See a sentence like this:
The reason why ambiguity is attractive is that it is a state of love without love, and there is no responsibility.
Ambiguous, above the friend, the lovers are not full.
It's like getting along with each other in the way of lovers.,But I always feel like there's something missing.,It's not as good as a lover.。
Some people are keen on ambiguity, but because they don't have to take responsibility, they don't make it public, and they enjoy the benefits of their lovers, but they can leave at any time.
Although the ambiguity is beautiful, if it is difficult to go further, it is better to stop here.
If you really like it, confess it boldly.
Always chatting in the evening and interacting closely
Night is the easiest place to breed ambiguity.
Don't you think that at night, there will be an ambiguous atmosphere?
The night is shrouded, the lights, the breeze, and there is silence, and it is easy to feel lonely in my heart, and at this time, I am anxious to find someone to talk to.
If there is a person who will chat with you every night, two people lying quietly on the bed, holding a mobile phone, you will feel that the loneliness in your heart is filled.
Even if it's just an ordinary chat, it will be very different in the evening.
When people are lonely, they are most afraid of experiencing the night.
It's good during the day, but it's really tormenting at night.
Men and women interact frequently at night, complain to each other, talk about what happened during the day, sigh about life, the distance is pulled in, and the heart unconsciously approaches him a lot.
When encountering something, the first thing that comes to mind is the other person
Some people describe it like this:
That day, I saw a strange-shaped banyan tree on the street, and my first reaction was to take a picture of it for you to see, and I knew I was finished.
Sometimes, when we like someone, we often can't notice it at the first time, and we will have some hindsight.
When men and women first met, they were still a little estranged from each other.
When the distance slowly narrowed, the two people began to chat, and with interaction, they could not confirm that the other party was the person they were looking for.
Only when you encounter something and think of each other for the first time, at this time, the mind can be determined.
For example, when you see something strange, you see a beautiful scene, you taste delicious food, you encounter something good, and you want to share it with each other for the first time.
When something bad happens, when you're in a bad mood, you want to talk to him as soon as possible, and you can't help but think of each other, no matter if it's good or bad.
This is ambiguous.
Accept the other person's concern and do not refuse his courtesy
Between men and women, "no refusal" is already the answer.
For most people, there will be a sense of boundary in the handling of the relationship between men and women.
If you don't want to develop further, you won't get too close to the opposite sex.
They will keep a certain distance and will not act in a way that misleads the other party.
If the other party is intentional, he will not feel it, and he will not accept his contribution, and there will be a burden in his heart.
Once, starting to accept his courtesy to himself, is actually sending a signal to the other person, suggesting that they can continue to have a relationship.
Between men and women, both parties can't help but care about each other, and will fully accept each other's contributions, and the relationship between the two people has quietly changed.
At this time, it is better to go further generously and turn ambiguity into love.
Ambiguous, it can be very wronged, and it can also be very beautiful.
The key is to identify whether the person is ambiguous or sincere.
If it's the former, don't get any closer and stop the loss in time.
If it is the latter, it is worth paying sincerity and boldly chasing love.