If there is only one fair thing in the world, it is that everyone will face the end of their life one day. No matter how unwilling and reluctant you are in your heart, you can't escape the law of birth, old age, sickness and death. This is an unchangeable reality, people should treat life with equality, tolerance and gratitude, cherish every minute and every second, do what they want to do, and let life leave no regrets.
So for the elderly, if the other half leaves first, how should they face the rest of their lives?
At first, you may feel sad, painful, and helpless, but as time passes, you will turn your thoughts into strength and live the rest of your life. This is the best way to love and miss someone.
After all, the departed person doesn't want you to sink into sorrow. Therefore, we must be strong in the face of setbacks, face life positively, and make ourselves stronger and more powerful.
As a person gets older, the more likely he is to face the situation where his life partner goes first. And at this time, we must take three issues seriously: we must not fall into too much confusion and chagrin, and we must be mentally prepared enough in order to better live our old age. The solution to these problems requires us to be more thoughtful in order to bring better protection to ourselves and our families.
One: Don't think about it, be strong in the face of separation
The old man has experienced a magnificent life, and he has long been very calm about life and death. However, they could not bear the sudden separation and the loneliness they faced after being left behind, which was difficult for them to accept.
Before the future separation happens, we need to build our minds and face it calmly. Don't lie to yourself and think that separation won't happen. Instead, we need to accept the truth of what is possible. If we don't, when separation comes, we will only suffer sudden, unbearable pain. Please prepare in advance to allow yourself enough strength to deal with possible future separations.
Let's treat each day as if it were the last day we have together, and spend it with no regrets. Since we have been together for a lifetime, let's say goodbye to each other and leave no regrets.
We cherish every day we spend together, so we are worthy of our hearts.
When your significant other is gone, no matter how heavy you feel right now, don't fall into despair. Your partner doesn't want to see you lose confidence and courage because of his departure. He wants you to live a better life and take better care of yourself. Whatever the circumstances, it's important to believe that life is still good and that the road ahead is full of possibilities.
2: Don't have a stiff relationship with your children, but correct the relationship with your children
When our partner is tragically gone, we still have a long way to go. In this case, we must maintain a good relationship with our children. Although they can't ensure everything for us, they can at least provide us with support and security for the rest of our lives. It is especially important to establish a good bond with your children.
If interpersonal relationships are strained, it will inevitably affect the quality of life for the rest of one's life.
Su Daqiang is one of the most typical characters in "It's All Good". He was originally an honest man, but he was suppressed by his wife's authority, had no right to speak, and spent his life.
When Su Daqiang's wife died suddenly, he seemed to have found the meaning of life. From an obscure father, he has become an old man-like and comfortable existence.
For coffee lovers, hand grinding tastes better, otherwise they may be a little dissatisfied. In addition, these people pursue romance and want their families to support their relationship.
Of course, Su Daqiang's extreme changes are somewhat exaggerated, and they are more out of the need for artistic expression. In real life, this is rarely the case. However, we cannot deny that some elderly people will inevitably cause some unnecessary disputes and unhappiness because of their lack of experience in getting along with their children. We should understand the situation of the elderly more, communicate more, improve family harmony, and let the elderly have a comfortable and pleasant life in their old age.
We should support each other and get through it together, not hurt each other. This is the most important thing to do in life.
Three: Don't remarry casually because of loneliness, you need to be cautious
Some older people are not comfortable living alone, and because of loneliness and loneliness, they find someone to spend time with, but as a result, they are often taken advantage of by the other person, making life more difficult.
Su Daqiang also has an affectionate twilight love in the TV series "It's All Good", which is moving.
Cai Genhua, the new family nanny, has mastered Su Daqiang's desire to be recognized. She encouraged him to write poetry and satisfy his interests. This made Su Daqiang very happy, trusted her very much, and obeyed her arrangement, and even threw himself into the trap she carefully set.
Su Daqiang obeyed her, not only let her make false accounts, but also embezzled the family's living expenses. What's even more surprising is that Su Daqiang even proposed to her, saying that he would offer all the houses in the family with both hands. These are the results of her being coaxed.
Eventually, people realized that Su Daqiang would end up in the streets in his old age, so his children did not hesitate to take action to avoid this situation.
Su Daqiang's lesson is worth learning, and it is important to be cautious before deciding to start a new relationship. Although feelings sometimes come without reason, they must have logic.
Emotions need to nourish each other. I've ever heard a joke about what she likes about you, is it your age, or is it because you don't like bathing? Try to ask yourself, what is the reason why she really likes you? Maybe, in this way, some lies are self-defeating.
Everyone will face the day of aging, and since it is inevitable, there is no need for us to be overly afraid. If our loved one leaves first, we should not make the following three mistakes. On the contrary, we should live well so that the dead can also find peace.