A six-year-old girl in Xuancheng, Anhui Province, can play the double piano at the same time, and no one is as tall as the piano, but she can talk about it easily.
I believe that for many of our parents, they want to train their children to become such "geniuses", of course, our parents have also made great efforts to cultivate their own geniuses, enroll their children in various classes, and constantly urge them to carry out a lot of practice, looking forward to their children can also achieve a transformation in life.
I believe that parents who send their children to various tutoring classes will deeply understand that children often suddenly collapse inadvertently and do not want to continue this, and parents have to put more effort to supervise their children at this time, and even scolding will naturally occur.
Is this a normal phenomenon? And can the children who are disciplined in this way really become geniuses in the eyes of their parents? Can they achieve the expectations that their parents want? Reality often gives many parents a resounding slap in the face, and the vast majority of children will completely give up these "hobbies" at some point, and even never touch the exercises that their parents ask them to complete for the rest of their lives.
Let's take a look at how the little girl in Anhui in the above case raised her child. In fact, her mother is a piano teacher, and the child began to learn to play the classical piano at the age of three and a half, and practiced every day, and such practice was not completed under the supervision of the mother, but the child groped out by himself, which is the result of the child's sincere love.
And when she really engages in her favorite activities, her child does have unlimited energy and will not feel any pain, and her success will come naturally.
From such comparative examples, we can understand that in fact, in everyone's heart, there is actually the concept of "heart anchor", that is, the unchangeable thoughts in our hearts. If we like something, we will use that activity as our anchor, but if we don't like it, hate it as well. With a corresponding understanding of this psychological concept, we will be able to better manage our lives and manage our passions.
Based on this concept, of course, we should take our passion as the starting point for all our activities, and having love will allow us to do everything with half the effort. Of course, it is not only about nurturing children, but also in other aspects of our lives, because of love.
For example, for adults, the most obvious career choice, if we choose our favorite career, it will fill our lives with happiness and open up a more exciting life.
Jiang Lina, a master's degree in psychology from Sophia University in the United States, a national second-level psychological counselor, has more than 20 years of experience in enterprise service management, and is good at individual and team performance management. #热爱##分享热爱生活的理由##成长#