Many girls told me that they had been chasing me for a long time, but after that night, they rarely contacted me.
Even the contact is just for that little thing, the room is opened, a few rooms, come here. ”
Why has he changed so much?
Today, I'm going to tell you why, and I'll tell you exactly how to get back a game and keep his enthusiasm for you undiminished.
In fact, there are two reasons:
Even if the next time I might contact you, it's just for this matter.
Some people said, "I'm boyfriend and girlfriend with him, so why are we cold when we have been together for so long?"
Is it because you really make him feel something? He's conquered. So what can we do now to break that relationship?
The first: take back ownership
That's all in mind. What does it mean to take back ownership? Men and women think differently, and after a man has had a relationship with you, he feels that he has already obtained it, and it can be over.
And many women are different, after women have a relationship, they feel: I am your person, that is, I have given my ownership to you.
So at this time, many girls, even if they used to have strong personalities, have become gentle. I used to have my own ideas, but now I am attached to men's ideas.
It's your own heart that has already given yourself to the other person.
There's a special difference here? There are a lot of men and women who have sex and the men think, "Didn't I tell you before? We were just friends, and that night was just impulsive." ”
Women will think, "You told me you were friends before, but after that night, am I not your girlfriend?"
Second: you have to learn to make rules
It's just that you see a lot of women's thinking, for example, after the first relationship, what is it? This layer of window paper has been pierced, which means that it is normal for it to happen again later, and even they have already gone to take a shower and lie there.
Don't do that, because it will make him feel that he has been completely conquered, or even has no sense of conquest. So, you have to make your own rules.
For example, the next time he asks him to have a relationship, you ask, "What kind of relationship are we now?"
If the other person is vague again, "Wouldn't it be nice for us to be good friends?"
Then you can say, "Good friend, you need to stay away from me." ”
And then what? For example, he brought it up so many times, and you have to see how well he performed. For example, if he has actual contributions, then it's not too late for us to invest.
This is not to say an equivalent exchange, but you have to see the attitude of the other party through this matter.
If the other party's attitude is just for this matter, and you allow it, then how can he cherish you?
The third: multi-dimensional attraction
Just like the second point of the reason I just mentioned, why does he not cherish you? is because after he has this incident with you, he finds that you really have only this thing in you, and nothing else is attractive, then he will not have any investment in you.
So learn to attract multi-dimensionally. What is that? It's just a derivative of feelings.
Understand, recognize, and trust these things, even if you only learn one thing, such as being coquettish, you can overshadow the fact of having a relationship.