I hired a live-in nanny for my 82-year-old mother-in-law, and the third aunt in my hometown recommended her sister, with a salary of 4,800 yuan, you can take 2 days off a month, and add 200 yuan if you don't take a break. The first day of trial work made four dishes, two dishes salty can not be swallowed, the next day explained three times to make steamed sea bass, the result is to do stewed fish, said that the steamed fish has no taste she can't eat, the fifth day to take the old man for a walk, he ran to chat with others mother-in-law fell, a week of trial work was not done scared to quickly dismiss, before leaving only to find that five days to drink 14 cartons of milk!
My 82-year-old mother-in-law has not been in good health recently, and we are too busy with work, so we want to hire a live-in nanny for her to take care of her daily life.
The third aunt in her hometown recommended her younger sister, the third aunt's sister is 52 years old, the child goes to school outside, she farms at home by herself, and the land in the village is contracted to come out to work.
This aunt has been living in the countryside of her hometown, and we are afraid that both parties will not be adaptable, so we have agreed that there will be a seven-day trial period, and if both parties are satisfied, they will stay, and if one party is not satisfied, they will not stay, and the salary will be paid.
The day my aunt came was Sunday, and my husband drove to pick me up at my hometown, and it was about five o'clock in the afternoon when I got home, and I was cooking dinner.
For dinner, my mother-in-law only drank millet porridge and stewed soft vegetables, but considering that my aunt came on the first day, I prepared four dishes, one cold dish and three hot dishes.
When my aunt entered the door, I had already prepared cold dishes, fried a sliced pork with garlic, and a garlic prawn, and a scrambled egg with tomatoes left behind.
Auntie just came, I made tea and told her to rest first, Auntie may be in a hurry to show herself, she came to the kitchen with me and said that she would cook this dish.
Scrambled eggs with tomatoes are the easiest home-cooked dish to make, and I wanted her to try it, telling her to put less salt and a little sugar to neutralize the acidity.
I briefly introduced the various supplies in the kitchen, and my aunt pushed me out of the kitchen, saying that scrambled eggs with tomatoes were her specialty dish.
Mother-in-law can simply take care of herself, eat and dress, go to the toilet and walk, but she can't leave people.
When the mother-in-law sat down at the table, the aunt prepared the dish and served it to the table, thinking that it was the most ordinary and the simplest dish, but let the aunt fry it thinly, which can really be described as sparse.
When I asked, it turned out that the aunt fried the tomatoes first, and when the tomatoes were cooked, she beat the eggs directly into the dish and stirred them with a spatula, so this plate of scrambled eggs with tomatoes really couldn't bear to look at it directly.
Asked my aunt if the eggs were washed? Auntie's words made people cry and laugh, and she was actually very surprised and said, "Do you still need to wash eggs?" I have never washed eggs since I was a child, and I don't eat egg skins. ”
I told her that there were a lot of visible or invisible dirt on the skin of the eggs, and that she should wash her hands that had touched the eggs while cooking.
The aunt unconsciously hid her two hands behind her back, needless to say, she must have not washed her hands after beating the eggs.
I asked my aunt to wash her hands and then come over for dinner. While she went to wash her hands, I took the plate of scrambled eggs with tomatoes back to the kitchen and took it down and threw it out when I wanted to go downstairs.
During the meal, my aunt asked him why the fried tomatoes and eggs were missing? I didn't say anything directly, but only told her that the next time she fried this dish, she would wash the eggs after the meal, and then scramble the eggs and then fry the tomatoes.
The aunt still repeated that she has been fried like this in her mother-in-law's house and her mother's house since she was a child, and the children in the family love to eat, and she has not seen any diseases, all of them are like strong calves.
I'm really speechless about this, maybe their place, or their family, are used to this kind of dish.
But when someone tells you that there is another way to make this dish, and you don't make it for your family, you are here to make money, so you can just listen to how you do it.
But the aunt was very stubborn, and she couldn't stop her if she had to eat the plate of scrambled eggs with tomatoes.
In the evening, I looked at my aunt's luggage and asked her if she had brought toiletries, but she only brought two changes of clothes.
I took out a new set of bedding, went to buy her toiletries, and explained to him what he needed to do every day, as well as the diet and living problems of the elderly and the matters that need to be paid attention to.
I'm going to work and I'm going back to my house that night.
The next day, it was an official trial work, I made a call in the class and hurried home, my aunt was not familiar with all aspects when she first came, and I would definitely take her for two days.
I stopped by to buy groceries and came home, it was 10 o'clock in the morning, my aunt was packing up the dishes, and she and her mother-in-law had just had breakfast.
My mother-in-law only needs to make a bowl of egg water every morning, but before 7 o'clock in the morning, after 10 o'clock she has to drink tea and eat two snacks.
My mother-in-law has kept such a breakfast for more than ten years, but I didn't expect my aunt to do such a simple thing well.
When I asked my aunt why she had breakfast so late, she said that she couldn't sleep in a different place and got up late.
At six o'clock in the morning, the mother-in-law saw that the aunt didn't get up, and she didn't call her, and the egg water she brewed, the aunt didn't get up until more than nine o'clock in the morning, and the old lady drank tea and ate a piece of snack.
