preface
From the first episode to the finale, I watched "Chenghuan Ji" seriously from beginning to end, I originally went to see the heroine Yang Zi, but I was attracted by Liu Wanyu starring He Saifei.
In the play, Liu Wanyu is the mother of the heroine Mai Chenghuan, and she gives people a feeling of suffocation as soon as she appears.
So much so that many people watched the first episode or two, and they were mad at Liu Wanyu, thinking that this kind of maternal love can make people autistic every minute.
There are also some people who think that the mother played by Liu Wanyu is too much, a bit outrageous and unrealistic.
They even gave up the drama because of the role of Liu Wanyu, or fast-forwarded when they saw Liu Wanyu's role.
It is this Liu Wanyu who is scolded by the whole Internet, in fact, she is the real epitome of thousands of women in real life.
Liu Wanyu's life
The young Liu Wanyu has a very talented and good voice, is keen to sing opera, and she was also admitted to the opera school with her own strength.
However, her family was poor and her parents still favored sons over daughters, so Liu Wanyu had no choice but to give up her dream and go to Shanghai to work and change her life.
In order to escape from her original family, in order not to return to the poor and backward ravine, Liu Wanyu found Mai Laitian, a native of Shanghai, to marry and became an authentic Shanghainese.
However, Mak Lai Tian has no great skills, just an honest driver.
Therefore, the days after marriage are tight.
With the birth of Mai Chenghuan and Mai Chengzao, Liu Wanyu gradually evolved from the role of a wife to a full-time mother, caring about her daughter's every move in every detail.
For thirty years, Liu Wanyu poured all her efforts into her daughter Mai Chenghuan, so that Liu Wanyu forgot her original appearance.
If time could be turned back, Liu Wanyu went to the opera school as she wished, and according to her character of not admitting defeat, she would definitely be able to shine in opera and become a well-known artist.
Then there is nothing to do with Mai Laitian, Mai Chenghuan and Mai Chengzao.
But there are no ifs in life, and time cannot be turned back, so Liu Wanyu is unwilling to live an ordinary life, so she pins all her hopes on her daughter Mai Chenghuan and lets Mai Chenghuan live a good life instead of her.
Seeing this, do you feel that this routine is very familiar, and there is a feeling of déjà vu?
The epitome of thousands of women
That's right, in real life, how many women have lived as Liu Wanyu unconsciously?
It's just that, many times, the authorities are obsessed.
When they suddenly looked back, they woke up to the fact that they had already become a strange woman, which could be said to be full of holes and unrecognizable.
So, who made them change?
Is it life? Is it time?
Neither, but themselves!
In the life of chicken feathers day after day, year after year, they slowly lost themselves, and lived as a joke in the eyes of others without knowing it, just like Liu Wanyu.
Isn't there a saying: drama is like life, life is like drama, the principle is the same.
As a mother, I also saw my own shadow in Liu Wanyu's body.
Urging the child to do his homework every day, preparing three sumptuous meals a day for him every day, worrying about him every day, but in exchange for a sentence: "Don't worry about it!"
In this regard, I often feel puzzled, to paraphrase Liu Wanyu's words: "I have done so much for you and paid so much, but in the end it is my fault?"
But after reading "Chenghuan Ji", I suddenly had a feeling of being sudden.
No matter how close your family is, you also need to have your own independent space, and it feels really uncomfortable to be led by others all the time.
And the old mother's mantra: "I'm all for your good!", think about it carefully, the real "good for you" is not from your own point of view, but from the needs of the other party.
When you figure these out, maybe a lot of troubles will be solved, and this is the wonder of this show.
@紫说影视
epilogue
Overall, "The Legend of Cheng Huan" is a TV series worth watching.
This drama is not only a family drama, an emotional drama, but also a drama about women's self-awakening and growth.
It allows us to see the difficulty and greatness of women, and also shows us how women should love themselves and pursue their dreams.
I hope we can all learn from this and learn to better manage the relationship with our families and make our lives more harmonious and beautiful.
I think that's what this show is all about!
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