It has been said that if someone truly loves you, they will constantly strive to give you more, not out of fear that you will take advantage of them. This kind of love is genuine and can continue to support you through life's challenges.
When we think about it, we can see that someone who truly loves you will always pay attention to your emotional needs and care about your thoughts. They will think about you, have you in their hearts, and think of you in any situation.
Those who don't love you often don't make any sacrifices for you, but instead hit you and complain about you frequently. They only see your shortcomings and shortcomings and ignore your strengths and strengths. There is no need for such people to care about their evaluation, because they are destined not to really understand you.
Often, people feel the most clearly, and can gain insight into whether a person truly loves you.
If you love you, you will give unreservedly, and if you don't, you will think about your own interests everywhere.
For a man, if he dedicates all three of the following things to you, then his feelings for you are deep. If he doesn't have any of them, then what he says about loving you may not be real love.
One: a sense of security
The sense of security that women crave is not too complicated, it just requires men to show determination.
In the TV series "Thirty Only", the protagonist Liang Zhengxian met Wang Manni on a cruise trip. Because of her beauty, Liang Zhengxian can't help but fall in love with her.
The night before the end of the trip, Liang Zhengxian went to visit Wang Manni, but was turned away. At this time, he once again felt a strong desire to conquer her. After the separation, he also went to Wang Manni's place of work to visit her.
Subsequently, they began a formal romantic relationship.
When they were together, Liang Zhengxian was very tolerant and generous to Wang Manni, and even directly gave her an extra card that she could use at will. However, Wang Manni is a very strong woman who does not overaccept the benefits of Liang Zhengxian.
Liang Zhengxian would take her to buy her favorite high heels, expensive luxury goods, and exquisite clothing. In addition, he will also take Wang Manni to various high-end social places to show her style. In this way, she was able to experience an elegant and luxurious social life.
By Liang Zhengxian's side, Wang Manni felt extremely happy. But she lives in Hong Kong, so she decided to apply for a transfer to the headquarters through the company to bring them closer together. This is her wish, hoping to be with her beloved.
Liang Zhengxian did not agree, which made Wang Manni feel very disappointed.
The sense of security she was looking forward to, Liang Zhengxian was not willing to provide. If he truly loved her, he shouldn't stop her from going to work in Hong Kong. Wang Manni very much wants to get close to his life circle, but unfortunately, Liang Zhengxian sees her as a burden.
No matter how a man treats you, if he doesn't actively give you security, then he doesn't actually love you. It is advisable that you become aware of this as early as possible.
Two: Respect
A man who truly loves you will respect you and put you on an equal footing with himself. He will not look at you in a condescending manner, but as an equal.
Zhu Man met a boyfriend named Zhou Yang, who was very domineering.
When Zhou Yang pursued Zhu Man, he behaved very gentlemanly and cared about her very much. However, after dating, Zhou Yang showed a side that was extremely inconsistent with his true character.
In daily life, Zhou Yang did not allow Zhu Man to wear clothes he didn't like. Even once, Zhu Man went to perm her curly hair with her colleagues, and after she returned, Zhou Yang constantly suppressed her new hairstyle with words, rating it as "old-fashioned". This kind of behavior seems very impolite and authoritarian, and we should believe that everyone has their own aesthetics and preferences, and that respecting the choices of others is a basic sign of politeness and dignity.
In this relationship, Zhu Man gradually lost his self-confidence.
She has her own career aspirations and ambitions, and is eager to seize good opportunities to develop herself. However, her boyfriend has been urging her to change to an easier job and not always work overtime.
When she disagrees, Zhou Yang will threaten her with a proposal to break up.
Zhu Man has compromised many times, although her boyfriend always says that he loves her very much, but he has made a lot of demands. However, Zhu Man found that he did not feel happy. What her boyfriend does just to control her cannot be called true love.
When realizing this, Zhu Man did not wronged himself and decisively chose to end the relationship.
No matter how good a man is to you and how much he cares about you, if he doesn't respect your independence and restricts your free choice, it shows that he doesn't really love you.
This type of man tends to be quite self-centered and only looks out for his own interests, and it is advisable to evacuate in time to avoid harm.
Three: the future
A man who sees you as true love has never thought about separation since the moment he was with you. He genuinely desires to marry you, not just treat you as a playmaker.
In "Beijing Women's Illustrated Guide", Chen Ke met a very good boyfriend at work. His name is Yu Yang.
The two have been in love for three years, and she has always been serious about maintaining their feelings for each other. Seeing Yu Yang's hard work, she also urged herself to keep moving forward. The road to this relationship is full of challenges, but both parties continue to be steadfast and work together to make love thrive.
In order to further strengthen the relationship between them, Chen Ke specially arranged for his mother to travel to Beijing. He hopes to show his sincerity and trust in the future by allowing them to meet his family.
Yang deliberately avoided seeing her family under the pretext of a business trip, which made her feel a little uneasy.
When the two sat down to talk, Yu Yang expressed his fear of getting married, and he felt that the relationship that was still stable did not need a piece of paper to prove. It's normal to think like this, everyone thinks differently about marriage.
Chen Ke felt ridiculous, if they didn't plan to get married, why should they be together, but Yu Yang said, "Is it true that you and I are together just to get married?"
When that moment came, Chen Ke realized that her boyfriend had never really loved her. Resolutely turning, she decided to let go.
Those men who are unwilling to take responsibility will always cover up their cowardice with all kinds of high-sounding reasons. But don't believe what they say, or you'll only be hurt in the end. When confronted with these people, be vigilant and don't be too naïve.
Only a man who truly loves you can bring you security, respect, and a future and make you feel these. If you've never experienced these feelings, you may need to think hard about whether he is really your real partner.