My aunt ate poached eggs and boiled noodles by herself, and it was ten o'clock, and she didn't clean anything at home.
At noon, there were five people in the family to eat, four dishes were prepared, and at 11 o'clock I steamed the rice and asked my aunt to cook, reminding her again to reduce oil and salt.
The dish was ready, and two dishes were salty and couldn't be swallowed, so she ate them alone.
I had to pull her into the kitchen again and point out that there was a small spoon in the box where she had put salt, and a small flat spoon of salt on a flat plate. It's like teaching a child, it's so tiring.
I stayed at my mother-in-law's house that night, and set an alarm clock for her on my aunt's mobile phone, and my mother-in-law went to bed early at night, so I asked my aunt to go to bed early.
I went to the bathroom at night, turned on the light and found my aunt sleeping on the sofa, asked what was going on, she said that she couldn't sleep in that bed, and she would sleep on the sofa in the future, and the sofa was comfortable. After I said it, my aunt reluctantly went back to her room.
I bought a sea bass in the morning and sent it back, told my aunt to steam it, and asked her if she would make it, and she said yes.
At lunchtime, I found that the sea bass was not steamed but stewed, and when I asked her what was going on, she said that the steamed was not tasteful, and she didn't like to eat it.
The steamed fish was made into a stewed fish, just because the nanny herself didn't like to eat it
It turned out that the aunt still cooks according to her own taste, and she has taught it many times, which is equivalent to saying it in vain.
I asked her about her personal hygiene, and she has been here for five days, and she has not taken a shower once, and she has not changed her underwear.
It's the third day, and I thought my aunt would change, and it seems that it's really hard to change a person.
Mother-in-law is weak but she can take care of herself, usually the aunt only needs to cook for two people, clean the 80-square-meter house, wash clothes with a washing machine, the aunt said that she did this work while playing.
However, whether it is cooking or housework in the back, Auntie still does what she wants according to her own ideas!
My mother-in-law is sometimes dizzy, so she can't leave people around her, and I have repeatedly told my aunt to follow her closely when she goes for a walk in the community.
On the fifth day, at about ten o'clock in the morning, my aunt suddenly called me and said that the old lady had fallen while walking, and I hurriedly asked if it mattered, and my aunt said that it looked fine, and now she is up.
When I arrived, my mother-in-law was sitting on a bench in the community park, and she didn't seem to have much of a problem, and asked her if she had any pain, and her mother-in-law said that she didn't feel it, but her legs couldn't move, and she had no energy.
I think my mother-in-law is older, so it's more reassuring to go and check it, and I asked my aunt how the old lady fell on the way, and she didn't say anything at first.
The mother-in-law is the kind of person who is very kind, and when she asked her, she said that she was dizzy while walking, and she didn't say a word about her aunt's badness.
After the check, fortunately there was no big problem, and when I came back, I asked the community security guard, and the security guard said that the mother-in-law fell down or he helped her up.
I asked, my aunt was not around at the time, and the security guard said that the old lady was walking alone at that time, and my aunt was chatting with a dog walker far away.
I asked again, and my aunt told me the truth.
During the one-week trial period, something like this happened on the fifth day, and the 80-year-old man was most afraid of falling, and if there was really any accident this time, we would regret it too late.
With such an aunt, how dare we rest assured that we would leave the old man in her care? I discussed with my mother-in-law and husband that I would send my aunt back.
Mr. said that the aunt is the maiden sister of the third aunt, or let her stay for another month first, and send her back for fear that the third aunt will think too much.
I thought about it again and again, and I felt that I still couldn't keep her. Whether in terms of food hygiene or in terms of taking care of the elderly, this aunt does not have these most ordinary conditions.
The salary we offer is not low, it is better to hire a trained aunt, even if the money is a little more.
If you leave this aunt in consideration of the situation, I am afraid that it will be the mother-in-law who will suffer in the future.
So, I told my aunt what I meant, and my aunt began to sprinkle and say: What kind of character is your family, let people come, let people go, you have to go.
I've been cooking for decades, and I can't take care of an old lady? I'll earn 200 yuan less a month, and I'll not leave!
I repeatedly explained that it was not about money, and then I ignored what she said, and gave my aunt a salary of 1,000 yuan, wanting to get some gifts for the third aunt, but I found that there were only two cartons of milk left in the family, and my aunt drank 14 cartons of milk in five days, can such a person use it?
They may have talked on the phone in advance, and the third aunt's face darkened when she saw me send my aunt back, and I explained again and again, the third aunt pulled her face and didn't speak, and I took the gift I bought for them in the car.
Despite this, the third aunt didn't even say that I should eat lunch, am I doing something wrong? We can't pay for an aunt who can't do anything well and adds to the chaos!
Words written at the back: Through this lesson, it is recommended that if you need to hire a nanny, you should still go to a regular institution to ask for an aunt, and it is best not to accept people introduced by relatives.
Because it involves relatives, many things are difficult to handle, and if you don't do well, you have to take care of the face of your relatives.
With the same salary, it is better to hire an aunt who has officially signed a contract, and it is fast to cook and take care of people, and if you do well, you will be dismissed if you don't do well, everyone says that this is the reason, right?
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