for like a baby by your parents in the past, living a life of clothes to reach out and food to eat.
In the past, she had an extremely weak concept of money, and spending tens of thousands of yuan to buy luxury goods was like a drop in the bucket for her. However, now, she finally understands the preciousness of "rice", and only through her own hands can she taste the purest deliciousness.
After returning home, Siqi's every move shocked her parents. When the mother habitually wanted to feed her, she refused for the first time with a firm attitude. It was not uncommon for mothers to be fed, but now it has completely shattered the beautiful illusion between mother and daughter.
Siqi passionately remarked on social media: "After going through all the situations of life, after tasting the ups and downs, you can understand the sweetness of boiled water." She began to reflect deeply on herself, to examine her life that had been corrupted by over-pampering, and to set a new goal for herself.
Soon after, with her excellent academic performance, Siqi was successfully admitted to a well-known fashion design institute in Beijing. In the face of her family's affectionate retention, she always politely declined. She insisted on studying independently, bravely spreading her wings and opening a new chapter in her life.
When Liu Siqi left her esteemed alma mater, Peking University, she devoted herself to the field of fashion design, which was like finding a river for fish, and the new ocean gave her room to fly freely!
However, the path to a career as a designer has not always been easy, but Siqi has never been discouraged by this. She has always remembered the difficult but meaningful years in the mountainous areas of Guizhou, which was a major turning point in her life, which made her deeply realize the importance of self-reliance and self-improvement.
With her profound academic skills and unwavering quality, Siqi finally won the precious opportunity to study in Paris, the fashion capital of the world. In this romantic city, she will have the privilege of being exposed to the highest art of fashion design, further enhancing her professionalism.
This trip to Paris is undoubtedly a new starting line for Siqi to move towards the dream stage. She cherished this rare opportunity and vowed to make a big splash in the international fashion industry.
Today, Liu Siqi has become a high-profile star designer on the international fashion stage, and the days of being called "giant baby" in the past are like a mirror, always warning her of the direction of progress.
Looking back, Siqi sincerely hopes that her own experience can bring profound enlightenment to the majority of parents: excessive pampering is like a chronic poison, which will gradually weaken children's ability to live independently, making it difficult for them to cope with the challenges of real society.
She heartily appealed that the so-called "enrichment" is not only limited to material generosity, but also should pay attention to the shaping and cultivation of children's spiritual level. Only by allowing children to learn to be self-reliant and self-reliant in the midst of hardships and hardships, and to know how to cherish everything that is hard-won, can they establish lofty ideals and show the infinite possibilities of life.
As a typical example of a life that once indulged in a comfortable life, Siqi is now fully committed to her career, and she hopes that her transformation will have a positive impact on other parents, so that every child can thrive in a sunny environment.