In an era of rapid development, family education and parent-child relationships are constantly evolving. As the old saying goes, "raising children to prevent old age", but nowadays, many young people have become "gnawing old people". This new way of "gnawing the old" makes people feel distressed and helpless. Different from the previous "gnawing the old" was only an economic dependence, now this new type of "gnawing the old" is a double exploitation of the physical and mental health of parents. So, what's going on here?
Today's young people are really getting better at "playing". gave birth to a baby, but put all the responsibility of raising a baby on his grandparents. These young people are like finding a long-term "meal ticket", not only do they rely on their parents for their own living expenses, but even the responsibility of raising children is thrown to the older generation.
You see, most of the people walking in the park now with strollers are grandparents. And what about the young parents? They may be enjoying afternoon tea in a café or watching a movie in the cinema. They seem to have forgotten that parenting is a parent's responsibility, not a grandparents' obligation.
This new way of "gnawing the old" seems to be young people enjoying life, but in fact they are evading their responsibilities. They enjoy the dedication of their parents, but they forget that their parents also grow old one day. When that day comes, will they be able to take on this responsibility?
What's even more distressing is that this kind of "gnawing at the old" behavior not only overdraws the health of parents, but also imperceptibly affects the next generation. What do children think when they see their parents treat their grandparents like this? Do they take this for granted? So, when they grow up, will they also become part of the "gnawing old family"?
Finale:
But then again, this new way of "gnawing the old" is not impossible to change. The key is for young people to be aware of their responsibilities and to learn to be independent and responsible. Only in this way can they truly grow into a responsible person. And those young people who have fallen into the whirlpool of "gnawing at the old", it's time to wake up! Don't wait until the day your parents are old to regret it!
"Filial piety comes first", this is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. Nowadays, however, the phenomenon of "gnawing at the elderly" is becoming more and more intense, which makes us ponder: What have we lost? Is it a sense of responsibility or gratitude? The love of parents is selfless, but their health and time are limited. As children, we should cherish this hard-won love and learn to take responsibility and be grateful. Only in this way can we be worthy of the efforts of our parents and set a good example for ourselves and the next generation. Let's work together to abandon this new way of "gnawing the old"!