Recently, a Henan netizen posted a video on the Internet, complaining that his father-in-law was buried in the morning, and his mother-in-law went out to work directly in the afternoon.
The marriage of the older generation, although the divorce rate is low, does not mean that the marriage is happy, this video has attracted the attention of netizens, and netizens have complained about their parents' marriage, or their own marriage status.
Unfortunate families are the same, and happy families are different.
The Henan woman's father-in-law was buried in the morning, and her mother-in-law went to work in the afternoon.
The daughter-in-law described that her father-in-law beat and scolded her mother-in-law all the year round and was a complete domestic violence man.
And the mother-in-law is a person with a very good personality, who speaks softly and slowly, and is very good to her children and daughter-in-law.
My father-in-law is idle, doesn't work, is lazy, short-tempered, and abuses his mother-in-law at every turn.
After the woman got married, she couldn't stand it, and she didn't let her father-in-law commit domestic violence, and her father-in-law even pointed at his daughter-in-law's face and said: "You'd better leave the elders' affairs alone, Lao Tzu has beaten his mother-in-law for decades, and you can turn the sky upside down when you come." ”
The daughter-in-law is also a powerful one, she bit her father-in-law's finger down, and said cruelly to her father-in-law: "It's okay for you to beat your wife, but it's not okay if you beat my mother-in-law, I still point to him to work." ”
This mother-in-law can be regarded as having come to the bitter end, marrying a good daughter-in-law can protect her, and life can be a little better.
The father-in-law's cerebral infarction was in the middle of the night after he was drunk, and it was too late to be sent to the hospital at dawn, and he was directly paralyzed.
It can really be said that the way of heaven is a good reincarnation!
After being paralyzed, my father-in-law still did not change his S nature, lying on the bed with his mouth not paralyzed, still scolding from morning to night, and his mother-in-law fed him, so he spit the rice on his mother-in-law and face.
The mother-in-law couldn't stand it and offered to send her father-in-law to a nursing home, and said that she would go out to work to earn money for the nursing home so as not to cause trouble to her children. The son and daughter-in-law agreed, but the brothers and sisters who couldn't stand the father-in-law disagreed.
The daughter-in-law sympathizes with her mother-in-law and tells her relatives that whoever disagrees will take her home to be filial.
The daughter-in-law had a tough attitude and made a return to her mother-in-law, her father-in-law was sent to a nursing home, and her mother-in-law went to Beijing to work as a nanny.
When my father-in-law died of a cerebral infarction in a nursing home, my mother-in-law returned home the night after the burial, and the next morning she was buried, and left directly with her luggage in the afternoon.
This family, if it is not for a son and daughter-in-law, there is no need for nostalgia for the mother-in-law.
People who don't know the inside story may feel that this mother-in-law is cold and cold, who can understand the death of the heart after this pain?
The mother-in-law still values love and righteousness, and sends the old man to a nursing home, and goes to earn money for him to pay this money, and does not trouble her children.
As the old saying goes, mothers are strong, and parents have far-reaching plans for their children. If this is not the case, how can my mother-in-law live in this painful marriage for the rest of her life.
The daughter-in-law did not ask her mother-in-law why she did not divorce? The mother-in-law said that in their time, there was no divorce except for short-term views when they met such a man. What's more, he gave birth to a son and a daughter, and his daughter's intelligence is not complete, so she is even more reluctant.
Therefore, the one who suffers in marriage is always the soft-hearted one, and the mother's contribution is really great!
Comments from netizens, it turns out that there are many parents and in-laws of the same style in this world.
This is also a father-in-law who beats his mother-in-law, but fortunately, his son and daughter-in-law will protect his mother-in-law.
In previous marriages, women had to take care of housework and raise children when they were beaten, and they didn't dare to mention divorce. Although the divorce rate is high now, it is not a bad thing in this regard.
Mothers who have been subjected to domestic violence can only alleviate their situation when their children grow up and can protect themselves.
I'm already 60 years old, I'm not afraid of everyone's jokes, if my husband is sick or dead, I'm not surprised at all, and I won't be in a hurry, I hope to understand.
This is also a great mother who relies on her own ability to provide for her children to go to college.
The comment area has become a large-scale scene of complaints, especially in marriages in the fifties and sixties, and there is a lot of domestic violence.
A netizen who is a mother-in-law advises young people nowadays that if they are not welcomed by their mother-in-law's family or are bullied by their mother-in-law's family, the best way is to divorce as soon as possible.
Let's not talk about netizens, let's just say that I myself grew up in the quarrel of my parents since I was a child, and it can't be said that it is a quarrel, but that my father unilaterally abused and beat my mother.
When the elder brother grew to the age of fifteen or sixteen, and his father was as tall as his father, once, the two elder brothers were so angry that they took a rope to tie up their father and beat him, and the father's attitude was a little more restrained.
Later, when I was older, my brothers and sisters all protected my mother and threatened my father that if we dared to do anything with my mother again, when we were old, none of us would care about him, and we would not give him a penny to spend when we earned money. Although my father was restrained, as long as we were not at home, he would sometimes do it, and he would be short-tempered and curse almost every day.
In fact, the children who grow up in such families are somewhat psychologically defective, very inferior and extremely insecure, especially insecure about marriage.
A classmate from my hometown once asked me, how could I marry myself so far? At that time, I laughed and said that I was not capable, and if I had the ability, I would marry myself abroad.
Actually, I'm not kidding, I'm talking from the heart.
Fortunately, I am lucky, my husband has a good temper, a stable personality, and is very tolerant. Especially after giving birth, I read a lot of parenting books and psychological books, and I was slowly cured.
My father died the year before last, and my brother didn't call me until he was dying. My brother said, you just come back, it's early to come back, what's the use of guarding him.
In the hearts of our brothers and sisters, we have always hated our father. When I was a child, the deepest impression was that after my father beat and scolded my mother, my mother was heartbroken, packed up her things and said that she wanted to go back to her parents' house, but she didn't wait to go out of the house and threw her things down, sat on the ground and cried. At that time, I only knew that I would cry with my mother, I was afraid that my mother would really leave us, so I would only hug my mother and cry, and at that time, as long as my mother left, I would follow her, and I was afraid that she would not want me, even if I think about it now, I will still cry sadly.
When my father died and was buried, the custom in our hometown was that our daughter would lie on the coffin and cry on the coffin, I didn't lie on my stomach and didn't cry, and my brothers and sisters didn't cry, and the tears that flowed at that time were not even as many as the tears I shed when I write this article.
Some netizens often say: Don't persuade others to be kind without others suffering, I think this sentence is very reasonable.
In the past few days, the matter of the missing mother and daughter by the Yellow River in Jinan has also been boiling, and many netizens have condemned the mother for going to S by herself, why did she take the child with her?
It is true that the child is innocent, but from a mother's point of view, I feel that it is more reassuring to take the child, so as not to let the child suffer from the pain of the world like herself. None of us knows, what happened to her after the disappearance?
Many marriages of the older generation, because they dare not face divorce and cannot face divorce, have experienced a lifetime of heartache. For the sake of their children, they can endure until they are old, and they can't bear it, and how many people commit suicide, so it is better not to suffer others, don't persuade others to be kind!