Since the beginning of the year, school bullying incidents have occurred frequently and have been reported repeatedly, which not only brought physical and mental trauma to the victims, but also aroused widespread concern about campus safety from all walks of life. The occurrence of these incidents not only reveals serious loopholes in campus security management, but also highlights the shortcomings of family education, social atmosphere, and legal protection. Why is the school a temple of knowledge and a cradle of growth, but why has it become a hotbed of bullying?
On April 23, the incident of "a girl who was bullied and beaten by many people and was forced to cut her throat to save herself" once again aroused the indignation of many netizens. A father posted a video online in a choked voice about his 15-year-old daughter's experience of bullying at a middle school in Changsha. In the video, the girl couldn't bear the continuous beating of the school staff, and even took the extreme way of scratching her neck with glass to save herself.
This is a typical school bullying incident, the girl picked up the glass on the ground and cut her throat in order to save herself, and her body was also cut everywhere, in this case, the bully actually treated her in cold blood, one of the bullying girls openly shouted: "Bring the knife, Lao Tzu will stab her" This is a very bad nature of the illegal and criminal incident! Cut the throat to save yourself, the slightest carelessness will lose your life.
On April 24, a reporter from Nandu learned from the High-tech Zone Bureau of the Changsha Municipal Public Security Bureau that in response to the previous incident of "a girl was bullied and beaten by many people and forced to cut her throat to save herself", the Lugu Police Station of the Bureau quickly launched an investigation in accordance with the law and summoned two minor suspects and those present to the case. At present, the procuratorial organs have been requested to intervene in advance, and the case is being further investigated.
The occurrence of school bullying incidents is often not caused by a single factor, but is the result of a combination of multiple reasons.
Lack of family education: Some families lack the necessary care and discipline for their children, resulting in children lacking respect and empathy for others, and are prone to violent means to solve problems.
Insufficient school education: Some schools pay too much attention to cultural education and neglect the cultivation of students' ideological, moral, and legal education. At the same time, there are loopholes in campus security management, which provides the soil for bullying incidents to occur.
Socio-environmental impact: Violent scenes and online violent games in film, television, online and other media have a negative impact on teenagers, and some teenagers imitate their behaviors and regard violence as a means to solve problems.
Adolescents' own factors: Some adolescents lack the ability to distinguish right from wrong and self-protection, have a weak sense of the legal system, and are easily influenced by bad temptation and peer pressure, thus participating in or committing bullying behavior.
On March 10, a 13-year-old junior high school student was brutally murdered by three classmates in Handan, Hebei Province, and his body was buried in an abandoned vegetable greenhouse. As soon as this news came out, it immediately caused an uproar on the Internet.
On April 17, a serious campus bullying incident occurred at Shaanxi Institute of Energy and Chemical Engineering. According to reports, a student who served as the head of the discipline inspection department of the student union was locked in his dormitory and beaten by four classmates for managing his classmate's mobile phone, resulting in bruises all over his body. After the incident was exposed, the students involved were criminally detained by the police.
Similar to the above situation, the occurrence of every school bullying incident is closely related to the overall social environment. With the popularization of the Internet, the speed of information dissemination has accelerated, and some violent and vulgar content has also been proliferated. Adolescents are in a critical period of value formation and are susceptible to the influence of these bad information, which in turn leads to imitative behavior. In addition, the increase in social competition pressure has also caused some students to regard their classmates as competitors and adopt unfair means to suppress them.
Schools play a pivotal role in bullying incidents. The school is not only a place to impart knowledge, but also an important base for cultivating students' moral character and shaping personality. However, some schools pay too much attention to grades in education and teaching, and ignore the attention and cultivation of students' ideology, morality and mental health. At the same time, there are also many loopholes in campus security management, such as imperfect monitoring facilities and insufficient security personnel, which make bullying an opportunity.
School bullying incidents have serious consequences for victims, perpetrators, and the entire school ecosystem.
To victims: Bullying can cause physical and psychological trauma to victims, affect their normal learning and life, and may even lead to extreme behaviors such as school boredom and truancy.
To the abuser: The abuser not only has to bear legal responsibility, but may also be condemned by the school, family and society, affecting his future development and growth. At the same time, their behavior can also have a negative impact on their mental health.
Campus ecology: The occurrence of school bullying incidents will destroy the harmonious atmosphere of the campus, affect the overall image and reputation of the school, and is not conducive to the long-term development of the school.
Families are the first line of defense against bullying in schools. Parents should strengthen the care and education of their children, and guide them to learn to respect, understand, and tolerate others. At the same time, parents should also pay close attention to their children's emotional changes and behaviors, and communicate with their children in time to understand their inner world and help them solve problems once they find abnormalities. In addition, parents should also maintain close contact with the school to pay attention to their children's growth and form a good situation of home-school co-education.
To truly solve the problem of school bullying, it is necessary for society, schools and families to form a joint force. Society shall strengthen online regulation and advocacy of civilized customs; schools shall strengthen ideological and moral education and campus security management; and families shall strengthen care and education for children. Only by working together can we build a safe, harmonious and healthy school environment, so that every child can grow up happily under the sun.
The frequent occurrence of school bullying is a complex social problem that requires in-depth analysis and reflection from multiple levels. At the same time, we should also realize that with the progress of society and the increasing attention of people to educational issues, the conditions and opportunities are ripe to solve the problem of school bullying. As long as we work together to find a way to break the situation, we will be able to restore peace and harmony to the school and create a better future for the children.