In a child's world, not all the wind and the sun are beautiful.
Many parents are too busy with work to care for their children, and when something happens, it's too late.
A 15-year-old boy in Zhuzhou, Hunan Province, wandered around the building many times in the early morning, and a video of eating after school pierced the hearts of many parents.
The video is divided into three segments.
In the first video, the boy comes home from school.
At the end of school, he rode his bicycle home, looking calm.
He left his bike in the hallway of the door, then opened the door and entered the house.
The grandmother had already cooked the meal, and when she saw her grandson coming back, she beckoned her grandson to eat, and the old man observed it carefully, and saw at a glance that the grandson was unhappy.
The grandmother asked her grandson, "Why is your face so yellow?
The grandson didn't answer, completely ignoring the grandmother's question, and the grandmother stepped aside to clean up her things, maybe the grandmother was thinking, and after a while, the grandson would be in a better mood, and it would be too late to communicate.
The boy sat on the couch, and he ate and watched TV, no different than usual.
Seeing that her grandson didn't want to talk, the grandmother didn't force it, so she put the things back in the room and didn't bother the grandson.
In the second video, the boy wanders around the room.
At about 1 a.m., everyone in the family was asleep, there was no light in the living room, and the boy came out of the bedroom and walked back and forth in the living room.
He obviously had something on his mind, and after wandering for a while, he went to his grandmother's room to take a look, and he might have something to say to his grandmother, but when he saw that his grandmother was asleep, he swallowed the words again.
After lingering for a while, he returned to the room, then walked out again, and after a moment's pause, he opened the window in the passage and disappeared into the frame.
Many people don't understand what happened to him, why didn't he tell his parents?
Sometimes, the big things in the children's hearts, in fact, after a period of time, are small things that are not enough to worry about, and at the critical time, as long as there is someone who can guide them.
He lingered at the door, probably hesitating and tangled, but he still didn't find a way and chose a dead end.
In the third video, people from the property come to the door.
The property inspector found a problem and came to the parents to see if it was their child?
The parents didn't know it, they went to the child's room and found that the child was really not in the house, and they panicked.
The child's mother asked aloud, "What happened? What happened to him?"
The person from the property didn't answer, just asked her to put on her clothes and go downstairs with her, the parents were very panicked, they didn't dare to think, what happened to the child?
Many netizens watched the three videos and felt very sad, and they couldn't understand why the child refused to say what was on his mind?
Some netizens talked about their experiences.
He said that when he was a child, he had similar thoughts, the family conditions were not good, he was more critical of him, there were no sneakers and snacks, he was very inferior, there were uncomfortable things, and he didn't want to tell his parents.
When he was young, he was cared for by his grandmother, and after his grandmother died, he became a loner and grew up in patience and fear.
Some netizens also said that the image of some parents in the hearts of their children has long collapsed, and there is nothing to talk about, such as a nephew who is 6 years old, and when his grandmother urges him to go home, he will push his back, and he asks who can take care of his grandmother, which is a small matter, but the child cares a lot.
There are also netizens who left messages, don't put pressure on your children, everyone has their own life trajectory, and children's emotions are also accumulated over time, if parents pay too much attention to grades, it will be counterproductive.
It seems that the children of this generation are very happy, most of them are only children, and the family conditions are not bad, the grandparents are spoiled, the parents love, and they will have whatever they want to eat.
In fact, from another perspective, we need to see that this generation of children is very lonely.
People born in the 80s, although the conditions were poor when we were children, there were no snacks and toys, but we were very happy, as soon as we got out of school, we would play with our friends in the village, sweat profusely, and forget our troubles.
Today's children, they live in high-rise buildings, they are locked in their rooms after school to do their homework, although they have toys, but who can talk to them?
Parents give good living conditions, but parents are busy with work and rarely sit down to chat with their children, coupled with the expectation of grades, children do not dare to say anything to their parents.
Sometimes, it is a big thing in the eyes of parents, but the child is not able to solve it.
Just like this boy, there must be a desire for someone to understand him, and he wanders around the living room, not hoping to be discovered?
He loves his parents and grandmother very much, and he can't bear to disturb their rest, so he digests it alone, but his ability is limited, which is what stings everyone.
If parents are more attentive and can take the initiative to talk to their children when they return home, they may be able to avoid tragedy.
You have to understand that there are joys and sorrows in the adult world, and there are also joys and sorrows in the world of children, and they also need to deal with their emotions and understand their families.