Controlling your desire to talk is a kind of protection for yourself, and at the same time, you can avoid listening to others. Don't be afraid of being alone and learn to enjoy the benefits of being alone.
Many times if you want to confide, you have a lot of grievances in your heart, and you can achieve the effect of decompression through external catharsis. We know that confiding will calm the mood to a certain extent, and it will not have much impact on the matter itself. Because, life goes on.
Everyone has something unsatisfactory in life or work. When we want to confide in someone and express our unhappiness in our hearts, so do others. Don't feel how hard you are living and how easy it is for others.
When your energy field is not high, don't think about relieving the depression in your heart through the people around you. Confiding in each other is often prone to go astray and will go in an unfavorable direction. For example, we want to tell the other person about our unpleasantness, and we just want to find some comfort. But the other party also has some troubles, if you don't talk about it, he doesn't think to tell you. We have already spoken, and the other party will also speak out.
In this way, two people complain to each other that life is not easy, and they are deceitful at work. People are always impulsive and hot-headed, especially when it comes to confiding in their misfortunes. This does not benefit either side in any way.
Enjoy solitude, if you don't have a good life, most of the people around you are also chicken feathers. Don't feel like you're a special case or someone is a special case. Things gather like people, people are grouped, and we live around people who are similar to us.
Although there are good and bad, the overall is not too far apart. To a certain extent, he is not the person around us, or we have moved away from the original circle of life.
When we live in the countryside, the arguments are all about the shortcomings of the parents, a cabbage, and a green onion. We don't realize what's wrong with that, because that's how life is here. When one day we realize that this is meaningless and make a change, leaving here, or rarely returning here, it becomes inevitable.
When we live in a small county, every day we have to face firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. All kinds of expenses make us constantly go out and go, and the slightest fluctuation can make life difficult. Although the benefits are not limited to vegetables and green onions, they are to earn a few more dollars a day and a few less dollars. In order to save, it is also to do everything possible.
Different living environments have different problems to face. If you just blindly emphasize the difficulty of life, you will only make yourself more vulnerable.
Enjoy being alone and constantly improve the energy field of your life. The things that we once thought were extremely important, the hurdles that we felt we couldn't cross, will become less important.
The reason why I am reluctant to contact that person many times is not because I don't want to, but because I am purely troublesome. Because we don't know how much time and effort we're going to spend cleaning up the mess next. People are mutual, and what we want to get, we will inevitably pay the same price.
Enjoy being alone, grow well, and continue to accumulate. Every effort this year is a guarantee for your future self. Everyone's life is bitter and sweet, say less negative energy, do more positive things, and cherish the moment.
